Do you think helpful people really change your life, or do you resent strangers intruding into your life?
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Jackey
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Helpful people do not help unless you choose to allow them to help. You don't change until you're ready to change. This is the basic principle of all therapy. I can help you change if you're committed to change. But even the wisest advise can be resisted.
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A little of both, if I ask for your advice and I think it is good advice I will take it... but if I don't ask you and you stick your nose in my business.. lets just say I'm not a redhead for nothing.
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It is a delicate thing to try to help someone when that help is unwanted or not needed, it would look like intruding, as you say. If someone helps me but keeps a respectful distance, without meddling in personal or private matters, I'm grateful.
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