If i sleep with 3 different guys in two weeks, does that make me a slut?

slut n. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. According to the dictionary, yes.

Sure. Does it make you a bad person? Nah. However the main drawback to being sexually promiscuous is that it comes with a reputation that will pretty much guarantee you continue having sex whenever you want, but you are less likely to land a guy who is interested in you for anything else.

If you keep up that pace, you're certainly very promiscuous. That's over 180 guys in three years time.

to them, yes.

to all the other guys, it makes you a bitch.

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well i would have to say yes u dont just go have sex i mean honestly control urself

It makes you a sexually confident human being. Seriously, we would all benefit if the word slut was never used again.

it depends what you do during sleep, lol
just kidding. actually i think that if you are honest and fair with all 3 guys, you are not a slut, if you cheat on them, you are a slut.

if you sleep with anyone who you are not in a relationship with that makes you a slut, male or female. saying I am "mean" or DRing me will not change that so either stop being a slut or accept your sluthood. pretenting you are not something which you are will never bring you happiness. if you want to sleep around do it and accept the appropriate lable with pride.

hell no. actually poeple have said that you can only find happiness in sex, drugs and rock and roll. also i think chinese food should be in there... somewhere...

I don't know your current situation or lifestyle so i can't judge whether that makes you a slut or not, but from a personal point of view i think sleeping with 3 men in just 2 weeks is very disgusting and disrespectful to yourself. You might be having a hard time in our life and lashing out this way, i hoe you can work things out and be a happier person, all the best.

I think that a person, whether male or female, who sleeps around irresponsibly (i.e. unprotected, lying to their partners), is the true definition of a slut. There's no harm in being sexually free if you're responsible about it.

nah, it makes you a nympho

No.

Now that makes you someone I would like to meet!LOL

If I were you I would worry more about getting a STD then being catoragized as a slut.

No it makes you immature as you are playing dangerously with your life and what you can catch from sleeping around so often. And that your hormones are really active.

No, honey. It makes you a whore.

you'd certainly get that reputation

As a sex therapist i have alot of woman with this same question and most of the time there is a deeper meaning on why you feel the need to have a loose sex life one big cause is that woman arent comfortable with themselves and they have sex to give them a sense of gratification i would look inside yourself and ask the question again and with time the answer will come

No it doesn't make you a slut, and I hate that word for women. You're in your sexual prime. enjoy life just be safe.

I'd have to say "no" because if a man sleeps with 3 different girls in 2 weeks he is considered a "stud". Consider yourself a female "stud". ;)

you are quite nimble... in the sac... ok let me give a bit of advice: keep your knees together. No man will ever marry trash! You will be left on the floor with the a bunch of pizza boxes, dirty underwear, and beer cans.... forewarning of things to come!

Calling a woman a slut is just degrading her as a person and putting her back in her "place" in society. Using a woman's sexual desires and actions against them is one of the lowest ways to make a woman feel small and guilty and unequal.

It seems to me like as a society we fear sexually expressive and guiltless women. But why? If there are no feelings being hurt and condoms are being worn, what's the problem? Why does it still agitate people?

One false move in the category of sexuality for women and you are instantly reprimanded with a very strong very stern and unforgiving hand.

It does not make a man a slut to sleep with multiple women in two weeks, or one week, or one weekend. There is no word for a man who is a slut, because there are none.

So to actually answer the question X) No. Do not feel like a slut. You aren't one. Don't ever call yourself a slut (or other women for that matter). And really, there is no excuse for letting other people force women to degrade themselves and cause us to feel badly for doing something they want to.

yes it does.thats not the right thing to do..yes sex is good but you should not being going around sleeping with alot of different guys in so many different times of the week. its not healthy for you

No.

But even if so, so what? Own your sluttiness.

This world needs more women who are unashamed to be sexual.

