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Totally uncomfortable, especially if I know them on a personal level. I hate walking on eggshells and you have to with someone who can't control their temper.
I prefer to avoid people who lack self-control.
They totally scare me.
That happened tonight a few hours ago. Four sets of neighbors came over and we were just sitting on our porch having a beer and having a good time until one of the neighbors a few doors up starts yelling at his kids to get their stuff picked up off the lawn. He never lays a hand on them but he yells a lot and he scares me.
I remove myself immediately and do not go back for more. My mantra is, healthy boundaries.
No because I can get just as ill as they can.
Depends on how big they are. =P
No I can handle most people.
Yes ... I teach peaceful self controls first & foremost, along with health & spirituality as things of primary importance ... the self defense and combat arts, I only teach for use as a last resort.
Yes and especially if they have violent outbursts.
yea i am. i always feel like i'm walking on eggshells with them. it doesnt help much that i always want everyone's approval though lol
I don't think anybody is comfortable with somebody with a bad tempter.
No not ot at all.
I wouldn't say "uncomfortable". I'm moreso intolerabe of their behavior and because of it choose to stray away from them.
very much so.. the first thing I want to do is get away from them.
Yes, Its an awful feeling to be around a person that could errupt over anything. I hate it and I've hated it.
How can you sit there and be calm when you never know whats going to start the temper off, I would hate that.
Well, sorta. I also think that venting could be a good thing.
I've been banned from playing go-fish...........for life....
Yes, because I know what they can be capable of. I have a very bad temper which has taken YEARS and great effort on my part to learn how to control..It takes an awful lot now to make me lose my temper.
Nah because I have an even badder temper.LOL
Yes, aren't most people put off by moodiness.
yeah it makes me afraid that at any moment they could turn on you, and that would not be fun
Yes sometimes. People that are naturally aggressive give off bad vibes. As soon as I meet someone like that I can usually tell just by their body language that they could snap at any moment over anything and that's what worries me.
Yes very uncomfortable. I've not been around yelling or acts of agression and when I have seen it I become fearful.
Very uncomfortable. Yelling really scares me, and if you add dramatic body language I become very upset.
Yes I would be very uncomfartable being with somebody who has a bad temper, because I hate confrontation.
Yes I am because my temper is above everyone outside of my family temper once I get angry I rarely worry about someone else anger
No problem! as long as he or she leaves me my space.
I have a pretty bad temper myself but I loathe people that shout. It is just not something I do or am used to.
If I am very angry I get very quiet and clipped in speech .That is when people avoid me.
Luckily I have learned to control my temper and I do dislike being in the company of people that have a bad temper when alcohol is involved.
yes. well for me, anyways. it would be uncomfortable. i would hope that he would love me enough not to hurt me, but i know that even if he doesn't mean to, there are times when he'll just be too angry to think & i may just get hurt anyways.
Yeah, because I would feel like I was walking on eggshells. I used to have a friend with a terrible temper, and I often kept my mouth shut and my opinion to myself because she would snap like freaky scary.
yes because i also have a bad temper you just have to find someone who can control their anger
yeah. it's unnerving and feels like i'm walking on eggshells and i don't like doing that. plus, it kind of puts me in a bad mood too.
No, im a pretty confrontational person myself, so Im always up for a fight... if I was uncomfortable with these people then I would always be uncomfortable since I, myself have a bad temper... I am a product of my own environment sadly
uM YEAH cuz you really never know whats going to happen. You don't know wat to say or what to do to keep them from gettin mad. They just get mad for nuthin!
I'm very uncomfortable with people who have bad tempers. In general, I can't stand loud, outspoken, rude, obnoxious people. I think a bad temper goes right along with that. I feel uncomfortable around people when they are ranting and raving or going into some outburst. It's almost scary in a way. Not only does acting this way make a person look ignorant most of the time, it makes people around them feel uncomfortable to right out scared. Losing your cool is not cool!
Yes, I am so uncomfortable with a person who has a bad temper that I refuse to be anywhere near them. I would not associate with them.
No. It would be like walking on eggshells.
yes, I really am. The word "bad temper" never leads any place good. I love you, be good to you.
Extremely. It does not feel good when you have to walk on eggshells around someone.
yes very as i was in a abusive relationship with 2 men both for 3 years i hate it when men argue around me
My last relationship was with a woman with a bad temper and i found the need to tip toe around her exhausting.
How can you NOT be. The "walking on eggshells" thing gets old.
No I hate it I get really nervous and start panicking :)
yes definately,i cant stamd people like that as im not like it myself so i try and stay clear of that sort of thing
no way lol how can u stay with some1 that will totally flip thier wig if u do some ting 2 make dem angry
Personally, it depends on the person. I find it uncomfortable if I do not know the person..like a neighbour or stranger. My bf has a bit of temper, I just let him rant and rave, and then carry on. I found if he thinks it gets him some where he continues, but when he sees I am not interested he stops. Like a child having a tantrum.
Yes and hes sitting right next to me!!! grrrrrr
Probably. Try not to stay around ill tempered people.
someone who is known to have a bad temper has little control over their emotions. to me, i'd view them as weak. and my respect for them would be weak also.
Very much so. It makes me nervous.
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