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Bitter feelings!
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I actually agree with you. Why? Well, .. because they won't just drop it and let it go.
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I don't bad mouth my ex's. Of course they aren't my favorite person right after a break up because I always take a break up really hard, but every relationship that ends does for a reason.
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Agree. if they do is cause they are still bitter or jealous, unforgiving, maybe still in love.
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In some cases i'd say i agreee. But i've had a couple relationships that i felt there just wasn't any real closure in the relationship...once i found closure with him or her(i'm bi lol) i really never thought about them anymore.
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Going threw the same thing right now. I am not sure how he truly feels, we do have a kid together and he has told me that me and my daughter are the most important thing to him. IF he told me that to make me feel better and he thought that is what i wanted to hear, im not sure. He just could not say anything at all. So yes I do think he is still in love with me, i think he has a lot of regrets and it makes them feel better to talk s*** about the ex. There saying it in there heads though, they dont feel that way with there hearts.
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i agree, i was in this situation not too long ago with my new boyfriend.his ex who i didnt even know said some really rude things about me.. they just do it cos they're jelous cos in most cases they still have feelings for that person....
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I think you are correct, other wise why would they have such negative thoughts about someone from their past???? jilted love, i think...
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I'm sure they still have feelings for them. Maybe they are hurting and need to vent.
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I'd have to respectfully disagree. I think sometimes people who bad mouth their ex's have reason to do so. Not neccessarily jilted love, but a deep hurt from something that happened in the relationship. Perhaps they were the vicitms of abuse and they are finally able to speak their mind on the person. Maybe they were cheated on in the relationship and they want everyone to know what happened. When something happens and the relationship was not a nice, clean "I just don't want to be with you anymore" break, I think that a little bad mouthing is in order. However, unless the ex's new lover is the person your ex cheated on you with, there really isn't a need to bad mouth the new person (except for maybe their judgement....joke.)
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true that. i guess i have not really said anything mean about her. i have repect for her because she has raised a kid all by herself so i think she is a little desperate and blind to who he really is, i tried to tell her and in fact he did cheat on her with me and tried to do it again a couple months ago, he was really loaded and had just found out an old friend died. we hung out and talked for a couple hours but he used an alibi before he left the house and he met me a couple blocks away he made a move on me first and flirted with me the whole time.
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Yes I can see that being true, it depends on the situation. Talking bad about an ex is part of the healing process, but also some poeple talk bad about an ex if the ex did something really rotten, and while the person doesn't still have feelings, they need to talk about it.
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i think bad mouth is not rigth it make people sad i know a people how bad mouth people and ask why he does not have friends and if he just read he emails he sends to peolpe about people he spend never day of the week with he might unstand why !!
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I Agree with this a friend of mine split with his ex october 2007 and until this day every day he bad mouths her, about anything and everything. What she was like when they was together and how she looks now. She is still on his Facebook and he looks at when her status says shes booked a holiday 10 mins later his status says where shall i go this year hmm tough choices, easier when ur on ur own! She has moved on and happy yet he still likes to bad mouth her, yet shes a real nice person.
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Agree:The idea of forgiving and forgetting comes to mind.If they can't get past the relationship,they need to look inwards and find out why,some people just don't seem to understand that resentments can last a lifetime.
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to show you that im NOT YOUNG so you can answer my question. i agreee because if one bad mouths the other, that person must have a reason to. that person wouldnt do it just because unless he/she tried to ruin their ex's life. it could be possible that person could still have feeling but they would need to try and talk about it.
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Uh, no. If some chick ran away with my credit cards and maxed them out. I would just be pissed that I had to pay them off.
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