Did some one ever break up with you but wouldnt tell you the reason why,and you never found out?If so how did you get closure?
by 
pagan-babe
ANSWERS: 9
-
Yes. It wasn't easy, but at some point I just figured that they weren't the class of person I want to be with. No one is obligated to love us or be with us. If they make the choice to leave, let them. I want someone who wants to be with me. Who enjoys my company. Who doesn't criticize everything I say or do. Who smiles when I tell them I love them. Whose knees give out when I kiss their neck. Not someone who can just drop me without a word. I'm worth more than that. So are you.
-
In high school I dated a guy who one day broke up with me and wouldn't tell me why. I'm pretty sure it's because I was so nervous all the time and I didn't talk much- but he made it a point to not tell me. I just hung out with my friends and tried to make the best of it. Now, almost 10 years later, he's not even a blip on my radar. You'll get through it. :)
-
Yea that happened to me after 3 years dating this girl. I still don't know, and probably never will. It's been probably 3-4 years since then and it kinda bothers me but not as much now cause she has gained a LOT of weight, so there is justice you just have to be patient.
-
Yes, my husband never really told me why. I don't have closure. I just try to go on and not think about it.
-
One day at a time. The questions go round and round in our heads and hearts. What did I do? Did I say something horrible without even realizing it? Could I have fixed it if I had a chance? The list can go on and on and drive you crazy if you let it. The truth is that if you truly don't know then it might not be anything personal. So give yourself a break and try to move past it.
-
I didn't. I would like to shake it all off.
-
kind off. my fiance now and me had a very rocky begining and hed break up with me every other month or so.i never thought i had the full reasons and the closure i got was helping him through his problems/issues and a year later all was explained. but the times hed leave me was hell, i was confused and desprete to talk to him luckily he let mw
-
One real prick left me and I didn't find out why for three years. I suffered a lot. BUT I did do quite magnificently well in college fueled by the anger. :-) But now I have just broken up from an even more painful situation so I am not feeling so great. I am older, less attractive and less driven for success as I was back then. Blast it all. Please cross your fingers for me that I turn out all right in the end.
-
well, maybe because they realized that they're not meant to be together and they're better off friends or something if they did.
RELATED QUESTIONS
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC