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ive just ask mi gf to marry mi and im onli 14 so i would yh
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Absolutily no chance, you may love her, but dont even consider it!
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Hell no. I'm 26 and don't want to get engaged.
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Looking at your question made me spit out my chewing gum! Bloody hell! Certainly not!
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No, as I don't think any 14 year old is in a good position to know enough about life and their future to determine whether to accept or not. I was 14 when I met my husband to be, he was near 19 and even though I was sure he was the one I would never have considered binding myself to him permanently yet. I got engaged at 17 and we married at 18, still married 35 years later. But we only got engaged after knowing each other very well and talking about the future, what we planned to do with our lives, children, religion, careers, where we might live, finances, everything! I just don't think that a 14 year old is ready for all that.
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Me,engaged two years ago,please don´t make me laugh!
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To who? There are exceptions to everything. If Scarlet (or the equivalent from when I was 14) came a knocking to be my sugar momma? You damn right I would've.
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ugh NO. a person still grows and changes after 14. their personality and styles may (will) change. a person is still evolving at 14. youth is very precious. it should be enjoyed
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No! Non! å¦! Não! Nein! No matter what language you say it in, abso-freakin-lutely NOT!!!
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Hell no!
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NO NO NO NO NO NO Nor at 15, nor at 16 nor at 17, nor at 18! i am 23 and when i look back i have had about 4 or 5 boyfriends that i thought i loved, but your just too young to know what love is. only know do i know i have found the one!:) x
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No and if I had a chance for a do over I wouldn't have gotten engaged at 18!!! You do not know yourself at that young of an age and you need to get an education and live a little before you settle down. If you committ yourself to one person that young you will be sowing some wild oats in a couple of years and probably end up divorced.
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I don't think I would want to. I am 25 and I still need more experience in life to keep doing the right things ... and taking the right decisions..
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No! Honestly, I think that's too young to even have a serious boyfriend/girlfriend.
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14 is waaay too early. Would you're fiance just live with your parents and you?
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No. At 14 I had no idea who I was or what love meant or the seriousness of such a relationship. I am certain I would grow out of the relationship.
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The answer is no.
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14 is a little young
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nope (not a chance)
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No.I would've missed out on all the fun I had up until the time I got married.Childhood should be a time to have fun.
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I probably would HAVE but knowing what I know now definatly not.
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No, of course not. This is the 21st century, and I never want to get married anyway. Have as much out-of-wedlock sex as you possibly can while you're still young.
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Not even when I was 14. You have almost no life under your belt at that point. Got to live your own life a bit first. It's so much harder to go to college, parties, etc. when you have a family.
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No. No I wouldn't...WAY to early.
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Depends what cultre and county your in Somtimes people think its ok I DONT
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Hell no!!!
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When I was 14, I probably would have, but at 35 I now realize how foolish and immature that would have been. I would have missed out on SO much, at 14 you think you could never love anyone else, that he is the one, that you will be together forever etc... it's just not realistic, you will love others, you can't even imagine at 14 what true mature love is, in 10 years you will be a diferent person with diferent views, tastes, wants, don't tie yourself down.
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HELLLLLL NNOOO. dnt do it. as far as committing to someone if you feel ur ready do it but DO NOT MARRY THAT YOUNG. its almost impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone when u dont really know ur self yet...your still growing into an adult and u never know if u will still find that person and their traits attrctive 5 yrs later...not only that u may grow to resent them for holding u back from things that normal teenagers enjoy like dating going to parties etc...
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Probably not, but who knows. I remember when I was that age I knew girls who believed they were engaged to their boyfriends. They would go around saying that, but that is all. They never began to plan a wedding and when they broke up none would try to reconcile. None of them where together by the time we graduated from high school. If I heard of a 14 year old engaged I would laugh to myself.
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No! But I suppose if a 14 year old were to try, it wouldn't be the stupidest thing they did that day. Let alone that year...
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Come on, be serious. You probably just got your pubes! You have to be an adult, to do adult things. Getting married is something you do when your mature enough to deal with what comes with living and supporting yourselves.
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Very likely, no. Unless you both have some very open minded parents, you won't be able to actually get married for several years. It's going to be a long engagement and both of you will grow over time - your engagement (and eventually marriage) is likely to become one of those things you stay in only because you've been in it so long (and people who do that usually aren't very happy). Do your own thing first (for your sake and theirs), get to know what you want and who you are before you tie yourself to another person forever.
