I don't know about most men, but I can tell you that I would not. ************* "nitanitro: How is aging betrayal?! Real love is not based on looks, I'm sure Glenn is not shallow and truly loves his wife." "bowlinggreen: What if you wife betrayed you by aging or something?" Actually, I am not yet married and never have been. However, the woman I eventually marry will have to be an active member of my Church in good standing. As such, she could not be a porn star. There is so much more to a relationship than mere physical beauty. In my Church we believe that marriage is meant to last for eternity and that is the kind of relationship for which I am looking. Such a relationship must be more than skin deep. It must be based on a true commitment to work through problems together. It must last through all of the trials of mortality. I look forward to finding a woman with whom I can grow old. The kind of relationship that I am looking for is described in a song called the First Touch. I went looking for the lyrics to this song, but did not find them. (I found others of the same name, but not this one.) In this song a man is telling of his experiences with his wife. He talks about how he courted her, their wedding day, the day she gave birth to their first child, and the day they became empty nesters. At the end of each of these verses, he says that he thought that he knew what love was. The final verse describes him saying good bye to his wife as she closes her eyes in death. That verse ends with him saying that he now knows what love is. This is what I want out of life, a relationship that continues to grow stronger and deeper as it goes. Such a relationship does not end just because we grow old nor does it have to end with death. I know that somewhere where out there is a woman with whom I can share this type of relationship. It is quite possible that I have now found her. I also know that there is someone out there for you, bowlinggreen, but you have to do your part to prepare for him. You have to learn to give up your anger and bitterness. You have to learn how to be happy with yourself. You have to forgive yourself for something that was not your fault. When you can do this, you will find that life is much sweeter and you will be ready for the kind of loving relationship that you do deserve.

Not any good husbands.

I know mine wouldn't.... he's got something that is rare... good morals, decency, respect and loyalty... and oh ya.. he loves me.

You could ask the same question about "most wives". Remember that its not only men who are capable of betrayal. The answer would be the same- some would, but any husband or wife worth having would have a little more integrity than that.

No I wouldnt. Just imagine how many well endowered and experienced guys that porn star has been with. Do you really want to compete with that?

If a prostitute is someone paid for sex. And porn stars are paid to have sex on film. Wouldn't that make them, Prostitutes with incriminating evidence? What husband in his right mind would leave his wife for a prostitute? I'll just stick with my soon-to-be wife.

Yes,...but its only a matter of time before the cheating dog will come crawling back. Porn Stars are expensive to upkeep, and unless your husband can afford her lifestyle, he won't last very long.

No. There are 2 types of women. Ones you want to sleep with and ones you want to have a relationship with. Ideally I would like the possible mother of my children to be a 'nice girl', to have morals, not to have slept with half the local population etc etc.

No. I don't think most men (or women) are so shallow to think that sex is the only thing to make a meaningful relationship.

Not the smart ones. And not my Brian, if he knows what is good for him. =) The porn star and I will both get old and wrinkly and I will still be amazing. Hopefully my husband still wants amazing after like 40 years.

I don't think Porn Stars are loving, caring, know how to cook, clean or raise children.

Only if he's an insecure, amoral, shallow, and immature jerk. At least with her he'd be with someone on his level. And if that's the case you're better off with out him.

Mine would. He's bored with me after 26 years of married life and spent hours watching porn, while I'm always available. I thought he was a good man until I found the 3 condoms in his pickup truck. He left and I'm glad. Have all the sex he wants (he's 62) and the hottest porn star he can handle. I'm done.

Only the unhappy ones. People may marry for sex, but that isn't what keeps them together. Keep asking questions, you have a lot to learn. pts for the Q!

No I think most husbands love their wives but they might use the porn star as fantasy fodder and that's fine.

Would I want to be married to someone who publicly fornicates for a living? Tempting, but no.