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by anonymous on October 23rd, 2006
Ok, I'm a teenage girl, and I'll tell you why I like older guys. I don't know if you have ever dated a teenage boy? If so, you will know that they are usually disgusting. Seriously, if I wanted someone to talk to my tits, I would hire a midget. My face is up here thank you very much! Then, they can't keep their hands to themselves. Most are rude, obnoxious, self centered and can't keep it in their trousers. At least some older men show some respect (though in my experience also find it hard to keep their hands to themselves). This is why I have decided that I just don't want a boyfriend, and will live out my life as a crazy cat lady spinster. If a guy can't go for more than 5 minutes without trying to grope you, I personally don't want to know
(Oh, feel free to rate this down, it was just getting some things off my chest)
by lady fuschia on October 18th, 2006
You really need to get a teenage girl to answer this for you, but seeing as I used to be a teenage girl, I'll give it a go.
Most of the reason I preffered slightly older men was because 19- 25 year olds, I'm afraid to say, are generally a lot better looking than 13 - 16 year olds. When I was a teenager the boys my own age were generally spotty, scrawny, badly dressed, and obsessed with computer games, Baywatch, and terrible music. Most of them spoke in grunts and started acting like idiots when their friends were around. Most of them I couldn't perceive having very much in common with. In truth I probably didn't have very much in common with the older guys either, but because I wasn't around them on a regular basis I could convince myself that I did have something in common with them without having to find out otherwise.
I think there's also a certain amount of prestige in going out with an older guy at that age, it somehow makes you feel as if you must be more mature. Maybe the car is part of it, but I know plenty of guys without cars who are the subject of teenage crushes, so I'm guessing that's a relatively minor issue.
You should also note that even amongst adult women its quite common for the man in a relationship to be a few years older than her. Perhaps for the same reason most women prefer a partner who's taller than them - it gives them a feeling of being protected. (Just a theory)
by penaltybox on January 27th, 2007
choose to believe it or not... but girls mature, both physically and emotional, faster than boys.
Personally i've never been able to stand guys my age... there immature and perverted (not that all guys arn't, lol, but you catch my drift). I've always been attracted to older guys because i can relate to them more, and actually have a meaningful conversation with them. They may physically be "older", but mentally they are on the same level as me...
[being able to drive is a bonus though, lol :P]
Nikki
by BadJuice420 on December 10th, 2007
Well, first off, women mature 2-3 years ahead of men, so already that sets a girl up to want a guy at least a couple years older. Also, since they achieve sexual maturity earlier than men, those boys that are in the same age range still look childish, and often act childish too, where as older guys tend to look more masculine, act more sensibly, etc. There's also the caregiver mentality, that is, a woman usually wants a man that can take care of her, and a rough indicator of that could be age. Also, there is the society factor, that is, society puts emphasis on older men being more attractive on all levels.
Case in point: I matured early. By the time I was 13, I was shaving, and by the time I was 16, my hair was graying. My voice finished cracking by 14, and I was through puberty by 15. At the time, I was shy, but talking to former class mates, it turned out that many girls had crushes on me because they thought I looked distinctive and also thought I was alot nicer than the other guys my age. Unfortunately, I was too shy/conservative/naive to capitalize on my assets, so to speak, and spent high school lonely. Now at the age of 23, I have a head of hair that is about 25% grey, and look like I am 30. Consequently, most of the women I date are actually 25-26, as they usually think I'm 30 or so until I tell them my actual age (which is always a surprise to them). It's not really an age thing, but more of a physical/mental/emotional maturity thing. Because of my life, I appear to and have matured to what I think is about the level most guys are at when they are 30. Already, I'm majorly toying with the idea of settling down and raising children in the near future. This mentality seems to attract women in their late 20's, even though I'm actually young to them.
If you are a guy trying to get together with girls your age, but they are all dating older guys, or that seems to be the trend, here are some suggestions:
Maturity. Cannot be stressed enough. Listen when they talk. Help them with anything they seem like they want help with. Play the quiet and supportive role. Take long walks with them. Talk about your future and your life with them. Don't let forceful emotions phase you, and always maintain control over your composure.
Appearance. Not so important, but worth mentioning. Stand up straight. Look them in the eye when you talk to them. Try to appear confident (confidence, bar none, is the sexiest thing a guy can have). Be assertive with your posture, lean forward slightly when they talk.
Mentality. Big one here. Remember, you aren't trying to be her next guy, you are GOING TO BE her next guy. Don't come out and say it bluntly, but do make it part of your general mentality. Try to be caring and supportive, almost father-like, young girls tend to like guys that appear protective, supportive, and genuinely concerned about them. Also, don't give in to your emotional side and confess all sorts of love for them, not at least for the first 3 months or so. The second the girl in question starts seeming and hinting like she likes you, don't be dumb and don't turn the throttle up full blast, that may scare them. Recieve their affection in a non-chalant way, while still appearing like it means something to you. You don't want to seem like you want them as much as they want you, that would make you 'lose the game' so to speak.
But if you really want my advice... Shut up and be yourself.
And if you are a girl asking this, you should ask yourself 'why does it matter?' Mostly because it doesn't. Just try to be with whoever makes you happy, but don't appear obsessive.
by Hatchet ryda on February 8th, 2008
Because the guys are more mature then the younger guys. But still girls still dont like juggalos that well..
If there is any fam here...
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by jrbowler on October 20th, 2006
Girls mature faster than boys, physically and emotionally. Most teenage girls probably consider most boys anywhere near their own age hopelessly juvenile, and they are probably right.
Someone, I can't recall who, once said that a fourteen year old male is a little boy, but a fourteen year old female is a young lady.
by luminessence on December 24th, 2007
Being a 16 yr old teen i prefer the older men 18+ because they are more experienced in how to act around a girl, they also have this charm about them. They know what they want and due to this they are definitely more confident in themselves. When a guy is confident the girl will not doubt him, and this makes the girl like him much more as a sense of security/safety.
I think money might have an impact, but not a big one as it is the confidence and experience which is the main point of why girls like older men.
by cupcakexcutie on December 10th, 2007
i am currently dating an older guy, but it's not because he can drive [and it wasn't when i didn't have my license either]. i lean toward older guys because i find that teenage guys, or younger guys/guys my age, are, as a whole, rather immature. also, they are very "bros before hos." now, i don't mean to say that one should ignore their friends completely, but there comes a time in your life when your significant other is more important than your retarded friends.
for example: my ex boyfriend was only a month older than me, but he was very into his friends and video games [and drugs] and not me. a healthy balance between friends and your girlfriend is important, and a lot of times, younger guys don't get that/can't do that.
frankly, i think that older guys have a better understanding of what girls want; they've had more experience and have made more mistakes, and therefore know what to do and what not to do. they also have a better appreciation for the sweet things their girlfriends do, because they have either had shitty girlfriends or have had girls get mad at them for not being grateful.
it's a trial and error thing. they have tried, and erred, and are the better for it. experience. it all boils down to experience.
by Anonymous on October 29th, 2006
being a teenage girl i would have to say that an older guy makes the girl feel more safer. The car is an added bonus. There are more than one reason though to go for an older guy but it depends what kind of girl you are talking about, for example one girl might like an older guy because he has more experience. Others would go for one to feel safe and protected and others go for them because guys their own age act like complete idiots.
by pepe09 on October 18th, 2006
A lot of young girls want to be mobil and get out of the house. A guy with a car can mean independence for them.
by anonguy on March 19th, 2008
because the older guys have had more experience gaming and wooing women. granted if their game was any good they would probably go after girls their own age.
it doesnt take too much to convince a high school aged girl that she is "special" and "much more mature" than her friends, and this is what predators count on. it doesn't hurt that the girls play into it with their constant need to be so much more mature. i am of the conviction that if you feel the need to prove your maturity by dating an older guy then you probably aren't as mature as you claim to be.
speaking from experience... i am a 21 year old guy, and i know for a fact that my sister's 15 year old friends think im the bees knees. i could have any one of them because my age makes me cool to them. but i dont want them, and any normal guy shouldnt... i am too busy with girls my own age, and im quite happy not being a pedophile.
by Scarlets walk on December 24th, 2007
hate to be crass but isnt sex one of the main answers to this question?
by DandyLion on December 10th, 2007
Ummm me being a teenage girl here's my two cents.
