My husband and I have been married for ten years. We are completely in love. I am not at all confused. I am very happy. What should I do about this?
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This Used To Be Me
ANSWERS: 45
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Your question is very confusing. Shouldn't you be counting your lucky stars?
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enjoy it.
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you really need to step back and realize it WILL GET WORSE, dont worry. Maybe you two can go to counseling and learn to fight more. Stick it out and dont worry, everything will be all bad soon enough
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You need more drama in your lives, I recommend you have an unstable relative move in.
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well step back, take a good look around and just be at peace with the fact your life does not suck - happy for you
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Hang in there, you'll be miserable soon enough. May I suggest driving across country together. By about Nebraska one of you will be saying, "ya know what? I think I'd rather just fuckin walk."
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whats wrong about this???? my parents r married for 21 years
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Find a pill, or get pregnant, life is full of problems if you look hard enough :-p
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Is this a serious question?
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Isn't it crazy that everyone thinks that if you are "in a relationship" than you are unhappy?!!?! I've been married for 14 years and am still head over heels in love with my husband. It's a great life, isn't it?!!!!!:)
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CELEBRATE
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You could try cheating on him to shake things up a bit. If you really want to go for the gusto, do it with his Brother or Father, or what the hell, Mom.
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Spread the word. There are lots of unhappy - disastrous even - marriages and partnerships around. And don't apologise for having a sense of humour - it's probably one of the reasons for your happy marriage.
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Obviously if you are asking this question there is something wrong. Be honest, you want to shake it up because you are bored.
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Hmmm... Hard to say... One or the other of you could have a relationship outside of the marriage... You COULD try swinging with a single partner to start with... If all else failes, one of you could start abusing the other... If nothing works, just sit back, enjoy, watch everyone else have problems, and try to help! ;-) (It's what I do!)
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Looks like some counseling is in order or a trip to the Jerry Springer show........
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Hmmmmm... let's see 1) Turn Lesbian 2) Sleep around 3) Start using the most dangerous drugs you can find on the street 4) Stay out all night and come home with no explanation 5) Turn up at least 5 different types of alcohol every night 6) Pick fights from old stuff 7) Wreck the TV 8) Wreck HIS car 9) Flirt with people in front of him 10) Talk about his parents, with enphasis on whichever he is closest to I hope these help wreck that silly wonderful marriage you have... and congrats on getting this far... God Bless ya!
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Keep cherishing your love and build on the fine foundation you have established. 10 years is only the beginning of forever:-)
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My husband and I have a great marriage too. We are both very happy we found each other.
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suggest a threesome with another man. but first have him handcuffed on a chair in the bedroom while the other man takes advantage of you.
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lol... i don't understand what you want advice in...spicing things up? how to keep it going? lol, i think you are doing fine if you say you are very happy.
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Start worrying immediately!!lol!
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Thank God and continue to pray for your home and your marriage.
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ummm.....be GLAD?! :]
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thank your lucky stars and feel a little smug at the rest of us being jealous! LOL
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i've always heard....."if it ain't broke then don't fix it" :)
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Oh, this is a problem. The first thing you need to do is to become extremely suspicious of your husband (it helps if he has a social life that doesn't involve you.) You can then question his every move without guilt. Drive him crazy with "Where were you last night?" and "I saw you look at that girl's butt!" type questions. Become very depressed, and start drinking heavily. That should start things off nicely. Good luck. ;)
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That'll never do! :) Feel smug and remeber to show him you love him as well as tell him Congratulations
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Enjoy it, your a very lucky and fortunate person.
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If you really want to do something... then try to more of vole brain and less of PFC ... and see the results
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enjoy it dont do anything to screw it up , trust me it not worth it. there are very few fortunate people like you.. show him ur love
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Be thankful and continue to enjoy your love and life.
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Enjoy it....for it is a blessing that seems to be known to very few these days. Enjoy it and don;t ever for a minute take it for granted. To be that happy after all these yrs takes work, understanding love, compromise, compassion and friendship. Many, too many, forget to put work into their relationship/marriage and things go stale. Te time to make sure that never happens to you and yours is to always make it a priority always consider the feelings of your spouse and ALWAYS respect one another!! God bless and keep up the good work
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hahaha this q made me laugh so much, invite a no good lady into your life, she will wreck it in weeks!
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I wonder WHAT can you do about it ?
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I think you should go on one of those shows like Jerry Springer or Maury Povich (in the USA) to show that NOT all marriages are dysfunctional. And thank God that you are so happy together. Good for you!
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Enjoy it,please.
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Watch tv so you can see how unhappy you should be.
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Erm... enjoy? I am SOOOOO jealous! LOL.
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Nothing, you are happy enjoy it, relish and bask in it.
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Heavens. You poor thing. Don't worry, I know what you're going through, and I promise, it won't last. Just tough it out as best you can until things get a little more normal. I'd definitely recommend an extramarital affair if you want to take matters into your own hands. And to maybe take it up even a notch more, I'd say try it with a guy age maybe 13 to 18 years old (as illegal as you dare) and hope a child comes of it. If it doesn't ruin your marriage, then nothing will! Good luck and god bless.
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Just nothing. Never touch a running system!
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Go with it
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Okay, this confuses me a little. If you are very happy, and not confused why in the world would you want to change that? Well, those and the fact you're inlove? i mean come on now? everyone wishes that there were no problems, they were happy, and they werent confsued. i mean if you wanted drama in your lives try added in the relatives more, that always gets me going.(:
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Enjoy it you cheeky monkey!
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