If you drink, get them drunk and ask them how they feel about homosexuality. Try and sound ambiguous at first, so that you can seem like you feel the same way they do. Look for signs of actions that mirror yours, such as a casual wish to discuss homosexuality. It also helps if you learn to read and profile people. Trust me, I know how you feel. I've been doing this for a long time, and I've had several positive results.

Happy to advise. If you would like to give men blow jobs, try posting on Craig's list, under Casual Encounters M2M. Now for the advice. Don't send your picture when they ask. Don't invite them to your home when asked to host. Decline any offers to meet at a park, restroom or in a car. The best place to meet is an Adult Book Store with a video arcade. You simply share the booth. You might meet first at a fast food to go there. WARNING. Do not go to the ABS and seek a random partner. Big danger in that. Next thing. I share the pleasure of sucking cocks. The majority of guys I regard as straight.I don't want a bj or to be messed with like that. My definition is I am gay. Were I to receive a bj, I would consider myself bi. Just me definition. Married men, next to drug users and street prostitutes are the most active bis. Look for single guys that sit at home without. I go for straight guys that use me as a substitute because they can't find a woman. Lots of them available. Play safe. Use a condom, disagreeable as they are. Don't play numbers. Find someone to suck off regularily. Any stranger you meet should be with that goal. And watch out for any guy that wants a "son" as well as any suggesting anal. Forget the disease. You can have serious harm from the act requiring surgery to repair it. Get a feel with them being honest with other partners. Most are married. Make sure he has informed and received consent from the wife. If not, the creep probably had about 50 bi partners in the last year and is so "discreet" as to never get tested. Hope this helps.

I'm sorry your in this state of mental crisis, Please be safe and ask yourself or a perfessional Therapist some serious questions, don't hold back. they are held by law to you privacy. I would first ask yourself why are gay? maybe ask yourself why you feel the need to pleasure someone in a unheathly action, Are you a people pleaser if so why? what happened in your formative yours 7-12 years of age that might have lead you to this state of mental illness. Are you in a self destructive pattern,is this just another action to hurt yourself? Best of luck to you and your journey within.

im sorry but your kind of ridiculous that you are scared to come out to people you know but will anounce it on the internet to total strangers, its ridiculous if you think about it, now suck on that!

dont know wt to say..... but i m understanding dear see y do u need to do all these if you are likely to face that embarrasing situation......... i feel just try ur dedication in something better,,.....and then ul get good rsults...and as ur sexual orientation i feel just keep in touch with ur gay friends.... and from them only u can make up ur list go longer.... there r many gays all aroung but no one seems like telling....... if u dont feel bad abt being a gay then pleze do wtever you want dont care abt the worls..u cant changeor u cant even stop them from saying bad things abt u....... got it do social networking..it wil help you.make friend let htm know abtur problem..i dont feel all r bad in this wotld go explore it and ul gain ur confidence

You can't trust anyone enough to tell him that your gay because the person could be a homophobic heterosexual man but if you are bursting to go to give other men blowjobs then I my best advice to you is use your gaydar to help you and if a another guy is willing for you to give him a blowjob then you will know for sure that your gaydar is working for you and you will also know that someone is also is gay and if the person would allow you to give him a blowjob then he will accept that you are also gay too It's works for me every time