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Absolutely not. Not only are you too young to know what you want out of life, you don't even know who YOU really are yet. Trust me on this one. There are too many experiences you will lose out on by doing this so why cheat yourself?
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No way. at 14 you have no idea what love is. at 14 your understanding of love is based on disney movies. Go to school, exopereince life and others. Dont get wrapped up in the small details.
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going to tell you the truth, so don't be giving me neg. rateings. hell No, at 14 what i thought was love was way off from the truth.get out and meet people befor you decide to spend your life with this one. if your still with this person when you get a little older then get married.
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Only if I wanted to ruin my future.
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HELL NO as u grow ur personality changes and at the age of 14 ur personality is still changing. also u have not learned enough about love to figure out whether it is true or not.
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Not a chance.
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What's the point? I mean, develop yourself. You have the rest of your life to be married.
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If it was 1808 instead of 2008.
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well im 15 and i know i sure wouldn't....i have fallen in love twice and neither worked out and i really thought at the time i would be with both *not at the same time* of them forever, so no way to early to decide, if you love eachtoher enough you can wait for that step
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I would not get engaged, but i did end up getting engaged to the girl i started dating in 7th grade. It was just a relationship that clicked, she moved away for two years and we still talked, and she did come back. Trust your heart, but use your head as well.
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i never say this on AB LMAO no!
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OMG. stop it! you have the rest of your life to get married! each year you grow into a beautiful, new person and your ideas and thoughts about you and your life change. enjoy your youth while you can
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I would say No. I think no one should get married before 25 years old. Having said that, some people get married at 17 or 18 and have great marriages. Overall however, it is best to wait until your body is done growing, have matured emotionally and have a clear idea who you are. Also to keep in mind, it would be helpful if you are situated professionally before getting married. Perhaps this means completing college, or just having a steady job, but the #1 stressor in marriages is money so it is best to consider this as well.
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i would say no because maybe its not love and it would end bad take time to be a kid. stay a kid as long as you can cuz once you have kids you dont have a life anymore
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No. Firstly because when I was 14 the guy I was seeing took me to a comic book convention on our first date. But no, I would wait till I was old enough to understand the responsibilities of marriage before signing the 'contract'. The guy I dated at 14 and I are best friends btw, hes the sweetest most socialy akward man on the planet.
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Are you nuts?
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Absofkalutely not :)
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hell no
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NO! Absolutely not. At age 14, you are a CHILD. I remember being 14 - I was extremely horny, impressionable, arrogant, and cocky. I thought I was more mature than most people my age and that I was ready for certain things, such as sex. I am now 25 and I see that I was so incredibly naive at 14. I really was just a child, even though I didn't feel like I was. For the record, I don't think any couple should get married at any age, unless they feel they want to start a family together, receive tax benefits, settle down because they've done everything they wanted to as a single person, and/or because they are happy spending every waking moment committed to one another. Any one of these reasons would support a marriage.
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no, only if I had a kid
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No Way
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No.
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i have a different view! Engaged is not that much of a commitment as long as you wait a while 2 get married, i got engaed at 15, admittingly it didnt work out but it wansnt my age! i got an amazing experience of true love and caring for him and being cared for, i had the i can tell him anything experience and i never once regretted accepting his marrage propsal! im now engaged again and every where i went wrong the 1st time round i can learn from im still only 20 and been engaged for over 2 years, getting married next year!
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No, No, No and oh yes ... NO
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no way not even if i lovev that person with all mu heart cuz after that things change
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NO. Absolutely not.
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I know at 14 things are becoming much more clear, and its easy to think we are ready to make more and more serious decisions. However, step back a second, think how much you thought you knew at 10 years old, now think about how much more clearly you see things. Your understanding of the world around you has easily doubled or tripled, but I am here to tell you that by the time you are 21 you understanding of the world and the way things are will easily have doubled or tripled from the way you see things now. So really, if a 14 year old shows a little wisdom, they will answer their own question with a "No, for now..." and keep expanding their horizons a few more years before seriously considering Marriage.
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No, I'm 21 and not engaged yet, still need more ME time
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No never, people need to wait this kinda stuff out. Wait atleast three or more yrs before you rush into it. Make sure you got a great job and a steady home. Engagement is a huge thing money,love,commentment, and greatest of all death do you apart. Make sure you really wanna spend the rest of your life with this person, 14 is young and doesn't have alot of experince. Experince is important, you will make a mistake if you move to fast. Enjoy being a teen while it's their, you'll never get them yrs back. Hope my advise helped!!!
