ANSWERS: 5
  • If you are ready to take things to the next level, then communicate that to him. Simply have a conversation in which you tell him just that.
  • Stop sleeping with him first off, if he can get the milk for free he isnt going to take the relationship to the next level. If he starts to distance himself from you then you know he was just after the sex and sweet talking you. Most of the time when you start sleeping with a guy before you get to gf/bf atats it takes the fun of the chase out of it. I would have brought that up before you slept with him. I am not sure what to say, start there first and see what happens. If he still chills will you and talks with you then bring it up, but no sexual contact at all, not petting, touching, licking, nothing
  • I'm kind of in the same boat, but different river...lol except I dont want a relationship with him. I just enjoy his company, his communications skills, sex.... maybe thats what you dude just wants
  • hey! you can somehow ask him anonymously on the internetz or where ever
  • a friend of mine was going through the same thing a few months ago when me and my guy first started dating. i told him the whole story and he said that if the guy wanted her to be his girlfriend then the guy would just say so or do things that suggest that he wants her to be his girlfriend. Thats why I am not even thinking about having "the talk" since first I am not ready myself to have that talk and second I am waiting for him to tell me/ask me to be his girlfriend. We've been dating for two months now and last sunday he took me to his parents house, intruduced me to his parents and we hung out with them for a few hours. The truth is I was surprised since I am not ready to introduce him to mine. But I like him alot and I wanna spend time with him. My point is he might have feelings for you but maybe he is not ready to really commit. I would just give him time and let him tell you. Tell him what you want but don't make demands and don't ask him what he wants, he needs vou tell you.

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