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  • Make sure and remind him that the little things make or break the relationship, and that's he's starting to stray off the beaten path.
  • because unsure of what your reaction might be, he lies about it - just in case you either (a) nag him or moan about it or, (b) take the piss out him and laugh. In short, he is not sure whether or not you approve. He's a bloke and sometimes, if you want them to know something, you actually have to come out and tell them - directly. Wait for him to guess how you feel about this and it may be a very, very long wait. It's a man thing. If you want him to stop then you should come out and say that you don't mind what he does and that the only thing that irritates the hell out of you, is when he makes up some excuse which you both know, is rubbish.
  • People lie for all sorts of reasons, so I cannot say why your boyfriend does it, but some that I thought of are: 1. subconsciously, he sees you as someone like a mother figure and he resents being accountable to you, so he lies to avoid 'getting in trouble'; 2. knowledge and information are power; he wants to be the one with the power so he withholds information to prevent you from having the power; 3. he enjoys keeping you off balance and lying does this for him; 4. he doesn't know that you don't mind if he goes to the arcade; or 5. he's just messing with your head.
  • People lie to avoid confrontations and or lectures of ANY sort. Maybe your boyfriend has lied his entire life and feels he has to lie to live a 'normal' and 'adjusted' life. It doesn't matter if you don't care that he plays video games after work.. the fact of the matter is he's a professional liar and that is bigger than what it seems. If they lie about the little things you can bet the farm that they will lie about the big ones.

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