Does your opinion change of a person when you here they have had " One night stands" in the past?
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- Katelyn is a party animal -
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No not at all. Life circumstances differ for all people, things happen, people move on. It is not for me to judge or hold against them those circumstances that led them to a one night stand :)
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No. Why would I? Let's just say that I'm not a saint either ;)
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No ! Maybe they couldn't afford two night stands or, maybe they didn't have a big enough bedroom for two. Some people just prefer one night stand. I'm not going to hold that against them ;-) Seriously though ... I would be the biggest hypocrite piece of crap in the world if I were to condemn someone else for the same things I've done myself, so No !! We're all only human.
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Nope...what's in the past is in the past.
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No, but I do hope they are being responsible and very careful about protecting their health.
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Nope, and glad to see all the adult mature answers as well. Your a wonderful person honey.
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No not at all as long as they practised safe sex and aren't bringing anything unexpected into a new relationship.
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I don't see why my opinion of them should change. I've had my own fair share of one night stands, so I'd be in no position to get on their case about it.
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Not at all. I've had more than a few myself, so I wouldn't want to be a hypocrite. Sometimes, getting it hard and rough from someone new can be exciting. I don't condone cheating, but if you're not involved, it's fine (but be safe!)
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Would you be comfortable having someone live in your neighbouhood if someone had a criminal background( for which someone has already suffered )? If no, then you are mature. You shouldnt judge someone by what happened in past but adore for what they are in present. There is some problem with this analogy that you may not relate to having sex with stranger in same category as criminal background( say theft ).So, finally its about your morals. If you feel one night stand and screwing is fine, then you need not worry.
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Wow, a lot of easy going people here. I'll admit, I'm a hypocrite. I've had a ton of them, and I don't like to think that my wife has had them. I know she has, and I don't love her less, but I would rather she hadn't had them. Who really likes to think about their wife getting boned good and hard by some stranger she met an hour earlier and only feels lust for. Let's face it, society judges women who do this. You don't want to think of your woman as "one of those types". I'd be lying if I said my opinion didn't change to some extent when she told me about her 1 night stands. Again, I don't love her less, but love is different than an opinion. To be honest, I wish I'd never probed. If I ever got married again, I wouldn't ask any questions about the past. Ignorance is bliss!
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No. Why should it change? It shows a kind of honesty in the person. She knows what she wants and she goes out to get it. Condemnation arises only from jealousy. Those who can't are damned to condemn.
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