If you are trying to avoid a break-up with your spouse, should you really have to TRY to avoid a break-up or is a relationship something that needs care if the love is there?
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TemptressV
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All relationships have ups and downs,we all need to persevere when things appear to be going bad as usually this is a temporary thing. Often some little thing causes us to fall in love again with our SO. Permanent relationships are about sharing ,commitment and compromise...and it is too easy to strike a dull patch or a difficult patch and give up on it all. The truth is,often after giving up too easily,we live to regret a decision to separate. Give it some time and thought,discuss your issues with each other and find the common path...you won't regret it! Of course,I'm precluding abuse of any kind...no excuse for that,should be no acceptance either. Think hard as our relationships are what define us and give our lives meaning.Divorce courts are full of quitters etc..be sure you have done all that is possible before going down that path because no-one wins in the end.
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Yes, you should try and avoid breaking up, nut that doesn't mean avoiding the problems. In order to avoid breaking up you need to confront the issues.
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