Older boys are much more mature. Plus they are taller, better body etc. Which girls like... :)
And the boys are age who are mature already have girl friends. :)
by bianca graham on April 9th, 2007
well i'm 14 and honestly i dont like older guys cause of the fact that they can be controling and can take advantage of you. but its good and bad things that come wit havin an older boyfriend. older boys can be more mature and protective but they can also rush you into things thay you may not be ready for. it all depends on who you as a person attract.
by Smurphy on March 30th, 2007
I think the better question is why older guys like younger girls so much!
by Brighid on February 7th, 2007
Wow, it's really hard to answer when I think everyone has already covered everything that I wanted to say, but I think I'll have a go at it.
I nearly always went for the older guys and have not once dated a younger guy. I always felt myself to be much more mature than even the girls of my own age and therefore, did not get along with most of the guys. Generally, they are more respectful, more mature, and have a stronger grasp on reality and life. Of course, there are exceptions to this, I know because I've met a lot of them. And most of these immature guys end up being my friends which is why most guys my age and younger end up being cool with me.
Older guys are more confident and also built more to look like what they might as the years pass. Teenage boys are so awkward looking. o.o It's really scarey sometimes and a lot of the time, they are shorter than the girls. That was one issue I have. I absolutely won't date a guy that is shorter than me. It is really weird to do that and if you don't care, good for you.
The car, money, and job thing just kind of adds to the fact that older guys are more mature. It almost proves that they are responsible and mature if they can handle a job and car well enough to actually have money.
Oh and if you're the type of girl that is a hopeless romantic, you love the older guys because they might actually have a clue as to how to show their affection. There wont be any torn pieces of paper with "I like you" or getting tripped and picked on by a guy that likes you. There might actually be normal affection like hugs, kisses, holding hands, sweet conversations. I think that is what every young girl dreams of. Heck, look a Cinderella!
by Sunblynd 5.0 on October 30th, 2006
Yea...thats it kid...because they can drive. Actually young promiscuous teens prefer older guys because most have jobs, and jobs mean he has money, and money means he has his own place and a car, and the means to obtain drugs, tobacco, alcohol, and condoms. In short older men seem more stable to them and this is what attracts a females attention more than anything...security and stability and the opportunity to escape from the mundane. These factors all open the doors to sexual promiscuity with teenage girls, when your older and can browse the darker side of the internet you will figure it out on your own.
by Anonymous on October 26th, 2006
They feel cooler if theyre dating an older guy. That being said, older guys who date much younger girls (ie 20 year old dating 16 year olds) is pretty much a huge loser. any guy will tell you that if a guy is dating much younger girls, he was a loser in highschool, and is a loser now.
by Halskiisaklink on October 18th, 2006
Different people have different tastes. A lot of teenage boys like older women. Also, a lot of teenage girls like teenage boys, and visa-vera. You may just have a unique perspective.
by Louie91 on November 14th, 2006
Hey I'm 15 and I didn't read the other messages so I might be repeating someone. I prefer a slightly older guy because I feel so much more secure due to their maturity, but with that maturity there is also SOMETIMES expectations from him. I have never been with an older guy who expected anything from me, I was open to try things with them. Infact, surprisingly, when I finally decided to date someone my own age I was expected to do a lot more than what I was from the older guys. My parents got very angry when they found out about me being with older guys but it's only because they expect that I will do things that I'm not ready/comfortable to do, which I understood and broke up with them. Basically, there are a lot of different reasons, for me its the maturity and how I feel protected when I'm in their arms. Hope I gave u a new inpoint on the strange minds of teenagers :)
by Shikatie on August 7th, 2009
im 16 and all the guys my age are so imature. guys mature later in life, its not their fault, but thats why i like older guys. ...oh yeah and they can drive, gotta love that:)
also ive noticd that teenage guys only get with girls so they can get some action... any one else think that?
by RAM on July 30th, 2009
NO...IT'S NOT THAT....IT'S JUST BECAUSE OF BEING A TEEN..
by Shavale is very happy on June 8th, 2009
Read: Young and stupid.
