Can you remember what you did right after your breakup with your last b/f or g/f?
by 
Zack Be Gone - All Hail Firebrand.
ANSWERS: 93
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I cried, missed the next day of school, and when I went back...my current boyfriend began persuing me. It didn't take me long to realize the ex was just a dunce. :)
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I cried, mostly. Threw up & panic-attacked. I went to a therapist, then a doctor, and then the police, who were not only not helpful but condescending.
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it was day after X-mas, he had spend the night and broke up with me like before midnight,,,, I cried all night, It hurt it so bad , i couldnt stop crying and he didnt even try to calm me down, or nothing so i felt worse,,, I had a bad heart and headche the next day, it was so bad that I didnt go to work that next dya..
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Yeah, I went to a bar to get drunk with my friends ...
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i cried and then found a good friend to talk to:-)
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I disemboweled the stuffed seal she gave me for Christmas, then turned the knife on myself. (didn't go as far as to disembowel.)
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I went to L.A to hang out with my friend Leon and see his band play at the Knitting Factory.
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Went over to my friend's house and had BBQ ribs and watched a couple of movies...and tried to ignore my phone ringing incessantly!
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Had a meaningless fling to seal the deal.
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Got drunk.
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I had a party
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I cut my hair...very satisfying. Like starting new.
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Said "he deserved it"
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my first dumped, I was crashed the world ended for me. Mom told me get up and go because the world still going I still have to go. I stood up but forgot whats like to eat or look at because I wasn't me when i was with him. i was with him its always him what he likes to eat or drink. so i start all over again on my own in my name myself.. Im happy whew..
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I smoked a pack of cigarettes and drank my sorrows away.
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call my mom and say i'm not going to school tmrw. then we went to lunch
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sat alone and thought about what happened, it took a while for me to get over her, she was my first and only girlfriend.
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Nothing at all. He was a very casual boyfriend, and we were only together a few months. I think I told my roomate, and went out with someone else the next night.
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After I told the jerk to get lost I went back to my home state and resumed things with my then fiance now husband of two yrs. What happened was the guy I finally got rid of was a leach who would not go away even after he cheated on me with a GUY. Then the moron had the nerve to get pissed at me for cheating on him. So finally I got sick of the childish games and told the guy that not only did I cheat on him but I was engaged to the guy I cheated with which was true. Occasionally the jerk still tries to contact me to no avail. I went ahead and married the guy I cheated on the ex with and we celebrated two yrs together a few days ago and have an almost 11 mo. old daughter and couldn't be happier. I'd been trying to get rid of that particular ex for a while to no avail so I finally decided to beat him at his own game. It worked incredibly well. And if it seems a little strange that I had two guys at once it was only that way because the ex was a clingy leach who refused to let me go and also I needed to know I had somewhere to go after I left him.
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i got drunk and cried my heart out and two weeks later had a shitty one night stand
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I cried for days, and I was the one doing the breaking up. He was really hurt and I felt really guilty. We got back together in a few days.
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Went out to dinner with the new boyfriend!
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I was depressed for a year. Abandonment problems.
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I spent the rest of the day at school :/ I dumped her before class started (High school) after a long drawn-out fight of several days. I then spent the rest of the day not talking to her in the classes she sat directly next to me in. It was a rough day. I would have felt bad if she hadn't enjoyed her hobby of telling me that as long as I dated her, I couldn't do any of the things that were important to me so much... (The fight that ended the whole thing started out with her telling me that I had to quit the varsity wrestling team)
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I cried deicided he wasn't worth it and went out with my girlfriends for my birthday (yes ..he dumped me on my birthday!) and got drunk
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Cried for a few days, cut and moved on.
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Celebration times,come on. Do do do do do do do do .
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Not 10 minutes later, a friend came in, and she said "you'll find better"-- I was so angry with her. How dare she assume that I wasn't happy, what on earth made her think that I wanted to find better, and if she REALLY felt he wasn't good for me, why didn't she say something in the two years prior? It hadn't been a mutual breakup, exactly, but it was friendly and so much more sad than hateful. I still get angry thinking about that- especially when I found out later she had the hots for me. And I found someone not better, butexactly like him-- Him. We got back together about 9 months later.
