Is it wrong for a girl to want to be sexually submissive?
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Nikki Kiki
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Of course not. What could be wrong with it?
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No it's fine for anybody to choose whether they want to be submissive or dominate. That is human nature and even in the animal world it is a common practice.
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isn't that the msot natural way for a woman to be?
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IS it WRONG! It is practically Mandatory.
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No, so you may rest easy and stop troubling your little mind. I am a MASTER!
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It is totally the person's choice. Most of the time, my girl likes to be submissive (light hair pulling, handcuffs, doing whatever she can to please me, etc), but she can be dominant, too. I think it's hot either way, but sometimes I, a guy, like to be dominated. It's pretty fun when the handcuffs are on me!
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Although I am usually the dominant one in the bedroom, I occasionally like to be submissive, so I see absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be in that role in sexual situations. It can be a turn on to service someone orally or in whatever way they command.
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if that is her wish, i also enjoy when a woman throws me down and takes over - taking turns lets you learn new things!!!!
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Not in my book. I know many women who are dominant in other areas of their lives who enjoy having someone else take over the reins of pleasure and prefer being tied while doing so. For them, "forced" orgasms while being bound in an inherent submissive role intensifies and deepens their pleasure, thereby enriching their sexual experience. Others who are naturally submissive, perhaps like yourself, are sometimes attracted to the same scenarios as an orgasm-intensifier. The key is finding someone you trust who will respect your wishes, your limits and places your pleasure ahead of his own.
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No i don't think so. It seems to be the most natural for many women.
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sounds to me like she's got a lot of unmet needs
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Nikki I have been married 13 years and generally my wife is the submisive but not allways. As a guy Some times it is fun to be the dom some times the sub. IT just depends on the relationship you have with your S/O and can you be submisive with out loosing yourself?
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I don't think it is at all! It really depends on your on likes and dislikes. I love it when a man just takes it.
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9 times out of 10 thats the way most girls are. Most guys are alpha but even the alpha ones like to be submissive. Usually the most outwardly dominant guys are secretly sub slaves. For my wife she is very alpha in life and stuff and others think I'm less agressive but in bed I'm the dom.
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Not at all, As far as sex goes, I don't think anything is "wrong" (as long as it's not hurting anyone and it's consentual) I wouldn't consitter myself 'submissive' but I love to act out brutal rape fantasies.
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Most Of The Females I have Sex Are Taht Way Sometimes I Wish A Couple Of Them Would Be Sooo Submissive!!!
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No, it is not wrong. There is actually power in letting go. I think it's fine as long as she is willing.
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No. Sexual wants are never wrong. Of course, harming oneself or another is always wrong, but wanting something sexually is involuntary and is perfectly natural.
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No, I don't think so at all, as long as that's what she WANTS. If she's acting that way out of fear or because she thinks she has to "or else" than that's a problem, of course. But everybody's fantasies are different.
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i prefer being submissive
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Although I prefer my women to be more dominant, there is nothing wrong with being submissive. In fact, from what I have read here on AB, most women are submissive.
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Absolutely not! As long as everyone and everything is consensual between parties, there's nothing wrong. As long as it doesn't hurt the sub, it's fine. It can be incredibly fulfilling in fact; that's where I get most of my fulfillment.
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ofcourse not!
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YES!! Now go to my room!
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i don't think there is anything wrong with this
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I prefer the woman to be submissive yes. I enjoy to fuck a girl not so much a girl fuck me, but if she wants to get on top then she can do her thing.
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WRONG! It is MANDATORY!
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I don't think its wrong. But I think its possible to encompass both submissive and dominant qualities. Its possible to submit to someone without fully giving in to them. For instance, I love for a guy to be on top but if the mood strikes me I will push him over and get on top. :)
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of course not your a woman baby...you should give yourself up to your man babe. I love it when my babe submits and is a good girl. its so sexy. Im turned on just thinking about you sweetheart.
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Definitly nothing wrong with it. I believe it's easier for a woman to be sexually submissive, and in most seemingly neutral cases, the woman is usually the one doing the taking. So, surely nothing wrong with trying to be submissive.
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I'm very submissive. . I love being the sub.
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WRONG! It is practicaly in our jeans!
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My ex was the exact opposite actually. She loved to be ontop, and in cuntrol. Heh, cunt. The only submissive girl I ever had the plesure of sleeping with was actually really boring. Like doing it with a dead fish. Boring.
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Nothing you want can be wrong. If you're forced to be like that is very wrong. Not of you, but of the other.
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I can be very submissive. I can also be dominant sometimes. Variety is the spice of life and definitely the spice of one's sex life.
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No it's great however, with your significant other only...
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no it's so nice to be submissive in the bed room .,,the attention i get is really amazing ...
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Most women are submissive in nature mainly because as a rule we are smaller then men, however there is no wrong or right, just fun when it comes to sex
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You said that she "WANTS" to be that; if she's FORCED to--including thinking she wants it, because of how she's been mistreated/abused/manipulated--then I agree with the line of thinking which says that CONSENSUAL activities between informed adults is fine. [But I also think a lot of people probably can't give REALLY meaningful consent until they are 22-24 or so.]
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There are things you can do to be dominant while being submissive like scratching his back, putting your legs on his shoulders, pushing his butt into you so he can get deeper, looking back at him during doggie style, ORAL SEX is submissive and dominant at the same time. There's many different ways to do the do.
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No, that is kind of a personal preference. Not a right or wrong answer.
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If it is wrong, I don't want it to be right! There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I think most women are submissive in some form or fashion in bed. I mean, what woman do you know that doesn't at least like a good spanking or smack on the ass every now and then. If it is something you want to explore further, shoot Me an email, and I can point you in the right direction of a couple of sites you need to be on. IT IS ALL NATURAL AND ALL GOOD. Go with the flow, submit to somebody you trust, and you will find yourself experiencing more gratification than you ever thought possible...
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No. That's my fantasy too. But not in a very hurtful way or where he would curse you or be mean to you, but in a wonderful way, like pushing hard against a wall deeply kissing you, having you tied up etc.. :))
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The only word itself turns me on.
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Not at all. Nor is it wrong for a man to be. Its what makes you feel right that counts. +2
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As long as you want it, of course not!
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NO its not . Most females get more pleasure out of it than regular sex.
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no, there's nothing wrong with it, but if you are uncomfortable with it, then don't be. Sex is about pleasure for both people, not just one, unless you are focusing on only him for the time being. It also depends on how you feel about yourself. Being submissive can be mentally/emotionally dangerous for the female who thinks their only worth lies in thier ability to please a man sexually. I've been there and it's a very lousy feeling. You end up feeling used and abused afterward and often blame the guy for making you feel that way when it was never his intention at all. But no, there's nothing wrong with it, as long as you are COMPLETELY ok with it, do yo thang
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