What do you want different?

well, it doesn't. It just puts you in a different social standard, and usually in a negative way (why, i dont know). I guess theres a long standing tradition that it should be this or that.. not option c. I think there should always be a third option.

Huh? This question makes no sense to me.

Personally, after many years trying it every way possible it seems, I believe that sex is the fundamental energy source of the universe, call it "God" or "the fundamental energy source of the universe". Dr. Wilhelm Reich, who started the psychoanalytical Society with Freud then was kicked out because he asked too many questions and sought too many answers, went to prison for investigating "orgone energy", the basic energy source of the universe, and what we feel (a little bit of) during orgasm. I can tell you from experience that once I began to have half hour orgasms, I also began to understand how vastly underestimated sex is. This is just the tip of a very large iceberg, but using yoga techniques, Dr. Reich's, and many others, which I eventually began teaching to couples in workshops in Switzerland and California, I discovered why Wilhelm Reich may have had to give his life up in prison (he was jailed for some alleged misuse of his orgone energy generator). The techniques Reich (and the yogis of old) developed are very powerful but when done as a couple, the power increases exponentially. Besides the personal growth and feelings of ecstasy that come automatically, without striving, when two people come together with this intention, it also appears to work like relationship "glue". I've seen married couples leave workshops looking like young lovebirds, when they had only been making one last stop on their way to divorce court, and people who didn’t know each other the day before the workshop, walk out looking like lovers who'd been together all their lives. It's pretty powerful, once we ALLOW it to be what it is, and don't hold any expectations of ourselves or others to be less than who we are. Have I made myself clear? -lol!

I have to apologize for not being clear enough. There are two things I can think of in opposition to my experience with these powerful techniques and practices: 1-To the degree I come to it with no expectations or agenda, my own experience of the divine orgasm will have a beneficial effect on my own life alone. It is not only a fallacy to believe otherwise, it is the fastest way I know of to scuttle the experience; 2-Other than those I come into direct contact with during the experience, such as my partner, I believe no one and nothing is strongly-affected by my personal experience of the divine in my orgasm except, possibly, my children, but for garden variety parental reasons! Ironically, one thing my eleven-year-old rocket scientist likes to point out to me is that, "The beating of a butterfly's wing in India can cause a hurricane in Florida." And when you think that billions of nutrinos pass through the earth's core, as well as the human body, like the wind, without even slowing down...