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I cried. Profusely.
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I left the country for good and never looked back.
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i finished reading a story...and listened to music, didn't cry or anything, i remember feeling....relieved?
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Packed my stuff in my car, and moved back to Reno where I have a son who loves and respects me, and terrific grandkids.
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Cried and kept wondering why. I hate missing someone and I hate the thought that they'll never be around again. Life is so short, sometimes people don't realize what they are missing. If I were to die tomorrow would it not bother him or would he wish he had done everything to keep me by his side? People need to remember to treat each day like it's your last day. You never know when it's the end.
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Got stoned and drunk and got some strange. Than got over it. :)
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Moved out and carried on with my life.
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Grieved for a day until I realised it was a blessing in disguise.
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I don't remember. The break-up was mutual though.
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Cry a lot of tears for 3 days..And started to pick up the broken pieces of my life after that.
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I got drunk, cried like a little girl, and wrote her a letter describing the history of all that I had felt for her. It wasn't pretty.
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Before Jim, I was engaged many years ago to a guy that was very jealous of anything I wanted to do that did not include him..like spend time with my kid, or my sister, or just reading or cooking..that didn't last long..I moved far away and commuted to work (he was an employee at the same place I worked) and he was let go for budget reasons..he got tired of the drive..I was delighted and relieved.When I got a small package..( a set of blue liqueur glasses I had purchased and left at his place) without a note, I knew he finally let go and I was very very joyful! :)
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Drank a bottle of tequila while packing up his sh*t.
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I left town for a bit to clear my head.
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i was drinking at the time, so i just kept drinking...and had a pretty awesome night...OH YER!!!
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Right after I had a little party. A week later I moved back to NY.
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yea i cryed for hours and hours and listened to sad music :(
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I tried to live my life the way it was before i met him... it was hard.. but i got nothing else to do... and started to meet new people and have fun with ... i couldn't totally get over him.. but i kept my mind busy with other things..
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I sighed in relief rather than regret. I got my life back, moved on.
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cried
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I think it involved a rye enduced coma snuggled up on my couch.
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lol...i called him n said thaks you! ( i really meant it :D)
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Immediately after? I sobbed constantly, got drunk, and had sex with some jerk. So, basically, I broke down completely. At least I learned from my mistakes. Don't copy my actions, kids!
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I told my mom I was sick, so I could stay home from school. Then I stared at the TV all day without actually watching it. I hate breakups. :(
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Got a tattoo
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I went and slept with his friend.
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I had a diner with my family and tried to ease the pain this way. Even though i was the one who broke, it hurt more..I had to do it.and I did it.
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I was at work when he emailed and said it was over. I went home, checked my email, went to the gym, stopped at the grocery store, made dinner, showered and tanned and now I am on here...
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well.. my break up was three weeks ago.. so I remember clearly. Lets see, I didnt react in time.. which was wrong, I broke down crying in front of him and left (yeah because we broke up in the back room of his job)my friends HAD to pick me up because I was in bad shape, they took me to a gas station.. I bought a six pack.. drank it all with an empty stomach, got drunk, drove around and came home.. and cried the whole night. Yeah... pretty much everything involves tears.I was engaged to him so it was really hard, Im still trying to get over him... ive talked to him because either my friends call him or I have called him to resolve problems... and even though I want to hate him all I do is treat him with kindness.. and show him that words will never kill me. Be strong!
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Been drinking since Friday night. Kidding...most of it was football related. Just doing the same old thing except not calling her every morning and evening.
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cried.:)
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I cried all night when one of my exes broke up with me and with the other i went to starbucks to have my friend comfort me.
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was convinced to go out (i had no money so my male friend and his friend (also male) decided to get me drunk. went to a cocktail bar. then a club. bumped into said ex!) it was awful!
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I went to work and just tried to move on. It didnt work too well though. I cried in the car to work and had to chill in the parking lot for about 10 minutes for my eyes to return to a non-red state.
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Blasted melodic death metal through my surround sound. Wait..... first thing was cry my eyes out for a few weeks... then music.
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i went and did everything we once did together alone to let myself know i dont need her to enjoy my life.