Teenage girls think that they are getting a man who is experienced and not a "horndog" but what kind of a man dates jailbait?
Sorry if I'm being a little too blunt here.
by Twista on May 19th, 2008
Because they can drive them right, let's put it this way))))).
It's a balance between her own insecurity and his authority. Woman's soul is looking for a shelter in a man. A man with greater life experience than a teenaged guy gives her that sence of security, imho.
by LuvHurts on March 4th, 2008
he reason o like older guys is because yonger guys are icky and immature!!! and older guys have more experinence!! :-D
by sexybeachbum on January 22nd, 2008
I have learned older guys have more respect for girls, and older guys are more mature...
by ImagineMEandYOU on December 24th, 2007
i like guys around the same age maybe its cause i've had my own car for quite some time.. haha
by SweetSteph on December 10th, 2007
I'm a teenage girl myself and I can tell you that, the guys that run around the lunch area,scream/yell,throw things, and consistently talk about getting into a girls pants is NOTHING a girl wants. We want security,independence, and comfortability. I have dated guys my own age, and I can't seem to find much of that in the ones I have dated. The have yet to figure out that girls strive to be treated like a lady, and they are clueless to the fact that sex is not the only thing in the teenage girls mind(though, i know it is on MANY a girls mind,that is no lie) But older men seem to have more experience in the world an know from past experiences how girls like to be treated. Though there are the older guys that have yet to awaken to that fact also. But, a thing to always watch with a guy, younger or same age or older, is the sex. He may be able to treat you right, but there is no doubt sex is most likely on his mind at least 30% of the time. Not say that they will push you to sleep with them, though some will, but after awhile MOST of the guys get tired try to wait for it. But I still go for the older guys, at least they don't act like TOTAL asses in front of me..
by SweetSteph on December 10th, 2007
I'm a teenage girl myself and I can tell you that, the guys that run around the lunch area,scream/yell,throw things, and consistently talk about getting into a girls pants is NOTHING a girl wants. We want security,independence, and comfortability. I have dated guys my own age, and I can't seem to find much of that in the ones I have dated. The have yet to figure out that girls strive to be treated like a lady, and they are clueless to the fact that sex is not the only thing in the teenage girls mind(though, i know it is on MANY a girls mind,that is no lie) But older men seem to have more experience in the world an know from past experiences how girls like to be treated. Though there are the older guys that have yet to awaken to that fact also. But, a thing to always watch with a guy, younger or same age or older, is the sex. He may be able to treat you right, but there is no doubt sex is most likely on his mind at least 30% of the time. Not say that they will push you to sleep with them, though some will, but after awhile MOST of the guys get tired try to wait for it. But I still go for the older guys, at least they don't act like TOTAL asses in front of me..
by Peetee on December 10th, 2007
It's an animal attraction thing. Girls like older guys, guys like younger girls. Some scientists will give you a great big spiel about women and fertility and men and being powerful enough to look after a family.
When you hit 21, 16yr olds look absolutely gorgeous. When you're in your thirties, girls in their twenties look ten times better than they did before. You think, "How come there are only one or two beauties in my class but so many in older / younger classes?" Your brain is wired that way.
Yes it did annoy me when the most gorgeous girls in class were taken by older men but luckily I don't have to worry about that anymore.
by robocop on October 20th, 2007
IS there anything wrong with a 25 year old male going out with a 16 year old girl and finding them attractive?
by iwnit on October 14th, 2007
I suppose they like their daddy.
by xXBeckaXx on October 14th, 2007
i am 14 and like boys my own age, boys older are cocky and full of themselves, treat a girl like a person and she will like you.
by Anonymous on October 2nd, 2007
Im not really into older guys, i think its nice to be with people your own age who you can relate to, this is just my own view though.
Generally Girls mature faster than guys so this may be a reason for going for older guys.
