ANSWERS: 6
  • It sounds like your relationship needs a little more maturity. People don't cheat because they think their partners are cheating (though that would be childlike justification); they cheat because they want an easy way to satisfy desires and lack the respect necessary to build a real relationship. That your boyfriend uses drugs at all with two children to care for is inexcusable and it should probably be addressed. It sounds like you love him and given that and the fact you have two children together, his honesty may be a good first step to creating a strong foundation. But the immature behavior has to stop.
  • Sounds like a copout to me. the use of drugs was bad enough, but his sexual behavior is very questionable. You two have two children? why are you still with him? it happened before and will happen again. he has you tied-down with children, while he goes out and has his fun. what's wrong with this picture? If you have somewhere else to go, then go. you are in for a lifetime of suffering.
  • his kids will mean alot more when he pays child support every month, take every dollar you can get out of this selfish guy
  • The drugs alone should make you leave. A few one night stands is not a one time thing, he will continue to do so. You need to get kids and get out. He can't even accept responsability for what he did, he is blaming everything but himself. Go get tested for all STDs, send him the bill along with the child support order and find yourself a man that is capable of monogamy and respect.
  • I know you might feel like you have to stick to this guy because you have children together, but that does not mean you are a healthy match. You are not married to him. You can leave any time you want. Cheating on you because he thought you cheated is not a good enough reason to cheat. That's stupid. It just goes to show how much he didn't trust you. Oh, and he does drugs. Do you think that inviting him back into your life is somehow going to benefit your children? Is that the kind of example you want your children to have? Do you really want to be with someone who has sex with other people just for the hell of it? By the sounds of it, he's cheated on you with not just one person , . . . but more than one. Do you think that's healthy? It's good that he's come clean to you, but hopefully he came clean to you because he actually does want to work things out and not because he wants to dump his guilt on you to relieve it. On a final note, you may want to get tested.
  • That's really sad but I honestly don't get what your question is.

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