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  • Yes, I think there is.
  • Sure. Legitimate ones are rare though, its hard to keep negative emotions out of break-ups.
  • Yes. Many people are able to realize a relationship is not functioning in the capacity they had hoped it would and as such .. agree to let it go and move on from it :)
  • Yep. Been there, done that.
  • yes, and you save big bucks by not arguing over anything. my first devorce cost only five hundred dollars. I agreed to pay it. why not. i was working she wasnt. we sold our house. she got half of the gain. i got the cats, she got the dogs. she went to mexico with her new girl friend. i was depressed for three years. LOL.
  • I think there is, but I always have the sneaking suspicion that one person might want it a little less or a little more than the other;)
  • Yeop absolutely. I find that it is better when two peoplemutually agree that thye would be better off, maybe in the end they can end up improving what was wrong and back together forever. There is always a way if theres a will.
  • Yes. My last boyfriend and I did that. Things really just weren't working out and we both knew it. Breaking up was the best thing.
  • Sure... My ex and I grew apart. It wasn't a HAPPY time for either of us, but it was amicable and mutual. (We didn't want the kids to grow up - 12 and 13 at the time - thinking that the way we were living was the RIGHT way to live.
  • Yes, it is very common for two mature people to realize that they are no longer a good fit, and each one will move on to a better relationship.
  • Yes it does happen. A few days ago my girlfriend and I decided to break up. We both confessed that with our new work/school schedules we didn't have time for each other. This was the first time in over two weeks we had seen each other and sometimes went a day or two without talking at all. We realized that the stress of being apart was holding us both back and decided it would be best to go our own ways. I think right now the best thing is to see other people, and we've agreed to meet again in a month and talk. Maybe by that time we'll decide we did make the wrong decision, or maybe even the right one. It's also possible that we might want to keep things as the are a while longer and discuss things again after two or three months. Whatever happens happens for the best.

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