I think it also depends really on what type of relationship your looking for Generally i have found that relationships with older guys tend to be more serious.
by Lindzdog on May 2nd, 2007
well im a teenage girl and my last boyfriend was two years older than me, but he didnt have a job or a car, i would only ever date a guy no more than 3 years older than me and i would date a guy my age aswell...it doesnt really matter how old they are or what they have as long as you like em!
i ahve never understood why girls at my school had 20 yr old boy friends all i know is that the boys hated it!
by wezsox on April 24th, 2007
I don't think, in my case at least, that the car always makes or breaks the fact that teenage girls like older guys. I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 14. I get a lot of bad looks and words from people because of our ages, but like I've told everyone, we understand each other completely and we have a lot in common. She says that she doesn't like any of the boys in her class and I would have to say the same about the girls in my class. Our relationship is based on understanding mainy as I said and she is very mature for a 14 year old so we feel comfortable around each other even though others look down upon it, including my parents.
by Blonde Devil on March 28th, 2007
Wel here u go, typical 15 yr old talkin here, n i personally think blokes our own age r 2 immature, n older guys appeal much more 2 us. Plus u have the added bonus, of avin a car which is awesom :-)
by younghusstla101 on March 27th, 2007
I am a 17year old guy. And alot of 14 and 15 yearold girls have crushes on me. Girls mature faster and at a younger age. So the boys that are the same age as them seem so imature and gross. This is normal and very common. And also other stuff comes into play like a deep voice can make a 15 year old girl melt. Facial hair. Height. A job. A car. Stuff like that. but its also a phase that is short lived once the young boys catch up.
by singwell-is off researching a lot on February 18th, 2007
that could be the case with some girls, but that just means they are immature, and have immature priorities. I think it is normal for girls in their teens to look to slightly older guys, because most girls go through puberty about 2 years ahead of the boys of the same age. That would mean, therefore, that a girl of 16 would be more similar development-wise with a boy of 18 or 19. This evens out in a few years. My husband and I are the same age, but I wonder what I might have thought of him had we met when I was 16 instead of 21. :-)
by Nessalicious on February 14th, 2007
Okay well i am a teenage girl and i know exactly why they go for the older ones. Most of the time its because of 2 things:1)They are older and have the money,car,freedom,and they look good next to older guy that can protect them. 2)Most of them are mature. Freshman girls especially like Sophmores and Juniors because they are mature. Girls mature faster than boys so a boy their age at this time is not what they want. They want someone who is at their maturity level. NEVER AN IMMATURE GUY. But the downfall to that is the guy. He might get teased that a little freshman girl goes out with him. If she looks good or doesnt look like a freshman...he wont care. That right there is maturity.
by radiantradha on January 27th, 2007
because they are more EXPERIANCED and wont be too shy to call, or stuble at kisses, and could take us out dancing and to romantic things, cuz they know what we want. in a way, we trust them more not to screw it all up.
by abz1991 on October 23rd, 2006
alot of teenage boys havn't quite cut their strings i think thats why girls prefer older boys because maybe they signify a more free person without strings like mummy and daddy holding them down, also teenage firls consider men, and a car is also appealing.
by XxSpoofiesGirlxX on October 18th, 2006
I believe that girls at a younger age are always curious about what it is like to date the older more popular guy when you are in your teens.It is usually the reputation the guy has to be considered as the cool, everyone wishes they can date this guy kind of frame of mind. from personal experience i tend to date guys who are older too, wheter its the macho man image that i went for as I was younger, Im sure it was that curiousity which I just stated. Now being 25, I was involved with someone who was 35 and he and I clashed, we didnt have too much in common as he was not as mature as I tend to be, and we were on two different wave lengths. I believe as you get older you look beyond age as its just a number and maturity is the one of the keys to how a man and woman will progress along with trust and other characteristics.
by Latina.Mami on August 5th, 2009
it doesnt have anything to do with the car. i have a bf thats 5 years older and me and i go after older guys because their hormones arent jumping all over the place, and theyre more mature.
some of them cant keep their hands to themselves, but unline teen boys, if an older guy's true to you,
you can tell
by Katiejane184 on August 4th, 2009
i agree with all of the answers previously, girls really do mature much faster than guys do. girls like guys to act more mature like us girls. We dont feel that younger guys are quite on the same page as us.
by karakara on June 24th, 2009
Older guys seem to be a little more mature. No more laughing at burps and playing stupid mind games. Older guys know how to take care of themselves and they are just independent. Or, it could also be for attention, or to "one up" someone. Ya know, everyone is different.
