No, you have every right to go out to explore other options...go girl! Marriage shouldn't be a bondage or hindrance for girls to "serve their husbands and children" You should take control of your life

No you are frustrated.Reach for the stars you are young and the sky should have no limits.You started a family early.That is brave.I got at least ten years on you and you got half of what I ever wanted.So darling find a nanny or good babysitter.Go back to school.Find what you think is a or your purpose.But remember to be a mother is a gift and the best reward we can ask for.Treasure your little miracle.They grow up fast.

You can go looking, but you DO have to remember that the past three years was NOT "wasted". 1) You have been raising a child, full-time. This is something MILLIONS of working mothers would LOVE to do. It's great that you can apparently afford to do so. Raising kids right is the the HIGHEST calling for a parent, and the most imporant thing they can with their lives. 2) Housewives normally do more work in one day, than many people do in a week. You have NOT been doing "nada". Besides the child, you have kept your house, fed you child and husband, run the errands your husband can't because he works (VERY few positions in the real world will allow you to go to the day care, pick up your child, take them to the doctor, spend the time there, take them back to the daycare, and go back to work. It would be MUCH more than an hour, especially if you commute to work.) DO NOT feel that you are lost. You are a nurturing mother, getting the child ready for life... You are a TEACHER, a CHEF, a MAID, a LOVER, a BUTLER, a BAKER, a TAXI DRIVER (or you WILL be!), a LAUNDRESS, a VALET, A PERSONAL BUYER, a GROCERY SHOPPER, and MOST of all you are a MOTHER. MANY women figure out a business they can do at home, so there IS no daycare. SOME have become amzaingly rich from things they've created, designed, etc. IF you go out to work, you MUST remember the added costs to your bills: of GAS (for the commute), vehicle maintenance, daycare, etc. Keep all of the above in mind when you are looking for a job. You will still need to do the majority of those "jobs" when you're working. Good luck! ;-)

Thank You for your answers I really do appreciate the feedback...It's very helpful

i am 35yrs old i feel the same.no kid's

Go to school. There are many REPUTABLE colleges and universities that offer online courses that will apply to a degree that you can finish inperson later. With that piece of paper many doors will open up.

there is something for you out there....the past three years was not a waste of time.for three years at least you have served your family.but now that you are looking for progress,well thats not really selfishness.everybody desreves progress in their lives. and thats a good thing if you are aiming for it.you ARE STILL YOUNG,there will be opportunities for you.my mother have had been a housewife for 14 years.but then she went abroad..there she found a nice job,as a nanny.then she became a receptionist on a huge company,and now another company is offering her a position as a manager.she never graduated a college degree...there are lots of opportunities out there,you just have to grab it when they come to your life.you are not selfish.youll be more selfish if you would forcing yourself to avoid doing something that you really want.

The past three years weren't a waste. You're only 20 years old. Loads of people who are married and have children go back to college and study for a career. It's not selfish to want a better life. Just enjoy you're child while he/she is still small...