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Drank a bunch of tequila and watched Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
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Bathe with all of my clothes on...
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drank away my sorrows
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I blacked out for a good 2 weeks I think
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slept with his bestfriend. Pay back's a bitch.
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ya i met another boy 2 days latter and it kind of repeats itself
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Yes, I ran to my dad and cried in his arms for an hour. I was 15 years old at the time.
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I am doing it right now. Drinking a bottle of "Jar Head Red" wine and watching TV..crying and letting it all out, while alternating making plans to get out and get back to being who I was BEFORE the dead weight was on my back.
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Cried until my whole body ached, then we went to bed together, the next day we organised all our stuff and began moving out. Just awful.
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I cried consistently every hour for 3 days while staying inside and watching a great deal of break up films eating nothing but ramen and ginger ale...and the aspirin in order to get rid of the emotion headache. Around the 4th day, I went to have coffee with a friend and proceeded to count off the stages of dying(it works for relationships kinda): 1. Denial 2. Anger 3. Bargaining 4. Depression 5 Acceptance (don't ever watch Eternal Sunshine 4 times in 3 days like I did)
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I cried while he was still there. He hugged me and kissed me on the forehead. When he left I imediately rang my cousin and told her. At the same time I text me sister telling her to come home cause I needed her. He had text my best friend asking her to call over. Spent the night crying and got sick. My sister , cousin and best friend stayed all night with me. My friend made me tea and food but I couldn't eat it because I was too upset. She stayed with me all night and when I was exhausted she put me to bed.
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It was a week ago. I cried all night with him, and drank a lot of ouzo. He hugged and kissed my head. I spent the next day in bed crying.
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She did it through a text message during the summer. I went camping with my uncle and at first I wished she was with me, but then I got to having so much fun that I got over it. My uncle is my closest friend ever. I told him everything and we have inside jokes about her.
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Yeah I cried. I broke up with him, but I cried because he didn't like me I know he didn't because my husband who was or still is his best friend told me he was getting upset over another girl while we were still dating. He was upset because she liked someone else and not him. I don't know maybe he was using me.
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After crying my eye balls out, I went out with the girls looking all glam.
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Went to netball training and sat on the swings in the rain. told one friend and trusted the news to get round.
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well after my last breakup i laid on the floor in my living room where we last sat together while he dumped me & i cried & listened to taylor swift for awhile then when my roomate got home from work a lil later she forced me to pull it together & took me to get my bellybutton pierced since while i was with my ex he didnt want me to get it pierced so my roomate made me and i have to admit im glad she did :)
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i just cried cuz i was having a really bad day and then i read the txt he sent and i couldnt take it after the day i had and i just cried the whole day night to the the next day
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well three weeks ago my fiance said he needs space for three mths and he will call me later .. but i called him a few times ever since then and all he does is hang up..so basically ive been crying everyday for the last three weeks.. sighss
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Travelled ... the U.S.A and Europe ... from Australia.
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considering it was last night blasted amy winehouse drunk a bottle of scotch and got really high with my best guy friends im feeling a little better today 8}
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Deleted all their numbers and email address. That is the first and very important step. Then i probably cheered and celebrated my freedom.
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Went "YAAAAAAAAYYYYY" and started dancing around my house.
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went out to some clubs wit some friends ,got drunk & cried my eyes out when i woke up the next day.....& guess what ?....I did it all over again the next night , only this time i didn't cry my eyes out the next morning ... good huh ... : )
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I CRIED! Went solo for a week to a quiet place to get myself back on track!
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I listened and analized to his breaking-up recorded message several times...day after day...I could not believe this was the man I had known...This really helped me keep my tears in and reality hitted home. I realized that he had just used me for the mean while and now that his ex girlfriend came back to town, he got REALLY CONFUSED. Just my luck.
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Yes. I contacted a woman I had recently met. We went out. We have now been happi;ly married over 22 years. What else can I help you with? Be kind. Be joyful. Be safe. Sincerely, Uncle Floyd
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Had 10 tequila shots to stop the fire i felt in my heart,sadly i remember it didn't stop:(
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I changed the locks on my door.
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