What state do you live in? In most states if you two were to do anything sexually that would be statutory rape......you're mom's probably worried about that

I'm 15 and he is 18. His dad is a lawyer, his brother is an RCMP and his other brother and his sister work for the law. He is planning on being an RCMP aswell. We dont have sex or anything. I live in Canada.

i live in canada

My mom only lets him come over once a week. I dont know if she will let him come over anymore at all even. She is making me sneek around to see him which is ruining our relationship. I've had to lie to my mom to see him and sneek around which is getting really annoying. We have talked about sex and I told him i feel im too young and he respects that. I just need to show my mom he is a good respectable guy who doesnt just want sex from me. How do I do that? Help please..

Well how do we make it a healthy relationship? We actually really care for eachother and aren't meaning to hurt anyone. How would his family lose their jobs? It has to do with us not them?

Anything worthwhile is worth waiting for. there has to be a reason your mother is on the defensive, concerning this guy. i really do not see the age difference as a problem. as long as there is no sex. stay straight and be straight with your mother. sneaking will get you into trouble. once discovered, your mother will never allow you to see this person. your family comes first. be honest with your mother. Why hasn't she met this person? i was eighteen and dated a girl of fifteen. we did not have a problem, because we were honest with each other and honest with her parents. Maybe, your mother is concerned over the possibilty of sex. sometimes, hormones overcome the situation and it happens. i feel she is just protecting your overall interest. If this person is as perfect, as you say, introduce him to your mother and see what developes. maybe, her unknown suspicions will be relieved. Your interest, is your mothers main concern. if you convince your mother that this boy is l00% as you say, never let your mother down in your promises. once broken, it can never be mended to be the same. Good luck. no sex and sneaking around will only make the situation worse. work with your mother, not against her. She is the best friend you will ever have.

Sorry Hun, But nice year old 18 year old MEN do not mess around with 15 year old girls. He could be arrested for statatory rape. I say wait till you are of age..If he loves you, he will wait too.

She hasn't met him yet becsue when I asked her she said she doesnt want to meet him because she doesnt want me to see him. He really is a perfect guy. He would never make me or rush me into sex. We have talked about it and he understands that I dont want to. I need advice on how to get through to my mom. We have been fighting constantly and I need help.