Would you get engaged at 14 please tell me the answer?

No!

Non!

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Não!

Nein!

No matter what language you say it in, abso-freakin-lutely NOT!!!

No, as I don't think any 14 year old is in a good position to know enough about life and their future to determine whether to accept or not. I was 14 when I met my husband to be, he was near 19 and even though I was sure he was the one I would never have considered binding myself to him permanently yet. I got engaged at 17 and we married at 18, still married 35 years later. But we only got engaged after knowing each other very well and talking about the future, what we planned to do with our lives, children, religion, careers, where we might live, finances, everything! I just don't think that a 14 year old is ready for all that.

Looking at your question made me spit out my chewing gum!
Bloody hell! Certainly not!

Me,engaged two years ago,please don´t make me laugh!

Hell no!

ugh NO. a person still grows and changes after 14. their personality and styles may (will) change. a person is still evolving at 14. youth is very precious. it should be enjoyed

Hell no. I'm 26 and don't want to get engaged.

Absolutily no chance, you may love her, but dont even consider it!

The answer is no.

To who? There are exceptions to everything. If Scarlet (or the equivalent from when I was 14) came a knocking to be my sugar momma? You damn right I would've.

No! Honestly, I think that's too young to even have a serious boyfriend/girlfriend.

Come on, be serious. You probably just got your pubes! You have to be an adult, to do adult things. Getting married is something you do when your mature enough to deal with what comes with living and supporting yourselves.

Depends what cultre and county your in

Somtimes people think its ok

I DONT

No. At 14 I had no idea who I was or what love meant or the seriousness of such a relationship. I am certain I would grow out of the relationship.

I don't think I would want to.
I am 25 and I still need more experience in life to keep doing the right things ... and taking the right decisions..

No and if I had a chance for a do over I wouldn't have gotten engaged at 18!!! You do not know yourself at that young of an age and you need to get an education and live a little before you settle down. If you committ yourself to one person that young you will be sowing some wild oats in a couple of years and probably end up divorced.

Never - you have years ahead of you of time spent kissing frogs before Prince Charming comes along. Enjoy your youth, don't get tied down into adulthood yet. Save those exciting moments for when you are older.

Only if I wanted to ruin my future.

When I was 14, I probably would have, but at 35 I now realize how foolish and immature that would have been. I would have missed out on SO much, at 14 you think you could never love anyone else, that he is the one, that you will be together forever etc... it's just not realistic, you will love others, you can't even imagine at 14 what true mature love is, in 10 years you will be a diferent person with diferent views, tastes, wants, don't tie yourself down.

No. No I wouldn't...WAY to early.

Not even when I was 14. You have almost no life under your belt at that point. Got to live your own life a bit first. It's so much harder to go to college, parties, etc. when you have a family.

No, of course not. This is the 21st century, and I never want to get married anyway. Have as much out-of-wedlock sex as you possibly can while you're still young.

I probably would HAVE but knowing what I know now definatly not.

No.I would've missed out on all the fun I had up until the time I got married.Childhood should be a time to have fun.

nope (not a chance)

14 is a little young

14 is waaay too early. Would you're fiance just live with your parents and you?

I'm only a couple years older than you, and I have been engaged on a couple times. Every time I ended up with a broken heart, and no ring. I really don't encourage getting engaged at your age, because I doubt it will work in the long run. People change way too much as teenagers.

I know myself from being a teenager, life changes so fast at that age, what you want one season may be drasticly different from what you want next season. But if that's what I really thought I wanted, yeh, what the hell, life's too short to wish you had gotten engaged. And besides, what does engagement bind you to? nothing in reality.

I would have, because I was so in love with my boyfriend... and at 18 we're still together.
My grandma got married at 15, and was happily married until my grandfather passed away. She loves him dearly and hasn't been herself since before his death. He was her everything.
But, I think it really depends on maturity.... But, mostly, my answer is no.

sure you can but it really wont last. people mature too much throughtaht time to know for certain ya know?