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I never would have. It would take too much of my time to reach my goals.
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HELL NO!!!
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Even if you were able to, I would never do it. That's just crazy..
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Well engaded as in "I will marry you in 4 to 9 years ... will you? " Well I would ... :] im not that smart with relationships ... :(
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Nooooo...you will be amazed how much changing goes on in the years between 14 and 18..That is way to young to be engaged. :)
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Are you Crazy?!
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Absolutely not. Get an education and make something of your life.
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That's far too young. I got married at 18, and I changed. I'm still changing in early 20's. It's funny, because from the age of 18 to now, I have gone through 3 epiphanies where I was going in one direction and my mind and desires did a complete 180 turn in the opposite direction. You will change. Even though i don't completely regret it, I still wouldn't do it again if I was 18 again. So my answer is wait. Wait awhile.
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I wanted to marry tarie setbacken in preschool, moved in first and got over her in 7th fell for maria andrews, and got over her in 10th grade. I am one of few guys who never thought girls were icky and always wanted marriage. I would say one should not try to choose a spouse until they have completed the basic educative requirements of the society in which they live. for americans, that is HS graduation (18), in a third world nation that is learning a trade (could be as young as 12) without society, we are adults the day we hit puberty.
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No freakin' way.
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That would be tough because things change a lot during those years.
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That'd be a pretty stupid decision.
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no and you would have to be stupid to even consider it. if its true love hell still be there at age 20 and 25 so dont do anything stupid!! ur parents would kill you if they knew you were asking this question
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO - well, you get the idea.
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No. 14? You're crazy. That's just plain weird.
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it is up 2 who ever wants 2 not up2 other people
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You're grounded!
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i wouldnt have.
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HE11 NO!!!!!!
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nope i wouldnt..
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I wouldnt. Just because youre 14 and your still growing and maturing. And you change alot while your a teenager. You guys might grow apart after a few years. Plus maybe you havent found your true love yet anyway. Id wait.
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I would not get engaged at 14. It might seem like a good idea at the time but you do grow old and you do mature much more. It is not impossible to make it work, but is close to it. Give yourself time, do not get engaged for the wrong reasons like pressure, blackmail, and above all...LOVE at 14.
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no way. if i had got engaged then i would have regretted it later. at 14 you think you know what you want but between 14 and 20 you do a lot of growing up and your tastes change and you realise whats most important for you and get to know yourself much better and the light is cast on things. I know being 14 is hard because you want to think you have grown up and look for independance but just enjoy being a 14 year old!
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I can't since I'm now 48 - but if I was 14 I'd say hell no! Wait till you finish you education before you get engaged - that way you wont be distracted from your studies and can "play around" abit. 14 is a stupid age to get engaged at - 28 is far better!
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noooooooooooooooo, i woulnt get engaged at 18 or even 20, you need to enjoy those years. your time will come enjoy your youth ,25-30 is a good age or later
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no way never in my life. even if we loved eachother more then anything. You need to experience life out there in order to really know what love means.
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never
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Gosh no. I wouldn't even get engaged now.
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nope its way to young, you haevn't experienced anything!
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if you are in a third world country it isnt uncommon, however, their way of life is quite different. You are very young and have so much life to experience that if you truly are in love and you are meant to be together, you can still make that commitment some time in the future. I dont know what you want out of life but a good education is a good start.
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Are you kidding me? No No NO!!!!
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Sweetie, you are still living your childhood, enjoy it while it lasts. You are only 14 once :) Wait until you're older. I got engaged at 19 and married at 21. I'm now 24 and am very happy. I waited to date until I was 16 and the guy just turned out to be an immature jerk. Wait for your time to come with an older mature man along with you! You won't regret it, I promise!!
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Sure, if I had a severe terminal illness and only expected to live few years more. Otherwise, I can't imagine it'd be a fruitful experience.
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ya y not
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Nope..and neither should you..or anyone. At 14 you haven't had a chance to experience anything yet. You've only just begun..
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No, I'm over 30 so it's is now impossible
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No point.
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NO, I'm 14 now and I can't even keep a girlfriend for a month.
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THE ANSWER IS NONONONO! TRUST ME!
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