ANSWERS: 7
  • yes. absolutely. of course, you have to find the right person, and not lead them on, blah, blah, blah... there's no better way to get over it, or at least distract yourself for a while, than to get back on the horse (so to speak.) ride 'em cowboy!
  • not intentionally, but sometmes when your really hurt you just want attention from anywhere, ya know. but been there done that, over it
  • Yes. Mabie not that much at first tho.
  • Probably not right away and not intentionally but it sometimes happens and in a stange way, kind of helps. You focus your attention on someone else and the attention you receive sometimes makes you feel better. I guess it all depends on the situation though.
  • nah I usually drown myself in alcohol and feel sorry for myself long enough to get over the crushing blow to my fragile self esteem for a good month or 3. Then of course I find I have even less confidence and fear of rejection only stunting my ability to flirt even more.
  • I say most definitely! It always distracts me for a while and who knows what will happen. You're free finally. ROCK ON!
  • After something of that nature occurs, I usually clam up and concentrate on work/school/other facets of life in order to forget about the past relationship. I don't want to (accidentally or not) get in another relationship until I know I'm ready and over my previous one.

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