by tibby123 on May 20th, 2009
its just sometimes they are just soo much more mature!!!!
by searching on May 13th, 2009
Base on my experienced, teenage girls do really like older guys so much is because most of them are quite know what's the right things to do when girls are with them. I'm a guy and i am 19 yrs old now so i can differentiate the attitudes of a teenage boys to the older one. The older one cares about his future that girls like the most unlike the teenage one that only cares what will happen during the day. They wasted their time in none sense things like playing games all day on computer. They are not also conscious to their body unlike older guys. I hope this answer of mine will help you a lot.
by Blondie on May 13th, 2009
yeah I am a teenager and date older guys because they are more mature.
a month ago i decided to go out with a guy my age and it ended HORRIBLY! he was so immature so i am sticking to at least 2 years older.
by no dosh on November 18th, 2008
its because we know how to treat them right i am 48 and i always try and date teenage girls in fact i am looking for one now i am seperated and have a good job , and also they appreciate a older guy wanting them rather than just a young guy shagging them i am not condoning younger guys as i was young too and i did exactly that but i grew up and learned more about women so i will keep looking you never know some teenage girls might be on here looking for someone like me x
what do you do if two girls like you but you dont know who the other is?
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Could me and my boyfriend last forever?
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 months and we hardly talk or anything.. Any suggestions of what we or I should do? (:
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i cheated on my boyfriend and now he always thinks i'm cheating on him. we been 2gether for 2 years. how do i get him to trust me?
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As you are a teenage girl - I think its pretty safe to assume this is probably one of the more accurate answers.
by lady fuschia on October 24th, 2006
And yet I get a B. It's sad how the world works. I challenge every single one of you to date a 15 year old guy, and see what it's like for yourself!
by anonymous on October 24th, 2006
If my memories are even remotely accurate, this answer is right on target
by LynfromNM on October 26th, 2006
I am the parent of a 15 y.o boy, and I completely agree with bored. I don't think my son is particularly better or worse than any other 15 y.o. boy, but he hopeless socially - something to do with hormones I guess. I can only hope he will grow out of
by jrbowler on October 30th, 2006
Tell him that if he just, you know, calmed down a bit, maybe he would be better socially.
by anonymous on October 30th, 2006
If ya ever need help gettin it back on yer chest let me know babe. (Meeeyow!)
by Sunblynd 5.0 on November 26th, 2006
good answer!!
by Phrenia on January 27th, 2007
I definately know what you mean!
by haightashbury on February 14th, 2007
If you had a penis you wouldn't be able to keep it in your trousers either BAM, sorry, had to drop those two cents in after re-reading your A. lol.
by Sunblynd 5.0 on February 14th, 2007
Yeah I agree with you. But not all guys are like that. I'm not like that. Great answer!!!!!!!!!
by Anonymous on February 16th, 2007
I know what ur talking about older guys are just a lot mature .................
by Anne Frank on February 16th, 2007
Sunblynd: yes thank you! Alanpro777: I know, you being a prime and very good example, and thank whoever there are still people like you.
by anonymous on February 27th, 2007
Why thank you Emmarie, what a nice thing to say.
by Sunblynd 5.0 on February 28th, 2007
not all 15 year olds are like that im not and i can assure you of that but i do agree some are just stupid.
by apv452 on March 11th, 2007
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by younghusstla101 on March 27th, 2007
Majority of guys are like that though... but not all. There are some decent guys.
by Anonymous on April 5th, 2007
Wow. thanks for being honest - my girlfriend had that problem with her ex. But honestly, I just want to take care of her - I don't want anything sexual. Thanks for talking about it, BAM.
by littowadey on April 10th, 2007
I had to laugh when I read your comment but it is absolutely true. And it holds true the older you get. You can always find someone willing to feel you up. Finding someone that respects you is a little harder. When you find the guy that does both, that's when you marry him!
by Kuuipo125 on April 29th, 2007
good answer, it is very true!!
by Bri_Nash on May 1st, 2007
true!!
