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there is no set "right time" for a relationship to carry itself to the next step. Unless you're amish. then, it's something like 6 years of having a partner until you can get married. Anyways, i digress. If he is really the best thing in your life, you love him unconditionally, trust him with everything, and the feeling is mutual, go for it. It's never too soon nor too late for love to flourish. I wish you a very happy lifetime with this lucky man.
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There is no "right amount" of time; however, statistics show that in most cases where individuals were married within 6 mos of a divorce being finalized; the marriages failed within 5 yrs. However, if they waited the relationships had more success. Now, that's just statistics (some people don't consider themselves one of the stats) Personally, I believe in giving yourself some time. If you've only known your new friend a year, give it another year for engagement and preparations perhaps. If you love him and he loves you; he's not going anywhere, so why not build the relationship and then discuss a future together? Why the rush? Just curious.
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