Maybe it would be a good idea to ask him?

Grasp the base of the shaft with your hand, leaving the rest of the penis for you to work on with your mouth. I always start with my tongue, gentle licking which becomes more frenzied before taking only the head inside my mouth. Then I gradually start taking more and more in and alternate between different techniques. I start slow, just using my mouth with my hand still and then gradually build it up so I'm sucking harder and running my tongue all over him whilst also using my hand up and down him. What makes my boyfriend go wild is when I rub his penis down the roof of my mouth and then take him as far down my throat as possible until Im gagging. I also like to take him into my cheek and look at him so he can see where his erection is.

Having a tongue ring makes it more exciting. Try that.

As previously mentioned it depends on the guy. Like women, we all have our preferences. It also depends on the moment or the mood. For example, in the morning I much prefer a soothing slow BJ while I’m still half asleep. But if I’ve been making out for a while, dry humping and my level of excitement is really high, I prefer something that will be more along the same tempo. The occasional full throttle quickie is also fun. Judge the right speed for the right moment ;) Personally, I love it when a girl can read me while she’s doing it. I don’t want her to ask me questions while she’s doing it. It kinda ruins the mood and allows my mind to wonder. You don’t want that. If you want to ask questions do it before, while you’re having drinks for example. It will also increase the sense of desire. When I’m having drinks with a girl, and she starts asking if I like my BJ so and so, it really turns me on especially if she starts giving me examples of what I just said. Besides the fact that it tells me that she’s into me, it screams out she’s the type of girl who aims to please. (A keeper!) As for actually technique, again this is my personal preference, but attitude counts for a lot. I’m not saying to turn into a full blown out whore as you do it, tho sometimes its fun ;), but if you convey that you really like it, I’ll love it even more. The best BJ I’ve ever gotten … This girl I had been seeing called me over one night after work. She could tell I was tired and told me she wanted to take care of me. (YAY! I told myself). After a nice dinner, she took me to the living room and had me sit in the couch. Had a few sips of wine and engaged in some more light conversation. Hey, we just had dinner right? She then sat up on me (facing me). She started rubbing my neck and shoulders telling me to relax and let her make me feel good. She undid her blouse, and with the kisses, the massage and the grinding, let’s just say It didn’t take too long before Jr. was starting to make my pants a little tight, I’m sure she could feel my heart beating down there… After a few minutes of massaging, she slowly slid down to her knees while kissing my chest and undoing my pants (always remove the belt completely). That always feels good as it does relieve pressure over the area. She rubbed me slowly with both hands over my loose pants and looked up into my eyes with a little grin asking me “does that feel good baby?” “Just wait you’ll be feeling a whole lot better in a few minutes”. I love it when a girl talks dirty to me btw. She removed my sox followed by my pants and placed them properly next to her (nothing worse than wrinkles). She rubbed me over my boxers and soon removed them. As I was sitting there bottomless, she took a sip of water (important to keep the mouth wet and lubed). As she started stroking me slowly, she mentioned how much she liked my dick and how much she wanted to taste it. (Whoa! She was driving me nuts!!) She really acted as if she was in love with it too. She slowly kissed it, rubbed it on her face. Using the full width of her tongue she licked the head, then around the head, then down the shaft to the balls. At the same time, she lightly cupped my balls. (see notes below) As she massaged and licked my balls, she slowly stroked the shaft with her other hand. (It’s a good idea to always have one hand on the shaft at all times when your mouth is busy elsewhere also lube up the shaft with your saliva, hell, let a little spit drip onto it while staring him in the eyes. Looks dirty and makes us hornier.) She kept my balls cupped in one hand and with the other grabbed the base of the shaft, firmly but not too tight. As she slid it in her mouth she let out a light moan. As if tasting something she had been craving for a very long time. At first, she only inserted the head. I could feel her tongue running over and around the head in her mouth. She removed it and slowly put it back in going just a little deeper. She repeated this a few times slowly, and adding just a little more suction slowly going deeper and peeking into my eyes. Then would take it out and let more saliva run over the head and spread it over the shaft to lube it more. Keeping the jerking to a minimal she then thrusted her face down as far as she could. She paused for a few seconds and came back up for air and went back all the way down. (this also helps in generating saliva). She did this very slowly at first. But as she proceeded she started going faster and faster and then stopped to lick all around the shaft and balls again (still cupped in her hand). Once in a while she would pause, look up and say something sexy (Yum!) The plunged back down. As she could see my orgasm building