Why do people like me if i hate myself?
by 
earlysunsets2013
ANSWERS: 14
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You must be a good person and they must have a lot of stake in you.
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Because they love you despite your flaws. You, instead of being able to overlook them, focus on your flaws.
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Maybe they saw something in you that you don't see in yourself. My advice is be confident believe in yourself though you think otherwise.
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they have a better view of you than you do!... i commend you for being so humble☺☺☺☺☺☺☺
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We aren't as smart as you.
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Because you are special.
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You see yourself as a work-in-progress. They love you for who you are with all your indents, which you are intent on fixing.
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What a beautiful question. I think it's because it is hard for you to look at the good things about yourself, and instead look at the bad things. For example, if you have a zit, you choose to focus on the zit as opposed to, say, your beautiful eyes. Other people do just the opposite. Thank you for posting this question, because, in answering it and thinking about it, i realized things about myself that i otherwise would've looked past. Again, I thank you.
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Because generally, no one is worthy of hate. If you hate yourself, then chances are that you're not seeing yourself accurately. It's often hard to see your own positive traits because you're so close to yourself, and it gets even harder when you're feeling depressed.
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i dont know. provide a broader information
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because they dont know the real you.
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Because they love you for who you are, the good and the bad, I was in the same frame of mind like this for a very long time. You just have to find what makes you happy (reading, writing, music, art, gardening, sculpting, etc.) and do it. Lift yourself up and you will see what others have seen for so long. Don't be afraid to seek professional help if you still feel depressed, I never thought I'd need to, but it really makes a difference once you find the right therapist. Talk it out, write it out, draw it out...release your emotions in a productive way.
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lol I don't know...I have the same problem or situation...maybe its because they aren't around us 24/7 like we are...or it could be because we judge ourselves harder then everyone else we know how fucked up we are and yet we remain this way...it seems people need people....hell Kurt Cobain seemed to hate himself and he has always hard a large following of people... a attraction to destruction...or possibly people want to be saviors...sacrificial lambs to the slaughter... I don't know man if you find the anwser e-mail my ass black_bile8@yahoo.com
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because those people are making their own decisions of what they do and do not like based on their own lives and their past. They find something in you that you like even if you don't see it.
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