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Welcome to Answerbag, a community of people sharing what they know. Top Answer out of 383 by AntigoneRising on Oct 5, 2006 at 9:03 am Permalink
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Ald - My mother didn't have a choice, and if she did then I wouldn't be around to regret it.
If you knew me better then you might understand a bit more. You seem to think that life is the greatest thing ever; the perfect gift. That is NOT an opinion I share, I merely make the most of what I have. I did that when I was thrown across the room and broke the sheetrock wall. I did that when I was picked on in school, something that many teens nowadays will commit suicide over. I am doing that now, being unemployed long enough to need to file on an extension of my benefits and enduring the abuse of those who feel I CHOSE to be unemployed. I didn't ask to be born. I didn't ask for the life I have had. It happened (and is happening) so I make the best of it. Nothing more.
I am the product of my environment. A little place I like to call "Reality" You might want to visit is sometime.
I acknowledge the intent of your blessing and respect it, but I want you to respect AND UNDERSTAND where those of us with whom you disagree come from also. And my biggest quarrel is with those who seek to impose their version of righteousness into issues where the perception of right and wrong is not agreed on. Most sane humans admit that murder is wrong, with murder being defined as the unlawful taking of life. However, we don't all agree on what life is, which makes abortion so contentious an issue. Most humans agree that rape is also wrong, but is making a woman who is already scarred for life by a brutal assault have to drop out of the workforce for a while and endure 18 years of expenses any more humane? Having a constant reminder of that brutality in their face every day for the rest of their life? You are wiling to torture an adult in order to save a clump of cells that *might* become a serial killer or someone like me who doesn't share your appreciation of life? If so, you are narrow-minded and selfish. Don't forget than many people who HAVE had abortions are tortured by what might have been. Those that take such a decision lightly are types of people that are unbalanced in ways that make abortion irrelevant. Many of those that get abortions are seeing things in a more merciful manner; they do not want to bring an unwanted, unloved child into the world. I won't get into my own circumstances, but I *do* believe the world would've gone on just fine without me.
Well put Jerv.
Answer 2 out of 383 by luckyjeans on Sep 25, 2006 at 3:17 pm Permalink
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i thought i was talking from the same side of the fence on this issue, since you brought it up as an excuse/explanation for how you were miscommunicating. i wasnt passing judgment, i was offering advice. sorry if it didnt come off as friendly, but we can agree i wasnt being mean.
i might be trying really really hard to make people agree with me, especially if you realize that i do think abortion is murder (i lost the main thread of what you and i were talking about specifically since it was so long, sorry about that.. school and a broken computer got in the way) however i dont see how trying to get people to understand my position would make me hypocritical here
I agree that abortion is murder - i get the other arguements and i empathisize - i could just never kill a baby no matter how it was concieved
But if you express your view that way ... "I could just never kill a baby...", you really *don't* get the other arguments, because the other arguments are "your conception of 'baby' is too simplistic".
Answer 3 out of 383 by lady fuschia on Sep 26, 2006 at 2:08 am Permalink
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My extended opinion on this topic is located here: http://tinyurl.com/2phomq
Not even close.
JandB, is Lady Fuschia's answer not even close or the comments and why?
Answer 4 out of 383 by headspace on Nov 18, 2006 at 4:17 pm Permalink
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headspace i was nearly aborted but instead was adopted. i still feel that abortion is acceptable. i could go into a whole list of arguements that people have already said but look at it this way
if we outlaw abortion, how many girls are going to take a hanger and towel, go into their shower, and do it themselves? how many girls will go to back alley doctors and get infected and die themselves? have you ever noticed that everytime this country outlaws something, the use or participation of that something goes up?
so does that mean we shouldnt have laws?
Love your answer!
Answer 5 out of 383 by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2006 at 11:42 am Permalink
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'Self defense" is a specific legal term. "Mother's health" not her LIFE is protected by the Courts today which allows the taking of innocent pre-born life with little justification.I argue elsewhere about the responsibility of MEN in the sexual filed, before and after conception, but there is no legal, moral defense for taking the life of the pre-born, modern medicine allows for NOT having to choose between the mother and baby, but "Health" is a cop-out. The CHOICE is whether to do something whose natural end MAY be conception, that is where MEN and WOMEN exercise CHOICE, NOT when Nature "chooses" to permit conception. Adoption is widely available for every child- one of my good friends is the product of rape and is a prize-winning high school Math teacher! God and Human Generosity on the part of many adoptive parents are less self-focused than most of our narrow viewpoints and "pro-choice" propagandists!
Is wanting to rid your defiled body of the effects of being abducted and pack raped by a mob of slobbering drunks from a keg party, one of those narrow, self-focused, propagandist view points you were referring to?
Ya, really.
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Answer 7 out of 383 by Darkling on Sep 25, 2006 at 4:44 pm Permalink
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I agree with Jodie, Tuscan: your "argument" is far from qualifying as reasoned or balanced -- it's basically snide and presumtuous. It's as if you thought that people on the other side of the argument would roll over and agree with you if you made the right kind of smirking expression mugging for the crowd. Folks here are actually quite a bit sharper than you're giving them credit for being.
Tuscan, I agree with Jodie44, as well. Your highly unbalanced soap box doesn't give you enough latitude to judge or insult others for their personal opinions. As far as I'm concerned, after a sperm meets an egg, anything at all can happen. There is NO guarantee that any zygote will ever survive the entire process. So, until it is actually born into the world, I do not consider it a life separate from the mother's. Your judgmental diatribe is as unwanted as it is unnecessary.
Uh... Tuscan has not been seen since Dec. 2006 on this thread. I don't think you're going to hear from him again.
Answer 8 out of 383 by babydoll9205 on Sep 25, 2006 at 3:24 pm Permalink
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You mean me? Or the person who left their opinion?
This was one of the first answers given to this question and references an answer that is lost in the other 56.
I didnt think they were talking about me. but I WAS FLATTERED FOR THE TIME BEING!
Answer 9 out of 383 by Anonymous on Oct 28, 2006 at 6:14 am Permalink
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So because the child is separated from the world by a pouch of skin it is not a human until birth? Think about what youre saying! Life begins when the embryo is formed. This is not merely my own opinion but fact, rather.
actually, if i remember correctly, in asian cultures your age is not determined by when you are born.. ill look into it further, but arguing that abortion is not murder because we celebrate birthdays is equivalent to arguing that santa exists cuz we celebrate christmas
Love your answer, insaner :-)
Answer 10 out of 383 by smsedmc on Nov 20, 2006 at 1:24 pm Permalink
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AntigoneRising, what law are you thinking of? Most procedures kill it by either cutting it up or killing it chemically and then sucking it out, unless it's late term and even then it is killed before birth.
Antigone: You can find a legal requirement in tort law. By creating the embryo the mother has assumed a special duty of care. If you put someone in a dangerous situation and cause them to depend on you for their safety then you are responsible for the well-being of that person. This all comes down to the personhood and rights of the embryo, as usual. (It isn't a fetus until later on in the process.)
Antigone: at the best your statement, when applied to any other human life, would be considered negligent homicide. You are 'extracting' the baby from its sole source of food and life support, and forcing it to live in these new conditions knowing it will not survive. This is the equivalent to not feeding a toddler (or any other person) and seeing how long it can survive, a definite case of murder. But again, this is not the typical means of abortion, most places force it to be done earlier in the pregnancy so that it is less tramatic on the mother, in which case the kill the baby, and either allow the mother's body to then reject it, or remove it (depending on how far along she is), in either case action is taken to actually kill the baby.
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