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awesome. none of my bees wax
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Let 'er rip, as long as both have agreed it's OK.
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You go right on ahead, babe! :P I wouldn't mind seeing that. :)
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Might not be my cup of tea but whatever two consenting adults decide to do in their relationship, as long as no one is getting hurt, is their business;)
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Why hypothetical? Can't you at least pretend it's real so I can dream about this? Yes.....I would have NO problem with the wife having girlfriends........
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Doesn't bother me...
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Thats Hot!
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If it were me, hell no. That is CHEATING. I don't know the situation, but is he really ok with it or is he just saying that? Also, what if he one day decided to have a gf on the side. How could she in any way justify telling him no. At the end of the day, what kind of example is that for the kids?
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what married couples do is between themselves and God. i have no interest in the bedroom activities of anyone but myself.
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Not my cup of tea. A third wheel in a relationship brings with it higher odd of getting a flat tire.
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My thoughts are that if i was the girlfriend I wouldn't be into it. I am an old fashioned monogamous lesbian. What other people do is not my business, except, I would not want my lover to be having sex with anyone else, especially someone they had made a life commitment to. It would totally detract and distract from anything I could have going on with her. Then I guess this is not happening in my life, whatever the lover wants to do.
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Why are they married if she wants a relationship outside of marriage?
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I had a friend this happened to. She's bi, got married, had a kid, I don't really know how he took it, but they ended up in divorce.
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Not historically the point of marriage, and okay, BUT, if each person is cool with it, then so be it. Let me ask you something though, (hypothetically) if the wife wanted another boyfriend, how cool would the husband be?
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Good for them if it is what they both want. However don't confuse being bisexual with having multiple partners. Being bisexual simply means that you are open to sex with both genders. The multiple partner thing is a seperate issue.
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My husband is not jealous either. He says "It's ok, girls may play")))). We are together for a long time now, he knows all of my stories and affairs with my girlfriends. He also knows, that I am not going deadly serious like falling in love or leaving him. He knows my heart is his, and playing with the girls it's just for fun, for good, for affair, for extra feelings. What can I do? I can't resist a woman, and he understands me)).
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Bully for them. As long as they are open and safe, and talk about the possibilities that could arise (jealousy, the girlfriend wanting more than the wife wants to give, etc.) then it sounds like they have an awesome, loving relationship.
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So long as husband makes it clear that he would have a problem if she had a boyfriend and make sure she is okay with that hypocritical standpoint before moving forward. (Trust me, such things need to be said at the beginning) If all is well, party time!
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it's not my marriage.
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I don't think it's anyone's place to judge what a consenting married couple finds acceptable within their marriage. If they haven't already experienced this dynamic in their relationship, however, I would caution them that it could cause problems they don't anticipate (sexual preferences, feeling left out, jealousy, etc.).
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My thoughts? Whatever they are comfortable with...makes no difference to me one way or the other. Why should it? It's no business of mine.
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Although I wouldn't go there myself, it is none of my business what someone else does. :)
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Why should I care? It ain't my problem
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It's not going to work out.
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Go with it!!
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No, I like a one person only woman, and it better be me.
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Do I get to have a girlfriend too?
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I wouldn't go for it, but whatever floats their boats.
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Does he get to have a girlfriend too?
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thats fucking stupid.
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I'd wish them the best of luck, and that would be the extent of my public thoughts. I'd have zero judgment, positive or negative; it's absolutely none of my business. I'd have private questions, such as "Are there kids?", and how have they been accounted for? Is this being kept secret from them, or are they being fed a lie because it's thought that they can't handle knowing the truth? Are there parents? And what do they know? When it comes right down to it, it's totally a family matter, but as we value our families we should let them know at least a certain amount of the truth -- and no lies, if that's possible.
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Okay. Sounds good to me.
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My wife and I have been sharing with our friends for the last 25 years – As couples we share, the thought of her or me having a special separate relationship with someone in the other couple, just doesn't sound too good.
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as long as I can be the referee...
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I wouldn't be okay with that. To me, a marriage is meant to be monogomous. Why would you agree to be married, but let your spouse essential cheat with permission. Good for them if they can make it work, but I know I couldn't.
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my thoughts - they can do whatever they want. If they are both consenting adult they can sleep with whoever they want to
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Whatever.
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Only if the girlfriend is simultaneously his girlfriend too ;D It's gonna be awesome!
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I don't see a problem with it but you should talk about what would happen if that person becomes a problem (ie. gets too attached to you and wants you for herself).
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I have 2 thoughts: 1) what you do in your marriage is none of my business (as long as no children are adversely affected), and 2) I believe marriage, whether it's hetero or same-sex is a declaration of monogamy to the person you love. If you don't want to be monogamous to each other, why be married, and not just shack up?
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Well I dont care what they want to do but it seems like thats just asking for trouble...
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Who am I to stand in the way of actions between consenting adults?
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hypthetically , it will probably work til the husband decides he wants his own gfriend or the wife and gfriend decide they want another bfriend or husband...:) personally , 3's a crowd/trouble...
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