This is for the guys. What would you think if a female friend of yours just up and asked you one day if you would like to be sex buddies? Would you go for it, or would you be worried about the friendship? Does it depend on how attractive you think she is?
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Interesting question. Well, originally I would have thought it was my lucky day. Then, I actually found a sex buddy. She wanted no commitment, didn't want it to change our friendship, just wanted it to be about sex. (strange as it may sound, I was okay with that) I treated her the same, as if nothing was different with our relationship. After about a week, she accused me of not taking our relationship seriously, and broke up with me. Now we no longer talk. I like the idea of sex buddies. I really think it's a viable option most of the time. Perhaps, in my case, she didn't know what she wanted, or what she was(or wasn't) getting into. So, in conclusion, I would go for it, but with a certain amount of regret, because I'd probably be losing a good friend.
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I think many guys would feel ok with this, because the male ego would think that this is a workable situation, sex and no committment. Its the same thought process that makes some guys feel they can change the orientation of lesbians. I know I would like it, but it's a tough road to travel, especially if feelings come into play. The attractivness of the friend wouldn't matter in this case for me, because this person would already be a friend. I nearly entered a situation like this years ago, with someone I used to confide in sexually and she to me. I think we could have done it and maintained the same friendship.
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If we date and have sex that is one thing. But I think it is a waste of time to have a "freak buddy". I just think its cheap.
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Although I am now married, when I was single I had different fuck buddies at various times along the way: friends with benefits. As in general, of course it would matter how she looks.
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Sorry but i'm a woman and although you haven't asked for it i'm going to tell you my opinion. Woman want and need sex, but we can use it as power too. We also want people to fall in love with us and find us the most attracgtive ever. We are flattered and excited by this even if we don't really want it. If a man doesn't develop a deeper love for us, then we get offended and pissed off, then we cause problems as a result of our insecurities. So don't trust a woman who says she just wants to be fuck buddies. It never really works, it will affect your freindship, and there are always feelings involved with sex. Even if they are negative ones.
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