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  • Um yeah it is a form of abuse. We all need to realize that any touching that is unwanted or forceful is a form of abuse. Grabbing you and thrwoing you in the car drunk or not still abuse. I dont care if you called his mom a b**** that gives him no reason to hurt you. Some men are beligerant drunks and that is a good sign of one. Man tend to say alot of hurtful mean nasty BUT very true comments when they are drunk, because they just dont give a crap at that point. you better step back and rethink the relationship up until this point has he shown you any other signs of abuse mental physcial and emotional. No one can tell you what to do, you need to make that desicion for yourself
  • he says mean things to me at times. he does call me names whaen hes mad and when i talk to him about it he says that im too sensitive.
  • I'd say so... "Drunk" only releases inhibitions. If he's NOT that way when he's NOT drunk, then something is probably inhibiting him (maybe simply a THOUGHT process). Even so, though, he calls you names when he's mad at you. THAT, in itself, is a form of abuse. See http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2872392 for more things I believe are signs of abuse.
  • Abuse is not the real issue here. Drinking is the real issue. If you can't predict how you're going to behave when taking a drink, then drinking could be a problem. You know what I'm saying. This would never have happened if you both had not been drinking. Can you guys give yourselves permission to have a good time without drinking?? If drinking is so important you can't have a good time without it, you might want to think hard on that.

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