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  • Don't EVER let ANYONE (I don't care who it is) pressure you into anything you are uncomfortable with. If you tell him that you are uncomfortable with the idea and you don't want to, if he continues to pressure you then obviously he doesn't care as much about you as you may think. You've been together long enough that your feelings should mean a little more then where he gets to put his penis, and if they *don't*, then you need to find yourself a new boyfriend. You are not a prude- you're just someone who doesn't want to have anal sex. I'm known around my friend circles as being a complete freak, and guess what? I don't like anal sex either.
  • You need to find the balance of exploring new sexual things and fullfilling his desires with your own comfort zone. The short answer is no - it doesnt make you a prude and there is nothing wrong with not doing it. However, if you are really into the guy, you should be open to sexual exploration. If it hurts, stop - if you are uncomfortable, stop. But if it is just sexually exploring each other, you should be open to that. Ultimately you may experience something nice along with him. Explore gently and never go beyond your own comfort zone. Not exploring anything sexually with him is, to be honest, a little bit unfair. One would hope a good relationship is a bit more fun - but if that is how you are, so be it. It is your body and you make the rules -- NEVER forget that.

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