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If you look to evolutionary perspectives for answers, it may give reasons for this. One reason is that (again, evolutionarily speaking) the goal of the species is to mate as often as possible to pass on one's genes. This is easier for men who can have sex multiple times in one day without repurcussions (besides fatigue and longer refractory periods). Women, on the other hand, are a little more invested in sex in that if they get pregnant, they'll have to deal with the consequences for 9 months (during which time, they cannot become impregnated again). Also, women have a smaller window of time than men for when they are "fertile." With survival of the species being a big factor for women, mating with just anyone wouldn't do because if an infant was born who wasn't healthy enough to survive, then that was 9 months of time that she "wasted." Therefore, one would expect females to have a more reserved view of sexual intercourse than men and be more selective about with whom they choose to mate. Again, this is purely from the evolutionary standpoint.
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I would probably be more concerned about whether he trusts you or not if I were in your situation. If it's so against human nature, then does that mean he wants to experience other people? Just because it's against his nature doesn't mean it's against your nature. I personally only want to have sex with one person for the rest of my life. Does that mean I'm against nature? I'm definitely not. However, I have other weaknesses that can cause me to fall.
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I think that if the sex is satisfying physically and emotionally, then why would you need to experience other partners - regardless of what is or isn't "against human nature". It's our INDIVIDUAL nature to want to be satisfied in our relationships. Naturally, if you AREN'T satisfied then you're either going to a) long for something or someone else or b) be miserable in the relationship, which will probably lead to (a). Anyway, your boyfriend is insecure. You love him and want to be with only him, so make sure you beat that into his thick skull until he finally GETS it. Some of us actually DO like the idea of spending the rest of our lives with one person.
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Good for you. When he flings that at you, he's showing insecurity. Tell him you worry he might seek out another so you will make the effort he doesn't look. Now he might be knocked down a few notches by telling him he has no fear about you finding a better lover. But, maybe he should worry about all the guys with Mercedes, guys with the looks and money of Brad Pitt or ________ (insert your favorite personality) The world does not revolve around sexual performance. What do you do in the other 23 hours a day? (Highly exaggerated. More like 23 hours and 50 minutes a day). Too bad so many guys are that way. Caused by men having a propensity for their brains to be located in the penis instead of head. Could be worse. Most guys think they're such studs that they are always looking for other opportunities.
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