The only way to be happy and have friends is to be happy with yourself. If people don't like you than fuck them! Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life, make you feel down because of who you are. Even if your insecure about it, always hold your head up high and tell them to fuck off. Also a reason people don't like people is because of their obvious insecurities. I also find that if you join Karate you start to believe in yourself. Just try to get over it and things will get better. Because as soon as you dont care is as soon as it all comes to you. I mean, I feel the same way you do. i have a few friends and I have a boyfriend but I feel like people hate me all the time and its probably because im insecure. so good luck!

Will now is a good a time as any lonely beth. My name is Zack and I hope it will be a pleasure to meet you. Will you accept my hand in friendship?

I will be your friend :)

les be friends...

You know, you can't go after straight women. Unfortunately, you have a limited number of options. It's not at all hopeless though. You find one lesbian, you then find a bunch (because that lesbian will have friends and her friends will have friends, etc., etc.,).

In order for people to accept you. You have to accept yourself. Have you done that?

are you near a college town, there are always a few lesbian ladies at a college. you have a lot of living to do to find love. its summer, just cruise and you will find someone.

Why don't you join some clubs,and get out more? And try lesbian dating bars? Also,I'll be your friend. :) I'll sent you a friend request.

I'll be your friend don't feel like that I love you

You are only young so give it some time and im sure you will find love very soon:-)

I was a teenager when I realized I was lesbian, but I didn't know anyone openly gay. I had friends, all who were straight, but I kept who I was a secret for a long time. Actually, it was when I first got on the internet years ago and started out in chat for a while, and talked to others like me, that I started really feeling better about myself. I realized how many thousands, actually millions of others just like me there were out there. That helped me come out of my shell, accept myself more, and enabled me to come out to others in my life, be accepted, and find love as well. You have people here who will accept you as your friend, and hopefully, that will help you accept who you are. I used to feel just like you do...I know!

i'll be your friend, your best friend.

i'll be your friend :) xx <3

I don't know what's better, thinking you have love, only to be miserably hurt and shut out in the end, or never having love. I've been seriously hurt by "love" before, and many times, for a long time, thought I was destined to not ever find TRUE love, and be happy, but eventually, true love found me, and here I am married, with 1 child and one on the way. Good luck, be yourself, you'll find someone eventually. There seem to be some nice people on here, I'm sure that would befriend you. Stay in the mix here, maybe you can start feeling better about yourself, and your situation if you stay involved here, and take some of the advice that's given here.

You do have love, the most endless love you could possibly have. God's Love, and he accepts you no matter what choices you have made in life. -Jessica Edgell soon to be Zeidler.

Maybe to make friends try a gay and lesbian support group or a club of some sort. Finding people with the same interests is a great way to make friends.

Now look i may be new to this site but listen if you're out to find that special person you have to look in the most inconvenient places just the same for friends.look for people with integrity. I grew up in Brick city New Jersey and there were fools killin each other just cus they live on the wrong side of town. now as i got older i began to realize that if you want to make friends or love somebody you shouldn't care where there from and the same should go for you. If you are looking for some one special don't just look at the way they carry themselves if you base your actions on that i promise things will be difficult but the most important thing to know is never give up b/c you aren't the same as every one else. that's all i gotta say...good luck i hope you find that person

Okay, I'm gonna lay my theory down on you. I call it the James W. Manifestation of Power Theory. I truly believe that whatever you believe to be true in your mind will be true in your life. Essentially you can make manifest of anything in your life by just believing it to be true. But there is a catch, you have to truly believe it with every fiber of your being. If there is even a shadow of a doubt in your mind, then it will not be. So, what you need to do is start believing things that you want to make manifest in your life. Say "I am a likable person, and I have many friends". Now this does not have to be true at the outset, but if you truly believe it, then it will begin to happen. People are good at reading each other. If you feel like you have no friends, it will show in everything you do. You will give off negative body language, and you will speak with a meek tone of voice. I know, because I have gone through this before. I used to be in your place. Basically, what I am trying to say is that you need to start believing things that you want to make out of your life. Then, if you actually believe them to be facts, they will begin to happen, and you will notice changes, not only in your life, but also in your own attitude. If you want to talk about this, or anything else, just drop me a line.

Sounds like you keep setting yourself up to fail, think about it.

have self confidence never bring your self down and never regeret to be the person you are.true love will come to you so dont breake your skull trying to find it.friends are made by who you are.friends are made by socialising and not all people are cruel so give it a try and talk to random people thats what i do and i make friends=)dont be shy live life because life is to short.party and meet people.just have fun.

Be yourself and don't let anyone make you feel you have to change who you are because i am sure that who you are is a wonderful person. I would be happy to be friends with you x

One place you COULD go would be if your community has a Unitarian Universalist church. That's UU Church. There is always a GLTGB population within the UU church. The people there are accepting of anyone and it might help you to make friends - any kind of friends - not just gay or lesbian friends. You have value in the world. Know what it is and use it. It will teach you to love yourself when you can see that others can love you. You are young - do not judge success or failure on how many love affairs you have had at 16. Love/lust/like/all of that comes when you are ready to receive it.

All you need to do is to give love. Forget everything else. Just Give Love and be Love, so much love will come back to you, that you might feel overwhelmed by love.

Don't be worried :D i like you , i will love you and i will be your friend :D sexuality has nothing to do with friendship :D

Sounds like you lack the self confidence to attract friends. People gravitate toward a positive self confidant person.

Ill be your friend I'm a lesbian as well.