up, she would slow down to bring me down. Then for the last time, she looked up at me and told me: “I want to taste you. Tell me when you’re about to cum, I want every single drop in my mouth”. OMFG! I was in heaven. She started furiously to pump my shaft with her mouth, cupping my balls and moaning as I could feel my explosion approaching. As requested I told her I was about to bust, she let out a few more moans and came in her mouth. She kept going at the same speed ‘till I had squirted three or four times and then started slowing down and gripped the base of my shaft just a little tighter and stroked me slowly as if to pump the last drops out of me. Once I was done, she just looked at me, with that cocky grin again licking her swollen lips and still massaging me let out one last “that was so yummy. Thank you”. She licked all over again to dry off the area and then used a face cloth she had placed nearby to wipe me off. I was in heaven. ...A few things I’d like to mention: THE BALLS: They are very sensitive. Even if some guys like them sucked, many of us can find that uncomfortable and prefer much them to be licked. The warmth of a wet tongue is pretty good. Also, the scrotum has a tendency to tighten up as we get excited. When this happens, they sometimes push up into us and this can be uncomfortable and sometimes even painful. Make sure you don’t help pushing them in, and actually while cupping them, use your finger tips and apply light pressure towards you (imagine the hand sign for telling someone to “come here” but using all 4 fingers). You can also apply light prostate stimulation this way. Lightly press in the fleshy area about an inch between the base of the scrotum and anus. If you look closely, it almost looks like a wrinkled seam. You can also apply pressure upwards using both thumbs as you give your blowjob. HAND ACTION: Keep it to a minimal, you’re not jerking him off, you’re giving him a blow job! Too many women take away so much pleasure by applying to much hand action! But if he’s too big for you and you can’t go as deep as you would like, then compensate a little with your hands over the area your mouth won’t reach. “When you’re not sucking, you should still be pumping”. Once the stroking or sucking stops because you want a drink of water, you want to give some attention to the balls, you want to kiss him or you want to suck on his nipples we might “reset”. I’m not saying we’ll go limp. I’m just saying, and I think it’s the same for most women; reaching orgasm is a “climbing” physical experience. So unless he’s a two-second shooter, don’t stop the action ;) CUM: Some girls like it, other are disgusted by it. When a girl lets us cum in her mouth it does make a big difference. Think of it this way: when you’re just about to cum what happens if your stimulation changes at the last second? Well, it’s the same thing for us. If you’re giving us the best BJ and all of a sudden switch to hands only as we reach climax, our orgasm will not be as good. Also, if you start pointing our dicks away from you as if to be disgusted by cum… it really is a turn off and a quick way to take a great BJ and turn it into something ordinary or worse, mediocre. If you really don’t want to swallow, then discreetly spit it out into a towel that you’ve prepared for it. Don’t use our shirts. And for goodness sakes don’t start telling us how gross you think it is. We really don’t want to hear that. And for those that like to be a little dirtier, tell him you want it on your face… porno style! It will turn some of us on. ATTITUDE: I’ve always had this saying when it came to my preferences in women: “An angel in front of mom & a whore in bed”. Don’t think that just because you talk dirty during sex that we’ll think you’re a slut in real life. We know you’re not! But we’ll really appreciate the effort! Attitude during sex goes a long way. Look at it from a guy’s point of view. We are visual beings. Why do you think there’s so much porn? That’s how our stimulation works and is simply how we are. PS. If you have a “small” mouth or if the guy is huge, I’m sorry to say that chances are your BJ, as good as it can be, will probably never be mind blowing. Then again, chances are not many girls have been able either. Accept it, and find other ways to compensate (spit, dirty talk etc…) Also, I’ve never noticed any significant difference with or without a tongue ring nut that’s just my opinion. Hope this helped ;)

Check on the internet there are a lot of site with tips.

was that chick in that story a hooker or a porn star? Sounds like a skank

First of all you cant be shy about what your about to do because that kinda kills the momment. Relax abit and enjoy it because thats what guys like. (Ive had plenty of experience). Lick around his ears and neck that increases his level of hornyness. Gently kiss down his chest all the way down to his cock whilst slowly taking his pants off. Talking dirty at the same time makes the moment alot sexier and less boring :) After you've taken his pants off smear a little spit or lube on your hands still talking to him dirty. Stroke your hands up and down on his cock circling your tounge around his knob (he will like this). Slowly start bobbing up and down on his cock making sure at the same time your tounge is on his cock aswell.

4 things I can think of straight away that improve blowjobs for me :- Girls with big lips Lipstick Lots of spit, as in seriously drowning the cock amounts of spit Tongue piercing Oh lip rings are good aswell!

watch a lot of porn