How can you tell if you're repulsive or just intimidating?
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blacksparrow
ANSWERS: 3
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If you do not have many friends...you might be repulsive. If people walk away, when you enter, you might be repulsive. If you threaten people with your voice or actions, you might be intimidating. Compare the two above definitions and maybe you will find an answer.
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Your height should not be a problem, at all. my daughter is 5 ft. l0 in. and has been married five times. oh, well. Anyway, you state you cannot get a date. where do you hang-out, for your leisure time? if you want to be noticed, you have got do like the song says, "where the boys are". the mall, the movies and other functions. Take a good, long look in a mirror. do you like what you see? If not, its time for a makeover. seek a trusted friend for advice. And always wear a smile. a smile makes you stand out in a crowd and people notice. You will see. good luck and don't ever give up.
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Its hard to know at 14, but it all works out if you try to be yourself and stay real. All of us have things about ourselves we don't like, that we wish could be different. At 14, people want most of all to fit in, to feel like they're wanted and appreciated. Our culture puts lots of pressure on us to look like movie stars, to have riotously exciting lives, to be "different and special" while still being admired by everyone, etc. Really, its a ridiculous bunch of Madison Avenue marketing, but if our friends believe it it can be pretty tough. But it doesn't matter how much they try to sell us on images of the perfect person, in the end there is a truth which always beats that stuff: being yourself is the most powerful force in life. Learn to get comfortable with that and it won't matter what you look like, how tall you are, or whether you have 8 toes on each foot.
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