Yeah

I wouldn't say that it makes you a slut but I would say that it sends a message to men that its not hard to get you in bed. I wouldn't use the word slut unless you were sleeping with three different men a day! However... I would like to ask you... do you want every guy you come across to think that you are "easy". Woman often wonder why men use and disrespect them... here's your answer... they let them.

I think you are well on your way to becoming one

Well, did you?
If you did, then yes it does.
I can't think of any other way to say it.
A girl who sluts around demeans all women.
It also shows that you have no self-respect, and you've made it harder for men to respect women in general.
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But as I said before, sleeping around doesn't make a girl a slut; being a slut makes her sleep around.

yes. if you dont want to be one, stop what your doing and have some self control. you will develope a reputaion as a slut and the only guys you will be able to get will only be interested in you for sex. There re alot of guys out there who are genuinely searching for a girl who has some self respect and to them, you are not it.

Who and how many you sleep with I believe is ...

no one elses business ... other than you and those involved ...

What is a major concern to others is ... that you act sensible and show all cautioun by taking neccessary protection in order to protect others ... that are indirectly or directly connected to you or those involved in your acts.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe_sex


Take care ... use condoms!

YES

Having sex with 3 people in 2 weeks does not make you a slut. I wish men were held at the same high standard as women are. If a man did the same thing half the comments would have been congratulations. It is the new era, you can do whatever you want. Sex is a beautiful thing and just because you are having it with many partners does not mean you are a slut. Do you eat the same meal every day? NO... So why should it be a big deal if a a single woman wants to have a variety of sex partners. Everyone of them brings something new and interesting to the table. And as for the who std thing... Just because a person sleeps with more then one person does not mean they forget about protection. If anything they are usually better about having it, being prepared, and being smart and using it.

Essentially, the word is not one from intelligent people. However, I would advise you stop that. If you are involved with 3 guys in 2 weeks, you should first ask yourself what you're doing this for. The reason I say this is because firstly it is unhealthy, it is unfair for the guys you are doing, and it isn't something you'd question if you were ok with it. So, if you don't care about it (which I doubt, otherwise you'd not ask this ;), then don't be guilty and just live your life. However seeing as how you do, just keep yourself under control, and make sure that every time you do it, you do it intentionally, and responsibly. And no, it is not acceptable for a male to not be held to these standards. It is just as morally questionable.

Difficult one i dont like the word slut!
If a man sleeps with numerous women hes not called names hes praised,makes me sick why if a woman does it shes a slut,some times things happen,i dont know your reasoning but im no one to judge and no one else is too!

I really hate the word 'slut'...silly men have made that silly word up...If you like sex with different people then thats your choice...its when someone has sex with somebody who is already in a relationship that deserves the label 'slut'..for men and women!

heck yes it does slut

If I sleep with 3 different girls in two weeks, that makes me the luckiest guy on earth!

a guy would think so...why? because women are the catcher in the deal...you get what I mean? I dont wanna get gross about it, but... its kinda gross. so many guys in such a short time....a guy might as well take off his used condom, and pass it to the next guy in line and get it while the friction is still there. (sorry, had to go off the deep end there) but that is how many guys see that....its just gross.

Only if I'm not one of the 3 guys!

3 in two weeks? I have slept with 4 in my entire life, that's in 37 years.
I think times have changed.

Nah girl, you're cool. F this double standard BS. You're not a slut, just as I'm not a slut. We're both just connoisseur's of sex. We like sex, and we like to have sex with different people. Variety is the spice of life. :)

Either slut or a whore. Aren’t you afraid to catch STD, you need to get a check up.

no it makes u a freak of nature.......

Yes; and I hope you are using birth control and protection from std's.

idk.
i mean, my record is 3 in one week, and i didn't feel like a slut.
if you are being safe and taking care of yourself and you don't feel guilty, then no, i wouldn't think that would make you a slut.

Yeah pretty much, or cum-sponge, whichever you prefer

Yes, you are a slut. Proud?

No I think it makes you more fun than some other girls!! BUT...please remember to ALWAYS practice safe sex

Maybe not a slut, but definitely fun-loving.