ANSWERS: 10
  • maybe hes embarrassed and meant it. or regrets it and didn't mean it. this is why I don't drink.
  • He is giving you his answer by refusing to answer! Take the hint and leave it alone.
  • Never believe anything a drunk says or does. If he meant it, he would own up to it.
  • You might have crushed him. It would be tough for me to respond to you too, especially if he has deep feelings for you and finally mustered up the courage to put your friendship on the line for something better and got not only shut down, but yelled at. Good luck.
  • Appologize to him and give him time to get over you yelling at him when he was telling you something very serious to him. It probably hurt his feelings. Let him know that you remember what he said and let him know that at the time you were not quite yourself, but taht you didn't mean to hurt his feelings.
  • Men are sensitive, & yelling at him probably crushed his ego a little. He probably really cares for you & feels like you think it's a joke.
  • Maybe you could arrange a meeting with him and ask him in person? That way you could kind of press the issue.
  • No question he meant it. It was probably really hard for him to work up the courage to say it, so he said it in a moment when he thought you might have been vulnerable enough to accept it. Tell him what you feel.
  • Sounds like he's either a predator, or he has repressed feelings for you. So, either walk away (run, really) or take some time to investigate the predatory possibility. (Talk to other girls who know him and may have been drinking around him.) I generally think that informing yourself is the best course of action, but you may do well in the end to run anyway.
  • He opened himself up to you, and you squashed him like a bug when you yelled at him. I wouldn't answer either. I would just think you were looking to continue chewing my butt. It takes enormous amounts of courage to step up to a plate like that sometimes. Go slow with him, he may come around.

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