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  • Well ... first of all it may help if you tell us how old you are... If you are already good friends with her then if you do ask her and she says no it may ruin your friendship... Dont get someone else to ask her if she will go out with you, because normaly they will want to know that it is true, so ask her yourself.
  • It is probably easier to get one if you develop a current friendship. If you know someone well already, you know what you like and dislike about them, and hopefully them you. I don't know how old you are so I don't know what you can do socially together, but suggest doing something together that you both enjoy. The classic one is probably going to the cinema though nowadays many say this is bad because you can't talk during the film, you may differ in what you both like, but why not go to Burger King or something afterwards. It can be a bit scary asking the person, I know, but the reward can definitely be worth it. There is no surefire way, and obviously not everyone fancies everyone else, but eventually you will find someone.
  • Simple. Step by step: )Pick someone you like. )Go up to them. )Start a conversation. )Get to know them, repeat steps 2 and 3. )Ask them out.
  • say if you are 16
  • you need to ask someone out on a date
  • be the nice person I know you are! lol
  • I think the hardest part is having the confidence to approach someone, or to talk to them in the first place. Having good self esteem is very important for you to be happy, and to be confident enough to start dating. I personally believe that the best boyfriends/girlfriends are the ones that you are friends with, first. It gives you the opportunity to get to know them without the pressure of "We're dating, I can't really be myself" and you can also get to know their likes, dislikes, beliefs, etc, and to see if they are compatible with yours should your relationship evolve to the next level. First and foremost, though - as trite as this might sound - learn to love yourself first. Be confident, stand tall, laugh and smile freely, and the world will be your oyster.
  • PrettyPirate's absolutely right. Concentrate on the "friend" bit first. Be yourself, relax and forget all about so-called chatup lines.
  • You don't get a girlfriend ... you cannot find love ... it finds you ... when you least expect it, that special someone will walk into your life ... and before you know it ... you are hooked, with the greatest feelings one could imagine .... LOVE It will all come naturally ... goodluck!
  • Enter this cheat code at the main menu ...no seriously a gf is not something you just get, it will happen at the right moment, trust me ;)
  • Pick, choose, pursue.
  • Let's see, to get a girl friend one must have two things. A wanting to become friends, and a wanting to be with a girl. the two mutually have to co-exist. meaning, they cannot do without each other. usually, you want your first to be your last, or so thats the way I see it, but you'll never know until you try. Like everyone else above me has said, find the friend first. in the friend, you will find more than friendship. once you find something more than friendship, it'll automatically go it's way. there is no need to go and get a girlfriend. if you live your life without needs, and wants, things just come to you :-) that doesn't mean don't be proactive!
  • You have got to have a strong gut to approch a girl that is the hard part. Then ask her if she is interested in going out with you.
  • you unzip your pants and show her tha goods. how else?
  • By finding a girl that you like. And asking her out.
  • Go looking for one ..
  • With difficultly with persistence with luck (in that they like you too) by being brave by taking your time with this girl, don't rush her to a relationship, become proper friends first and by making sure you are presentable to the girl.
  • When someone you like is around make a joke or something. Get noticed. Try to make conversation. Ask what they like.
  • By being realistic.
  • You seem very young.
  • by being really bad to everyone else and dancing a lot
  • Go down to your local shop that sell them. I would suggest to not get the expensive type but avoid the cheap ones as well.
  • I've had UGLY girls ask me out, but I can't get a grilfriend either. I don't care. I'm 17, and never had a girlfriend, I don't care. All they do is NAG, Complain, and control your life. Why do you want all that in your life?
  • Just keep looking... There are a lot in the sea!! LOL... I love blue whales and can't wait to study YOU!! :o)
  • just keep being your self, they will come
  • At risk of sounding mean,just start by having friends, then see if anything special develops. I did not find the love of my life until I realized that what I needed was friends I could trust to be honest with me good or bad.
  • Google David deAngelo on the internet. He has the answer.
  • Be your self because "if i may be so frank" if they wont or cant accept you for you they arent worth a dam
  • When was the last time you saw a girl? Did you talk to her? What did you say? Whenever I was alone I always started by asking myself these three questions. Most of the time I failed to even get past the second one. Act confident. Then they'll think you have money. Have lots of fun, be loud and happy. No-one likes to miss out on a party. Don't go looking for them. Looking makes you look desperate and women are totally repulsed by desperation (sad but true). Every girl I've ever had turned up when I was totally convinced I wouldn't get one. Mostly this happened after I had been doing something exciting, even though the girl didn't know what I had been up to. I've spent way too many years alone and miserable. There's no way I could say I'm an expert on the subject. But this is what I have seen.
