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Dont date a guys who is older than you until you are over the age of 18 for starters and second of all if you met him over myspace have you met this boy in real life yet? I would consider the fact he is a sexual predator.
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The age difference is kind of a big deal at that age... so your parents probably would freak out. But you have to understand they have your best interests at your heart. So I would talk to them about him, and then have him over to meet your family. Give them a chance to get to know him. Hopefully they approve, and if they don't and have legitimate concerns, you should reconsider the relationship.
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If he does meet your parents the first thing he has to say is something along the lines "I know I'm o;der then your daughter, but let me just tell you, I am not going to do anything to your daughter, I'm not that kind of guy" and he need to sounds like he's being 100% if he dosen't, they'll be thinking: "has my daughter had sex with this guy already, or will day?"
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You're 14? My God girl, 14 is too young to be dating at all(in my opinion), much less dating a 17 y/o. A 17 y/o has MUCH more experience than a 14 y/o. I could see it is you wanted to "hang" (not date) a boy your own age, but dating a 17 y/o at your age is rediculous. Your 17 y/o "boyfriend" should know better! If I were your Mother I would certainly "freak" (as you put it), and do everything I could to prevent it. Slow down. You'll have plenty of time to date as you get older and more mature. Also, PLEASE be very careful about who you connect with online. There are too many risks nowadays with young children on the internet. Too many nuts out there preying on unsuspecting children.
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just wait till you're older.. and never do anything wrong..
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well i no exactly how ur feelin, same thing happened to me, but he was 18 and i was 14/13,, well he wanted me to keep seeing him all the time, and my mom found out, and freeked out, and i got in sooo much trouble, so my advie, WAIT for a a cuple of years.
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Trust me im 17, all he wants is sex and your a bit young. Also he's a pervert
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To put it bluntly, find someone else to date. The only thing you've listed in your question are potential problems.
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I also was attracted to older guys when I was around 14 and 15. The best thing for you to do would be to just wait until you're of age because at your age it's only going to lead to drama and confusion. It'll be a lot easier and a lot less stressful and more enjoyable if you wait until you're legal because you won't have to hide your relationship.
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"Trust me im 17, all he wants is sex and your a bit young." --- "No he's not... We beleive in abstinence and he even has a purity ring to show it." --- Your response speaks volumes darlin'...if you don't believe a 17 year old boy, believe a 36 year old woman, ALL HE WANTS IS SEX. C'mon everyone over the age of 25, let's all say it together...
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you are lucky you didn't meet a rapist or a child molester.... if i was your mother, i would lock you in a tower.
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not everyone is a perv or sex obsessed. I'm not asking whether or not its safe to b with him I already kno the answer( yes). I am asking for advice on when and how to tell my patents that the guy I'm dating is 17... And that I'm even dating. --------------------------------------- I never stated that he is perverted. He's 17. It's normal for a young man to want, think and have sex at his age. You need to stop trying to grow up so fast and think you know the ways of the world. When you gain the maturity (which comes with AGE) to realize this, then you're ready for a relationship. Until then, concentrate on your education, it will take you farther in life long after this young man is gone. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up...you'll be an adult A LOT longer than a child. Cherish these times for they are fleeting. But then again, it looks like you've got it all figured out, so what do you need us for?
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