well, I'm a girl, and you know what, it's not really socially accepted for us to wear skirts and dresses.
I do see men wearing kilts quite often in my area, of course, so no one complains and thus a lot of local men can get away with wearing "skirts" that way. I love a man in a kilt. Give me a guy who wears a kilt any day.
Of course, there are quite a few Goths in the area, and they do wear skirts, which is pretty cool, really, esp when these guys are wearing long black velvet skirts! OMG! That is so hot!
Of course, then there are the trannies and drag queens, who, OMG! I love these guys! I soooo want to marry a drag queen. I would love to be the wife of a drag queen. Those guys are just absolutely amazing. I've meet several drag queens and they just have this great attitude about everything, they are so, in love with life.
Now, for you men out their who want to wear skirts and dresses but aren't because you feel it's not socially acceptable, I have a question: What is stopping you from wearing them every day? around the house, around town, to school, to work, to church, going shopping.... why do you need to go to a party to wear them. Hell, you could be wearing one of them right now while you're sitting at the computer. I am. I'm wearing a black velvet ball gown right this very instant. Granted I'm a girl, but do you realize, how much slack I get for the way I dress, even though I'm a girl?
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I'm what is called a "life actor". I pretty much wear whatever Liberace would wear 24/7 and nothing else. I look like I just walked out of the 1600's most days. One of the dangers of being a life actor in an area where no one but you is a life actor, is that every time you set a foot outside, people gawk at you and start asking the silliest stupid dang questions. Like:
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Are you promoting a play for the local theater?
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Are you on the way to a costume party?
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Is there a Renaissance Fair nearby?
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Are you a circus clown?
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OMG! It's a Harry Potter fan!
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Are you a witch?
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. . .and my personal favorite:
What the hell planet did you drop off of?!?
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yea . . .okay . . . whatever.
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So what prompts these non-ending string of questions everywhere I go? My cloths.
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My clothen style includes velvet, capes, empire gowns, gowns with trains, burnoose, shawls, runas, fishnet hose, striped stockings, combat boots, velvet, top-hats, long dresses, ruffled frilly skirts, cosplay, Gothic, Lolita, Victorian, Edwardian, velvet, frockcoats, Alice in Wonderland, vampire fashions, Medival fashions, crilolines & petticoats, eyelash-fringe fabric, sequins, beads, glitter, lace, cloaks, ruffles, broomstick skirts, stripes, plaid, poet blouses, peasant dresses, fairy tale princess gowns, faerie outfits, wizard-look stuff, big hats, bright colored hats, ballet flats, platforms, anything that Dracula would love to wear, and stuff like worn by Jem*, The Holigrams, and The Misfits.
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I was dressing like Jem, before Jem was invented.
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I love anything made of velvet!
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I don't like pants: won't wear them, won't own them.
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I the 1980's I wore min-skirts, but as the years have gone by, my dresses and skirts got longer; today my hems sweep the floor and they often have trains. I have one dress that has 7 yards of fabric on the skirt alone, it can be worn with or without hoops.
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No, what I'm wearing is not a costume.
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Yes, I dress like this every day, all day long, even around the house, when working in the garden, and when shoveling manure out of the barn. Yes I am a farmer. Yes, most days the only ones who see my outfits are the chickens.
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No, I don't own any "normal" clothes.
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No, I can't tell you where I bought them, because I didn't buy them, I sewed them.
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No, I can't tell you where to buy the pattern, I didn't buy a pattern I made the pattern. I've been sewing since I was 6 years old when I made my first doll. I made my first ball-gown at age 12. At age 16 I graduated from a 2 year course in fashion design & merchandising. I've spent most of my life studying fashion history and the art of recreating historical clothen from the Gothic periods (1300 - 1500 & 1850 - 1930), and those are the clothes I thus wear.
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No I already told you this is not a costume, these are my regular cloths, I don't care if you think this is a costume, it is not, please stop asking me if it is.
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I don't like people who think I'm wearing a costume even after been told that I am not.
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Yes, I know this looks like a Willy Wonka costume, yes, Johnny Depp inspired it. Yes, I do wear a top hat everywhere I go. No, I repeat this is not a costume.
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Yes, I REALLY am making a historical reproduction of Lord Sesshomaru's costume, and yes, I do intend to wear it, fluffy tail, battle armor, and all, as part of my daily wear.
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Now, I ask again, what is stopping you from wearing whatever you want to wear when ever you want to wear it? To hell with what people think.
Any other questions?
Comments
personally, I think people should wear whatever they want.
by jangobean on August 31st, 2008
I always wear skirts or dresses in the house and I'm a 52 year male
will be buying some new ones in a couple of weeks plus new some panties and bras and pantyhose to go with them
by Pantyhose wearer on August 12th, 2009