ANSWERS: 12
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No matter what the arguement and who the instigator is, he should have the restraint out of the respect for human life not to hit you. Get out of this dangerous relationship now, for your own safety. And never let someone convince you that you deserve to be hit because of what you said or did
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There is no reason to hit anyone period. He gets himself to that point because HE lacks self control. I would be willing to bet he HAS hit ex-girlfriends. Seriously, this is not a healthy relationship at all. Time to move on. ..NOW.
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He's full of crap. He is an abuser. It's ALWAYS the abusee's fault, and NEVER their own. There is absolutely NO reason, other than life-or-death self-defense, or mutually agreed upon rough sex, to hit a woman. Even with the latter, there are or SHOULD be safeguards and agreed upon limits. (Spanking, etc... and STOP words.) PLEASE get out. He will probably only escalate the abuse. See http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2872392 for more, including who to call for help.
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Just because you instigate the argument does not give him the right to hit you. All couples fight, no all couple have to deal with abuse. I second Andy that he has probably hit his exes, too. Get out, while you can.
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Yesh, me and my brother get into fights all the time, and he is violent person. Although I'm not sure if I can be considered the instigator or not. He usually starts the fights, just by being a douch to me, and me telling him to fuck off.
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"he never hits for a reason"..."it's because of me"...these are common for people who are in an abusive relationship...i don't know the psychological explanation for this but people who are physically abused are compelled to think that it is their fault they are treated this way...it's so sad...
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It will be hard to leave but you must. A few weeks after you do you'll be able to reflect. You'll go through several stages. For a while you'll be sad, then angry, then you'll feel liberated and confident. Don't stay with him because your afraid to hurt him. He deserves it AND it might motivate him to get some help.
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Wake up and face reality!! Violence is NOT the answer. It will NOT stop. It WILL get worse. You COULD get killed. He DOESN'T love u or he wouldnt hit u. How could you love someone who HURTS U?
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You are buying his BS. Most likely you are NOT the first one he's hit, but even if you are...he's hitting you!!! HE has lost control...please do what you can to get away. God bless you.
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I am a football coach. My wife is a very small filipino. The last thing you would think is that I can possibly be a victim to her. Guess what, she has a violent side. She also has never hit anyone else and I am the one who gets her to that point. That is all according to her. Sound familar?
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Yes I just recently been a victim, and this is the second time I call the police. The firts time he hit me so hard that I called the police nad he was in jail for 6 month the we separate for a year got back together and got married he tol he change but every time he drank alchool he will remaind me that I was the reason he was in jail and will push me bite me or treat me for no reason. I have 3 kids not his so he would do this when the kids were sleeping. But this Christmas he did it in front of them, sam ething drinking and telling me that i was the reason why he was unhappy I call the cops because I could not take anymore and he flew to Puerto Rico he has a warrant for his arrest here in Florida....I hopr he never comes back I am about to change my phone number because he call me every day saying that he is sorry and ending in treating me again. He always say that he will kill me one day what if he does??? And my kids....
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yes i being in your situation aint it aint your fault dont blame your self . me and my ex would argue then he would pull my hair hit me kick me etc . when i would defend my self or answer him back . i use to think i provocked him but violence is never the answer and my ex hit his ex two he never admitted it to me she told me .
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