If you are a guy and once had anal sex with another guy, a long time ago, does that mean you are gay?
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Beege69
ANSWERS: 14
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I would agree with Auntie Em - one eposide os not a lifestyle. I would also say that beign ga or straight is not a black and white division. Lots of people are a bit gay, or very but not totally gay. There is not absolute division, just there is not absolute division between tall and short.
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Sexual orientation is not a dichotomy, but rather a continuum. Each of us falls somewhere along it. Some of us are really far on the heterosexual side. Some are very far on the homosexual side. Most are somewhere in betweeen. So, a single incident of homosexual sex is not sufficient for you to be labelled "gay." (on a side note, I don't like labels) Even if it did, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being who you are.
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OH, YES, you're totally gay, or at least straight with Bi tendencies!
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OH YES TOTALLY NO QUESTION ABOUT IT THERE'S NO DOUBT IF YOU NEED TO ASK!!....WELL I AM JUST KIDDING, NO EVERYONE HAS A TENDENCY TO TRY-OUT NEW THINGS EVEN SEX-WISE THAT DOSN T MEAN YOU ARE GAY OR BI OR INTO S&M OR REALLY MEAN ANYTHING ,,,NOT EVERY ONE HAS THE WILLINGNESS OR COURAGE TO TRY DIFFERENT THINGS JUST KEEP COOL .
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If the guy thinks about it and has no guilt than yes, or he could be a bisexual.
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Well what the hell were you thinking? It doesn't make you gay but whoaa dont tell it to your Mom.
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Definitely not. I experimented with gay sex in my 20's. I adored sucking a man's stiff penis or being screwed by a man. That was a long time ago. I often miss the oral sex the most, and swallowing... and sometimes miss the anal sex. I left that lifestyle behind because I did not feel an emotional attachment to the men I was having sex with... and that emotional attachment IS felt while having sex with women. Gayness, in my opinion, revolves around whether or not a man can be emotionally attached to another man... and NOT around how much fun the sex is or how good it felt. I would gladly let my girlfriend watch me suck another man, or let her watch him screw me, if she would ask me to... but it would definitely be her that I go home with. She knows all about my experimenting with gay sex... and she SOooo wants to buy a certain toy that she would wear, and have sex with it. What a lucky man I am.
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Sexuality is a continuum, you need to figure out where you fit along it, a lot of people are bisexual and enjoy sex in one form or other with both sexes.
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I think you're just as gay or as straight as you feel...what counts is the here and now, not past experiences.
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no - you just had sex, having a good time doesnt need any lables - whatevr u think/feel thats it.
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We are all too caught up in labels. Have you ever noticed that the more creative people in our culture have been involved with atthe very least, experimentation? Devinche, Bowie, Steven Tyler, Truman Capote, the list goes on. I havea preference for woman, and love to touch them and be touched by them, but I also loved the feeling of feeling a man's penis in my mouth.
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First "gay" is a label. Don't get so hung up on labels. It is a state of mind, not a sexual act or two. I know of men who have sex with other men who do not consider themselves to be gay. Others might, but so what? I know of men who are celibate, and yet consider themselves gay. If you have never had sex, where does the orientation come in. It is all in your mind.
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I have anal sex about once a month with various partner, only if i can't find a female to satisfy me. In public i look at women as gods and only go to place for male sex in dark secluded area when I'm hard up. I don't consider myself gay because I don't look at other men, like I do women. If women had cocks it might be different. I like breasts, blow-jobs and vagina's, along with my anal passage being stuffed once in a while by 1-2-3+ guys. I being used for sex once in a while and getting a BJ as well. At least with girls I don't have to find hiding spots to have sex.
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No definately not. If it was a one time thing and you don't want to do it again then that was an experiment. Many people try same sex and decide its not for them, I did, and they are straight as far as I'm concerned it was just an experiment. If you used marijuana once are you a stoner?
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