by violet182nemo on May 13th, 2007
hah. Youre cool =)
by Anonymous on June 28th, 2007
I don't know why, but I just loved the end comment of, "it was just getting some things off my chest". Haha literally!
by Castrate on July 9th, 2007
ok, I'm a teenage male that just graduated High school a couple months ago, and I have to say that I Agree with you about how immature some teenage boys can be to the extent that it also depends on what kind of "boys" you're dealing with. For instance, if you start talking with a teenage male that you thinks he can get whatever girl he wants by grabbing their ass, then what can you expect. But if you want someone that will at least treat you a little more decently, then lower your standards on the way they look, and look more to how they treat others and their personality.
by johnny on July 19th, 2007
Amen to that.
by Phrenia on August 5th, 2007
i have two friends like that, just can't keep their hands to themselves. It pisses me off to no end.
*ima guy btw*
by Wolf Of Time on December 9th, 2007
hahaha me too, the worst is when the guy grabs the wrong girls ass. "your girlfriends ass". thats just asking to get knocked out.
by Spreadthelove069 on February 10th, 2008
WOW! That was the greatest answer ever.
by Happy to be me on April 9th, 2008
ouch.... sounds like you ran into the bad few... just because of one dont degrade us all. I wont down rate you but, thats just mean....
I'm 16, had one long relationship broke up because she cheated. I can say a few bad things about girls but i don't since i know not all are bad just the few.
by The Infamous Johnny on May 18th, 2008
same here johnny...i mean im 17 and ive never had a real boyfriend or been in a relationship....its not like ive never dated bcus i have...the only thing is that the guys i dated i guess werent the best of them. but yup, i still havent lost hope and i know for sure that they are not all the same... im crossing my fingers lol
by Lovely Aries on July 31st, 2008
Always look on the bright side. I have been in very abusive relationships and I just gave up on guys because I figured they were all the same. And when I stoped looking that is when I found the love of my life.
by Mandy1993 on August 30th, 2008
Good for you Mandy! Goes to show ya that they are out there. I think that if more girls cared more about how a guy treats them rather than what he looks like, and having a boyfriend the abusive stuff could stop. Not all guys are jerks.
by Happy to be me on August 30th, 2008
Play fair! not all teenage lads want to get stright into the rough. Just find a decent bloke and shaft the ones you dont like stright away.
by Domo131 on September 23rd, 2008
sorry to hear you have had such sad experiences. Nice answer. Pts.
by science_geek on October 19th, 2008
AMEN!
by .wishes.on.stars. on October 27th, 2008
Omg i totally agree with this girl.
by Jay on November 29th, 2008
now now dont give up, i know there is at least 1 out of 10 guys that can keep it in their pants.
by Ralvera on December 26th, 2008
omg u took the words right out of my mouth :>
by surferchick on January 29th, 2009
lol, you must be in pervy parts of the world :P
But I must agree a lot of guys are "horndogs".
But a lot of them just let their testorsterone get the
best of 'em. Iunno, I don't think I am like that, I
prefer to let the girl make some of the first
moves to let me know when she is ready to move
on from the normal stuff into more serious stuff.
BUT YEA, Iunno. I'm almost 15 sooo... yeh, a lot
of the immature guys are like that. Just find a mature
doode and it should be aight to date someone Thats not older.
((stay away from the fatty's and the totally inexperienced.
Most will be gross or just plain frigid and boring))
by JorgeToth on February 6th, 2009
Good news not all young men are like that! i would get to know someone first. Let them know you want to take it slow,etc. Have faith believe me not all men are dogs!
by Raven on March 15th, 2009
I'm with raven on this one. You can't make an assumption that all teenage boys are perverts. When I was 14, I didn't even know how to even kiss a girl until my current girlfriend grabbed me herself and kissed me. If all you know is pervs who just looks at your breasts all the time then that says a lot about who you hang around with, and who you hang around with usually describes you as a person.
by YamiLink03 on May 10th, 2009
umm yea i dont know what older guys you where talking about, the only difference is theyre more mature with it..
by C.Kattz on June 17th, 2009
I'm convinced I'm going to be one of those crazy cat ladies as well. All I hear from boys my age is sex talk and jokes. I don't have a large chest for them to stare at, but when I turn around, I see them looking at my butt. Unbelievable.
