because they have a lot of testosterone only because it's a biologicalreproduction thing. because of the myth that we dont enjoy sex as much, we are labeled as "whores" or "sluts" thus get no respect. its lame. they just assume they are getting the best of us because we can please them when really, it's simultaneous pleasure.[depending on the guy of course...teehee]

Yes!

Some men think sex is basically only for them to enjoy because they're the ones who can't get a woman off if she had been on the brink just before he touched her. Yes, some guys are really dumb enough to think everything revolves around them. Others, on the other hand, dedicate more time to a woman, trying to do things the way the woman wants because they get a really good feeling helping her get the ever elusive orgasm. Try sticking to them. haha

Well yeah they think its all about them cumming. I was taught that the womans always cums and cums first, even if its just walking in the front door of the house. The head of the penis also has alot of nerves in it, I have not found anything that says who has more, but I also know that a womans nerves go all the way to the clit and anus from the vagina.

No, in fact not very many of us are that dumb. The statement that you make concerning the stimulation level in your erogenous zones is a rare thing to hear or read. I don't think you're slutty just for being plainspoken about it at all. It's nice to hear, because sometimes we wonder if you ladies really want anything to do with us at all. Consider a few things. The National Organization for Women has promoted, within it's ranks, sex-negative feminists. They have fought to define and re-define what "rape" is. They've successfully hammered into our brains what the word "no" means, and now they're telling us that "yes" might not really mean "yes". They've made doubly sure to tell us that (especially) marital sex is frought with emotional and financial duress for the women, to the point that nearly every sexual encounter between husband and wife could be construed as not really consensual (rape). Ladies! It's a minefield out there for us guys. It's not the dumb ones of my gender who are gun shy, it's the smart ones. You ladies absolutely need to take these man-hating feminists to task for mis-representing your true feelings. You're the only ones who can do that, because no one is going to listen to a bunch of "sex-crazed", potential "rapists". But wait! There's more! There's a little piece of observational humor among men, married and single. It goes something like this: If a man dropped a nickel in a jar for every time his sweetie gave him sex prior to marriage, and then took a nickel out every time his wife gave him sex after marriage, the jar would never be empty. Almost every man who hears that smiles and nods knowingly. It's sad. It makes men wonder if the only reason for the frequent sex before marriage was getting him to put a ring on her finger. It's as if she was not ever really enjoying it, but merely enduring it. Now, when a wife (to use a concise term)does consent to sex (however she communicates her consent), a man is very likely to think that she is just going along with it because it's something she's "gotta do" to keep him around, sort of like changing the oil in the car. If he hops on and gets off quick, he may think he's minimizing the bother for her, since she, unlike the bold (and helpful) questioner, has never tried to undo what their own personal circumstances and radical feminist thought has done to them as a couple. Ladies, be bold! Forget being coy. Forget about hoping he'll be a mind reader, or cue into your signal. He may love you to death, but in the sense of subtle communication, he is dumb (and deaf).

Wary Old Guy you are Wise not Wary! Thanks for the compliment! I tried to post comment but it won't work so I came here.The women you mentioned have problems Here are other reasons for confusion and problems;Women must not listen to society because society has always stopped us from expressing sexual side. I've been masturbating since age 5!I always had my own mind. I know my body and what turns me on and can therefore teach my man so we have the best sex everyday! Women learn your body- masturbate, look at Playgirl and Porn. It is normal! You are visual and physical too! Married women enjoy what you have, it is no fun being single! You are so lucky to have a man and so lucky that he wants to please you. If I were married or had a boyfriend right now I would have sex constantly and I would show them so much love and affection! Also be open ans honest with your man!