Sweetie, you are still living your childhood, enjoy it while it lasts. You are only 14 once :) Wait until you're older. I got engaged at 19 and married at 21. I'm now 24 and am very happy. I waited to date until I was 16 and the guy just turned out to be an immature jerk. Wait for your time to come with an older mature man along with you! You won't regret it, I promise!!

You're grounded!

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No never, people need to wait this kinda stuff out. Wait atleast three or more yrs before you rush into it. Make sure you got a great job and a steady home. Engagement is a huge thing money,love,commentment, and greatest of all death do you apart. Make sure you really wanna spend the rest of your life with this person, 14 is young and doesn't have alot of experince. Experince is important, you will make a mistake if you move to fast. Enjoy being a teen while it's their, you'll never get them yrs back. Hope my advise helped!!!

NO! Absolutely not. At age 14, you are a CHILD. I remember being 14 - I was extremely horny, impressionable, arrogant, and cocky. I thought I was more mature than most people my age and that I was ready for certain things, such as sex. I am now 25 and I see that I was so incredibly naive at 14. I really was just a child, even though I didn't feel like I was.

For the record, I don't think any couple should get married at any age, unless they feel they want to start a family together, receive tax benefits, settle down because they've done everything they wanted to as a single person, and/or because they are happy spending every waking moment committed to one another. Any one of these reasons would support a marriage.

No way. at 14 you have no idea what love is. at 14 your understanding of love is based on disney movies. Go to school, exopereince life and others. Dont get wrapped up in the small details.

Absolutely not. Not only are you too young to know what you want out of life, you don't even know who YOU really are yet. Trust me on this one.

There are too many experiences you will lose out on by doing this so why cheat yourself?

Very likely, no. Unless you both have some very open minded parents, you won't be able to actually get married for several years. It's going to be a long engagement and both of you will grow over time - your engagement (and eventually marriage) is likely to become one of those things you stay in only because you've been in it so long (and people who do that usually aren't very happy). Do your own thing first (for your sake and theirs), get to know what you want and who you are before you tie yourself to another person forever.

No!

But I suppose if a 14 year old were to try, it wouldn't be the stupidest thing they did that day. Let alone that year...

Probably not, but who knows. I remember when I was that age I knew girls who believed they were engaged to their boyfriends. They would go around saying that, but that is all. They never began to plan a wedding and when they broke up none would try to reconcile. None of them where together by the time we graduated from high school. If I heard of a 14 year old engaged I would laugh to myself.

HELLLLLL NNOOO. dnt do it. as far as committing to someone if you feel ur ready do it but DO NOT MARRY THAT YOUNG. its almost impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone when u dont really know ur self yet...your still growing into an adult and u never know if u will still find that person and their traits attrctive 5 yrs later...not only that u may grow to resent them for holding u back from things that normal teenagers enjoy like dating going to parties etc...

Hell no!!!

NO NO NO NO NO NO Nor at 15, nor at 16 nor at 17, nor at 18! i am 23 and when i look back i have had about 4 or 5 boyfriends that i thought i loved, but your just too young to know what love is. only know do i know i have found the one!:) x

ive just ask mi gf to marry mi and im onli 14 so i would yh

no way your a kid yourself. you dont even have your drivers license. how you gonna pay for stuff when you dont even have a charge card. your to young. way to young. not old enough to even know about the real world. im 18 and just now buying a car and getting more independent. 14 is not even to old enough to live with the person and see how you get along.

no but if your in love just stay bf/gf until your 18 if you guys are still togeather maybe consider moving in togeather maybe get married try out other ppl tho it is possible to find ur love at 14 but unlikely there are more fish in the ocean and you should try some more before you pick for good... :)

Absoulty not, I mean love is patient, it can wait if it's true.

you are just starting your life as a teenager.....so of course not......why get engaged when there is a world out their waiting to be explored

No, that's to young for me.