When your partner cheats on you and you take them back, how do you make the pain go away, how do you trust again and how do you get the feeling back for them? Also, how do you learn to be happy and love them again? THANK YOU:)
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MOON_LIGHT_88
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ouch...umm, in my personal experience, you cant
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I've never been cheated on :$ but I know I honestly would never take them back because a relationship without trust is pointless ..
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Your most basic andmost important relationship is the one you have with yourself. If you can truly love and accept yourself, as you are, with no judgment, then you can learn to accept anybody as they are, without judgment. If you have trouble accepting your bf, consider whether you are ready to fully accept and trust yourself. If you can accept yourself then you take others as they are, not as you would wish them to be. Your bf is whatever he is. If that means he is occasionally unfaithful, you either accept that, and him, or you don't accept that and him. It's really that simple. I know, easy to say but hard to do. Yes it is. But work on learning to love and accept yourself, without judgment. You'll see, the rest will follow.
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It takes time, day by day you find yourself thinking a little less about the things that went on, it's a grief process. Sometimes you can truly forgive and forget but for most of us I believe that things are never quite the same and there is always that degree of mistrust.
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Moon_light i tried replying to your last comment about the texting but the system won't let me, so here is my reply to your comment: In trying to rebuild the trust in any relationship there has to be total transparency, you have to be squeaky clean, you have to not give the injured partner anything to be unsure about. Your s/o is being cold, selfish, uncaring, childish and irresponsible, he apparently does not care about you and your feelings at all and obviously thinks you will let him get away with anything. For this relationship to have even the tiniest spark of a chance his 'friend' has to be out of the picture totally...that is absolutely a no-brainer. For the sake of your sanity, self esteem and confidence you need to demand some changes now. At the same time remember the words of Dr. Phil, 'Past behaviour is indicative of future behaviour'.
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