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  • This is one of the most ignorant things I have ever heard. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For instance....many people think Kirsten Dunst is attractive...I find her repulsive....it is an opinion...
  • Should ugly men be shot so they don't spoil the view for women? I'm finding your questions very strange- assuming you're not trollin (and I'll give the benefit of the doubt) you seem to be projecting your feelings about yourself onto men. Men are not out to get you, they are not motivated solely by sexual impulses, they are not selfish, they are not violent rapists,. Yes, there are some men like that, but its because they are horrible people, NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE MEN! Its not a case of women being the weak innocent and vulnerable ones who are preyed on by big bad males. If you cast yourself in this downtrodden vulnerable role, constantly looking for re-inforcement to justify your beliefs about men (for the sheer satisfaction of saying "I told you so.") those are the kinds of men you will meet, and even if you don't you will continue to see the worst in the men you do meet. If you are ever going to feel better about yourself and have a fulfilling relationship with a man or a woman you need to deal with your feelings and realise which of your perceptions are based in reality and which are just projections of how you feel about yourself. You were hurt by a man in the past maybe, it doesn't follow that allmen are callous as that. I was once hurt by someone with blond hair- does it therefore follow that all blond people are evil? Of course not. I really think it sounds like you need to talk about your feelings about yourself and about men with a qualified counsellor.

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