Its just entertainment like watching a movie or sport!

I watch an awful lot of porn...in the hour of so a day I commit to my porn ritual, I get my rocks off 2-3 times a day watching a complete set of strangers moan and groan their way through some of the raunchious stuff I have yet to even imagine. Strangely, my gf is not offended by this; she had more of a problem with me going to a strip club to serve as DD for a buddy. Much like the porn being broadcast onto my laptop, the strip club is a place of pure entertainment. They provide a very unique service that is entertaining, but definetely not life-changing! Very few guys (especially those in a relationship) actually go into a strip club trying to hook up with a stripper. We go to watch them dance around in scantily-clad, see-through, lingerie complimented by fish net stockings. We go because we ARE in a committed relationship, and we DON'T want to cheat, we just want to feel wanted by someone else...it is an important part of maintaining our self-esteem (how crappy does it feel to know that your partner is the only one on the planet that finds you attractive out of 8 billion people). We go because beautiful women whisper compliments in our ear and convince us that they genuinely enjoy our company (for $1.00). We go because we can flirt with women that under the light of day, we would never talk to. We go because no where else provides a service that will have an attractive young woman (in lingerie) provide us with 30 sec of her attention for every dollar that we place on her g-string. Believe me, if Denny's offered this service, your man would be at Denny's at 1am on a Saturday night instead...because you could eat and be entertained :) For example, over-priced Hooters' food sucks, but men would choose Hooters over Applebee's any day of the week. I absolutely love my gf; in no way do I love or respect her any less for going to a damn stip club. Watching half-naked women wiggle and contort their bodies while working their way through college is sooooo unimportant when put up against the value of risking a relationship that has been built on something real and not some 30 sec fantasy with a stranger that was paid to stroke my ego before I went home to my true love. It is a ridiculous and insecure notion for both sides...I love my gf enough to not go, because I would rather not go and be with her than be single and lonely in a strip-club without her.

Go with him!

You shouldn't need to worry. It's a "coming of age" thing. Every man has to go to a strip club just like a woman has to go to the mall and shop with her girlfriends.

Get your SO and go together.