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  • You're not wrong for wanting to talk to him and I would encourage you to do so as soon as possible, but the tone you take in the conversation is going to determine quite a bit about how your relationship goes. Homosexuality for a closeted gay man - the kind that would utilize a woman as a "cover up" - is likely the most sensitive issue they have in their life. If you go into the conversation accusing him and attacking him, you're not going to uncover any real answers - you're just going to put him on the defensive and likely get only half-truths. Whenever you confront someone in an attack mode, it makes it impossible to actually see their side of things. There are many things that you should consider to temper your emotions right now: He may actually love you. He may want to be with you. He may be attracted to you. Right now the information you have is incomplete because it doesn't involve his side of things. You believe he is gay, but he may be bisexual or simply curious. Good luck.

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