What do you think it means when someone who has wronged you in the past, refuses to talk about the wrongdoing, and gets very aggrevated when when you try to inquire about certain aspects of their actions that you've yet to receive answers to?
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You can not spend your life dwell on the past and you cant force someone to talk about things they dont want to talk about. There are some things we will never get the answers to and it is up to us to decide what the next action will be. We can only control what we do. If you dont want a friend like that it is best to just let it go and walk away, as much as it may hurt us in the end it will only make us stronger.
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This happened to me. My brother gave my daughter drugs and derailed her for years. My family refused to talk about it and were angry that I continued to bring it up. They wanted to ignore what happened and keep doing "family" things together like always. When I said that my daughter could never come in contact with my brother (who was continuing to deal drugs) they were furious with me. I was the bad person, I was the one who was breaking up the family. How did I interpret it? That they would sacrifice their own niece and grandaughter to keep up their denial. I don't speak to them anymore and since my brother is now in prison, they lost him too.
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This happened to me with my first love of whom told me over and over again he'd quit drugs, but kept going back to them. He also cheated on me twice. He acted this way towards me when I would ask questions or bring things up and it means that he isn't wanting to take full blame for his actions.
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