  • Method??, I asked her our and she said yes.
  • No method, I gave a half stuttering request and she said yes >_>. Confidence took me up to her...after that It kinda abandoned me.
  • Yup! No any methods that time... Just talking)))
  • She chased me! For 2 years! lol
  • well i was asked out by this guy and the reason i said yes was because i thought it was so cute how he was all red and embarased and hot and bothered and fiddly and stuff.
  • I got my first girlfriend in the back seat of my parents Galaxie 500. Method was a combination of a little liquor, a lot of charm and a sultry Louisiana night.
  • aww i feel your pain. try a little! talk a little, even if it's just about schoolwork.
  • Some people even like reading self-help books about being shy. I'd recommend staying away from critical books that say being shy is wrong. There are some cool ways to think about being shy and you might be able to like some parts of being shy. If you do like the idea of self-help books, perhaps go to a bookstore and spend a while reading the backs of books and pick one up that you like. Even internet bookstores like amazon work too. Peace.
  • First you have to get comfortable with girls. You have to be able to chat with them. If you see one you like, talk to her. slip her your email.
  • I was shy once. First you should try to figure out what see likes. So that way you guys will beable to talk. Try not to be shy aleast find a way to let her know that you like her.
  • Newsflash! Girls LIKE shy boys. Just smile at the one you like, then go shy! She'll do the rest.
  • Good question. I'm shy too. It's funny... I've performed in front of 15,000 people with no problem. Talking to a woman I like, that's a problem. ;) So here's the deal. Find women you have something in common with. If you're in a drama club (or whatever), just chat with the ladies there like anyone else. You're bound to have something in common with someone if you're both in the same activity group. Make eye contact (I know, it can be hard). Smile. Be yourself. Don't worry about what anyone thinks about you. Just enjoy whatever activity you're doing. Eventually you'll meet someone and you'll want their number. Ask for it, and if you get it, great. If not, no worries. At least now you know. And here's the big deal: Don't worry about being rejected. I know that it really, really sucks. I've been there, big time. But you know what? Last night I got one of the rudest, most dismissive rejections I've ever had in my life (and I'm 35). And so what? It's only given me more courage because I know it can't get much worse than that one. So now I've got nothing to lose. Pretty much every woman I approach for the _rest of my life_ will be nicer than that one, so it's only going to get better from here. What will next woman do? Reject me rudely? Been there, done that. It ain't a big deal. Have fun, eh?
  • How to Get a Girlfriend It is usually harder for guys to get a girlfriend than it is for girls to get a boyfriend. For all those who haven't been lucky in the love department, follow these steps to become attractive to women. [edit] StepsHave good personal hygiene. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get a girl. For the most part, just caring about how you are is enough. Wear clothes that fit, and make sure your body is clean. (Keep clean Teeth, trim nails, Tidy Hair, No Unibrows, etc...) Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives the impression of low confidence. Smiling makes a guy more friendly and welcoming. A good walking style,(straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well-distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence. Wearing a large amount of cologne is Not a good idea, wearing 2 or more different types of cologne is an even worse idea, and always remember with your smell, a little goes a Long way. Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation. Go out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly looking for women immediately lower their value. Go out with your friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a bookstore, if you're more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a good time. The Internet does not count. Be funny. If you're not naturally funny, don't try too hard around her. Pitch jokes to other people first and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard winning a girl without humor. "Plant some seeds". Flirt casually with waitresses. Make a passing comment and smile to a girl walking by. Toast a woman at the bar. Then go back to having a good time with your friends. In a short time, you'll notice women slowly gravitating to you. Qualify them. Don't be a jerk about it... but in a fun, playful way, make her prove her value to you. Something as simple as "Are you open-minded? Cool, because I like open-minded people." Talk. Silence is uncomfortable. (On the other hand, women or men who do nothing but talk and never listen can be annoying.) Learn how to flirt. Flirting is an art, and is easily the most important social skill for men to learn. Try taking a comedy class, or talk to her like she's your little sister...but do so with a smile, so she will know you are kidding. Connect with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself that you can relate to. WARNING: If she gives you something like "Oh, I like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique. Instead, ask for more information and then connect with it. Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy. Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too. Don't pretend to be someone you aren't. You may think you will win her over with like mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a common interest, something you both like instead. Show your interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is to avoid it from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but you're fun to talk to." Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your phone so you'll have mine." And once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend do not--I repeat--do not stop the chivalry. Women are too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to show her you care is to continue to do the little things for her. You still need to open her car door, walk her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few hours after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.) Remember, show affection and respect and you'll get affection and respect. [edit] TipsBody language is very important. Be sure to keep a sturdy, upright frame and look her in the eye. Now, be careful not to stare at her either. Being natural is key. If you are nervous, and going out to meet women, be sure to start talking to people as soon as you reach your destination. Chat up the staff at the door, or the people who let you into the party. Be open from the start. Put on great-smelling aftershave or cologne. Research the best-selling ones at department stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the outdoors or tomboy side of things. Some girls detest the scent of cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too much cologne, not too little. Do not exceed the maximum of three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every day. It's the general problem where a person gradually become accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent that they need more and more of the stuff to be able to smell it themselves. You might not be able to smell it, but it's there. Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces. Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated. Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important. Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man. Very important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being. Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer. Be honest and forthright, but not aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel. Don't annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if you absolutely can't go without saying something everyday, at least correct your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly. Don't be afraid to display your affection in public. Dress to match, Black and Whites, Browns and Blues, even if they don't say anything, girls notice. Don't be afraid to touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist. Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule Be Yourself If you're going to the movies, get one large popcorn to share it, and maybe your hands will touch. [edit] WarningsDo not attempt to stalk the lady! Know when she means no! Do not ask out someone too young because they are probably not ready. Grinning like the Cheshire cat can often creep someone out. Unless she likes that, but hey, it's your girl. Taking over the entire conversation is over-bearing and rude. Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection. No one likes to feel forced into doing something. This should be mutual, OK? Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that. (particularly if you have bad breath) Don't make disgusting body jokes, ask them their age or weight. Girls hate that. Don't make her feel like a sex object instead of a human being, unless you're trying to get a loose girl. Less promiscuous girls are turned off by such patronization and bigotry. Source:Wikihow
  • Go into the middle of your town or city where there are a lot of people you don't know. Grab a cup of water and some tinned sardines. For each sardine, dip it in the water, hold it above your head and cry "Oh my fish. Thou art a wet fish. I will devour thee!" and then eat the sardine. Continue until all the sardines are gone, then lament, "I have eaten my last fish. There is nothing else to wet, but myself!". Then throw the water all over your head. You are now cured of shyness. Go home, have a shower and then go and talk to a girl. Any girl. Talk to her like she is a human being. Listen to her. Talk some more. Listen a bit more. After a while, you'll find someone you have stuff in common with. Make her your girlfriend. Go on. You can do it!
  • I'm shy, always have been when it comes to talking to guys, why do guys think its a bad thing for themselves to be shy? sometimes theres nothing more off putting than a guy who's too sure of himself, just relax, not all girls expect guys to make the 1st move anymore, don't put on an act either, be yourself, you didn't say how old you were but why are people always in a rush for a relationship, when its right with someone, shyness dissapears.
  • Mmm if you find a girl you like, but you are too shy to approach her, you could try just asking something simple, like "Do you have the time?" or "Do you know the way to (insert place here)?" Then you could say "oh, by the way, my name is ....." Just start with something easy and basic like that, to introduce yourself.
  • Don't worry, she will get you.
  • Try to join Speed-dating or sign-up in online dating networks
  • Well first you gotta find a girl that you really like, and who also likes you as well.
  • if u see a girl u feel atracted to u introduce yourself and have some talks and if u still like her afterwards u ask for her number then u meet again and talk again (maybe over a pizza) then u go on with the meeting untill you have a connection wait for her to make the first move (might take a while maybe even as long as up to 8 weeks lol ) BUT IT WILL ONLY WORK IF U ARE YOUR TRUE SELF FROM THE START!!!!!!!! and always remember its a secret! - never teach the Wu-Tang....
  • dude i feel ya im 16 inmy junior year and havent had a girlfriend scince 9th grade i am shy so lots of kids think im going to blow up the school or something so cheer up your beter off than some of us

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