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  • stop second guessing yourself and go with your gut. If you want this to work he's going to have to step up to the plate. Couple councelling might be a difficult step, but many community centers and churches offer it for free. Try it out, might be worth your happiness :) best of luck to you!
  • love 'em and leave 'em. its a common life style. how many others has he loved and left? Babies tend to make the uncommitted head for the hills and green pastures. Give him the boot now, otherwise he is just using your body for his own selfish desires. Put the kid up for adoption. It might sound harsh. But it would help you get a fresh start in life. Next time keep your knees together.
  • First I think you need to rationally think about why you feel he doesn't really want to be with you. Has he been getting distant or does he seem uninterested in you, the baby and/or the relationship. Could this just be your own insecurity rearing it's ugly head? Has he ever spoken about the breakdown of any of his previous relationships to you. If (and I'm not saying he doing this)he's used this "chill" technique before to make you want to leave maybe that should have been a red flag. Good luck to you and your baby.
  • Perhaps he is too afraid of having to commit to having to be financially responsible for the baby and yourself. If he is not in a financially secure position he might be afraid of the idea of a family.
  • I know you're pain and confusion dear, but i got great advice from my grandmother that i'll share with you. Men have a habit of not running or going after things that are right in front of their faces, they rather a wild goose chase. Sometimes communication isn't enough so you have to use the 'two can play that game'method. If he wants to be a loner, let him be, heck become one yourself find a hobby ;) but you do it with *SKILL* When he realizes hey she's happy w/o me than you will see the female tendencies of men, how they become unhappy and ask you the same questions. All of a sudden they become dumb to the fact that you were just feeling like that and they begin to act like they're loosing you.Be tough represent for us women and show him what he's missing out on.

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