by uknow2 on August 8th, 2009
I thought I was going to be one of those crazy cat ladies too, I thought all guys were only after one thing and didn't care about girls. But then I met my bf now, whos a year and a half older than me and everything I could ever want! Beleive me girls, its worth waiting around for mr right! (Btw I waited till I was almost 19 - so you 15 year olds RELAX!)
by jesster on November 5th, 2009
Very good point,so older guys like me (29 years)are more pollait...Yes,I agree,but there are always some foolls...
by robertini on November 6th, 2009
im a teenage guy and im nothing like that. you probably had some bad expiriences. but i know where your coming from, all my friends are pigs. some people get it early and some people don't. im sorry you had bad experiences, but not all teenage guys are bad. i never had a dad to tell me how to treat a lady. my mom did and thats probably why. some people are surprised im not gay. do you get where im coing from?
by mattie on November 18th, 2009
ahhh mattie! i kinda know what you mean with the "some people are surprised im not gay" part! cuz i grew up with my dad and i kinda am a guy sometimes lol. but not as in the sex talk and jokes, just the guy-ish personalities that exist. well, i kinda wished i grew up with my mom o.O. but it's getting there now somehow xP
by TanyaH on November 20th, 2009
lol. your cool we should talk more.
by mattie on November 20th, 2009
lol xD ok well then lets get it going haha xP. what do U do for fun =P. in free time i mean hehe.
by TanyaH on November 22nd, 2009
i skate, rock out and smoke crack. hbu?
by mattie on November 23rd, 2009
jk. about the crack.
by mattie on November 23rd, 2009
lol xD ahahaha! well i hope it was xP.
ohh cool! i also like skating haha xD. i used to have a skateboard but i havn't done it since ages anymore xP. i wonder why O.O but i'm planning to again! someday at least haha. what brand/kind of skateboard do you have?
you rock out? so ur in a band? what kind of music do you play? like do you write the songs yourself =p.
i think a lot of people have this as a hobby, but i REALLY like surfing... the internet! xD. apart from that i like almost everything there is to do in your free time, which includes extreme sports, travelling(i LOVE that!), hanging out with friends, partying xD, and listening to music. but i like everything =P. you name it!
by TanyaH on November 24th, 2009
zero jamie thomas life and death board. it's got like a crucifix graveyard. and i don't have a band or play an instrament i just go to concerts and love metal and punk and any kind of rock. i love partying too. what do you do for fun? and everyone likes to surf the internet
by mattie on November 24th, 2009
@anonymous
Girls at you age are stupid, cheaters and immature too.
@females
I cannot believe all these women are actually sexist.
by Steel on Water on August 5th, 2010
@ Steel, really? Not only did you use yourself as an example while you were trying to make a point, you are also trying to start a petty argument on a thread that's almost four years old and hasn't had a post in almost a year. Not everybody in this post is feminist simply because YOU disagree with what is being said, but please.. let this thread die already.
by Phrenia on August 5th, 2010
Total BS. Having an older boyfriend makes girls feel special and gives them self-confidence (which most teen girls have none of), they think that this older guy hasn't found anything in other girls his age so he found something in a younger girl. In reality he's probably a loser looking for a girl that's too naive to realize that he's just playing nice to get into her pants, the key thing that is different from him and teenage boys is that he hides his sex drive and general immaturity. I knew 4 girls that dated guys that were 5+ years older than them back in high school and all of them were cheated on with another girl their age. It was pretty hilarious when it kept happening.
As for me I met my girlfriend when we were both juniors in high school. I'm still with her and I'm about to start my sophomore year in college, and I don't think I would ever date a high school girl if I was that much older than them.
by MayjaLayza on August 22nd, 2010
@MayjaLayza
All guys are not like you who are only looking to get into their pants.
by Steel on Water on August 22nd, 2010
@MayjaLayza This thread is four year old thread. Just because the poster doesn't share the same opinion and preferences as you do, doesn't mean that they are wrong and you are right or that you are wrong and they are right. It's an OPINION. It is also an opinion that is just about four years old and DEAD.
by Phrenia on August 24th, 2010