Have you ever had a friend change their attitude toward you because you didn't take their advice? Why do some people think you're the biggest idiot alive when you won't do what they suggest?
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debodun
ANSWERS: 7
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You need to look at the term Friendship, as there are what you could call social-friendships,then there are closer than a brother or sister relationships. It is the latter relationship that you can feel most comfortable with, And you need not be concerned with what you say to each other or being hurtful. So look at your friend and see if he or she is just using you to build up their own ego, If that be the case move on.
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I know it's silly. Yeah I had a friend give me weird, irrelevant advice, while I thanked her, I didn't use it so she thought I had no clue what life was about. She would say stuff like "if you ate more, then your life will improve" or something weird like that. I had lost 5 pounds, but was still very much within normal, healthy weight!
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT - REMEMBER HE WHO LAUGHS LAST, LAUGHS LONGEST!
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I have always said, "If you do not want my advice, then don't ask". If the end results do not include my suggestion, then maybe that person has learned a lesson.
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Actually, ...yes. This person is probably being a bitch to you like the person who gave me advice is being a bitch to me. She seems to think she knows me better than I know myself when she hasn't got a clue who I really am, even though she sees me practically every single day.
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Yes. Once there was this encounter I had with a guy that gave me a very good reason to hate him for the rest of my life. I, however, decided that hating someone for so long, no matter how they hurt me, wasnt something I wanted to do. So I forgave him. I didnt start being his friend or anything, in fact, I still dont talk to him. But I dont hold what he did against him, even if he deserves it. My friends hate him. Still do. Whenever his name comes up in conversation, they talk about how much they hate him, when they werent the ones who were hurt by him. I told them this. That I had more reason to hate him than anyone else.. and if I could forgive him, so could they. Well. They didnt agree. And that started the end of our friendship. Sad. But thats life. ~+~
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A few times. Some people believe their advice is the only way to go. If it worked for them, it should work for everyone.
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