Ask a Question
or
Create a Poll
  1. Home /
  2. Questions /
  3. Relationship Advice
  4. / Dating
  5. / Cheating In Relationships
  6. / Is My Partner Cheating?

by Butterfly69870 on September 22nd, 2006

Butterfly69870

Question

Help answer this question below.

My boyfriend had 3 condoms, we used 1 of them. Now a week later he only has 1 left. He said a friend took it, but I found out it was a lie, then he said he used it to masturbate. Should I believe him?

  • Like
  • Report
Share:
Other

Answers. 9 helpful answers below.

  • by Ullyses on September 22nd, 2006

    Ullyses

    I may be stating the obvious here. You asked him what had happened to one condom, and he lied to you. When you found out that lie, he grudgingly told you 'the truth'.

    If he has used a condom to masturbate into (why he would feel the need to use a condom I don't know) then he wouldn't mind doing it again in front of you. Quite honestly I think he is stringing you along. I tried a condom myself when I was much younger, to feel what it felt like, but that was before having a girlfriend. Once you're past that stage then you don't use a condom unless it's for sex.

    Of course, this is just my opinion, and he might (in some strange fantasy world) have decided there was more sensation in using a condom when masturbating. I'm sure you get more sensation when wearing a femadom.

    • Like
    • Report

    1 comment | Post one | Permalink

  • by mellow_girl on November 25th, 2008

    mellow_girl

    no, he's lieing to you.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Weatherman on November 25th, 2008

    Weatherman

    He's a goddamned liar.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Anonymous on November 25th, 2008

    Anonymous

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

    And don't believe he is your BF either - some men need one for 'home' (apparent love) and two three, four or more (all others) for sex - including you - that does not make you special - just especially naive and easy to manipulate in his eyes.

    I'm afraid you may be falling for the same BS that relies upon naivete and exploits the heart - guard yours - it is NOT selfish - you have a responsibility to protect it for the one who loves you and the one who you love when he comes along - our most precious gift is LOVE, don't waste your heart on someone who does not value it.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Bobby Dias on September 22nd, 2006

    Bobby Dias

    There may have been something that would have lead me to what you said, but I say to be careful about what a third person says- is it true? Is he/she lying to break you two up?

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Anonymous on May 23rd, 2009

    Anonymous

    I am going through a similiar situation. My husband said the same thing. He bought condoms when we were seperated and three out of 12 were missing. I am not stupid, i know the whores around town chase him and I know he has been a big liar in the past. I honestly dont believe your boyfriend either. But I definately do not blame you for being suspicious and checking. As for the jerk who told you to get a life, you need to get a life. I think you need to dump your boyfriend before you end up marrying the cheating liar.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Kunii Kunii on May 29th, 2009

    Kunii Kunii

    Yes you should believe him It cvould just be more pleasuring to him, and if you dont trust him it could wreck a relationship

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Shemarq the Wamama on May 29th, 2009

    Shemarq the Wamama

    He lied to you. If he did nothing wrong he wouldn't have lied about it.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by wthing8 on November 25th, 2008

    wthing8

    AT least he used one.....

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

Want to attach an image to your answer? Click here.

Did this answer your question? If not, then ask a new question or create a poll.

More Questions. Additional questions in this category.

You're reading My boyfriend had 3 condoms, we used 1 of them. Now a week later he only has 1 left. He said a friend took it, but I found out it was a lie, then he said he used it to masturbate. Should I believe him?

Follow us on Facebook!

Related Ads

Related Questions

Professionally Researched

ANSWERBAG BUZZ

Femadom
Use condom to masturbate
Use a condom to masturbate
Masturbate into condom
Boyfriend lied about condom
Boyfriend masterbating with a condom
Boyfriend condom
Lied condom
How to use condom for masturbation
Husband said he bought condoms for masturbating
Deal or no deal bag 2 mega
My boyfriend has missing condoms
He used me now what should i do
One of my boyfriends condoms is missing
Condoms missing from packet husband cheating
Girlfriend and i had a break i found that condoms were missing when i went round to her flat
I found a condom missing from my boyfriend
Masturbation in used condom
My boyfriend hasnt called me in over a week
Wearing femadom

Answerbag

a Demand Media company