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by Beege69 on August 29th, 2006

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If you are a guy and once had anal sex with another guy, a long time ago, does that mean you are gay?

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  • by NJBSTL on September 24th, 2006

    NJBSTL

    OH, YES, you're totally gay, or at least straight with Bi tendencies!

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  • by AntigoneRising on September 19th, 2006

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    Sexual orientation is not a dichotomy, but rather a continuum. Each of us falls somewhere along it. Some of us are really far on the heterosexual side. Some are very far on the homosexual side. Most are somewhere in betweeen.

    So, a single incident of homosexual sex is not sufficient for you to be labelled "gay." (on a side note, I don't like labels) Even if it did, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being who you are.

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  • by Monkey on February 11th, 2008

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    No definately not. If it was a one time thing and you don't want to do it again then that was an experiment. Many people try same sex and decide its not for them, I did, and they are straight as far as I'm concerned it was just an experiment. If you used marijuana once are you a stoner?

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  • by PeterODB on February 11th, 2008

    PeterODB

    I have anal sex about once a month with various partner, only if i can't find a female to satisfy me. In public i look at women as gods and only go to place for male sex in dark secluded area when I'm hard up. I don't consider myself gay because I don't look at other men, like I do women. If women had cocks it might be different. I like breasts, blow-jobs and vagina's, along with my anal passage being stuffed once in a while by 1-2-3+ guys. I being used for sex once in a while and getting a BJ as well. At least with girls I don't have to find hiding spots to have sex.

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  • by My Favourite Life on January 16th, 2008

    My Favourite Life

    First "gay" is a label. Don't get so hung up on labels. It is a state of mind, not a sexual act or two. I know of men who have sex with other men who do not consider themselves to be gay. Others might, but so what? I know of men who are celibate, and yet consider themselves gay. If you have never had sex, where does the orientation come in. It is all in your mind.

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  • by Flapdoodle on August 12th, 2007

    Flapdoodle

    Well what the hell were you thinking? It doesn't make you gay but whoaa dont tell it to your Mom.

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  • by jjmack on December 28th, 2007

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    We are all too caught up in labels. Have you ever noticed that the more creative people in our culture have been involved with atthe very least, experimentation? Devinche, Bowie, Steven Tyler, Truman Capote, the list goes on.

    I havea preference for woman, and love to touch them and be touched by them, but I also loved the feeling of feeling a man's penis in my mouth.

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  • by Michael Kline on December 2nd, 2007

    Michael Kline

    no - you just had sex, having a good time doesnt need any lables - whatevr u think/feel thats it.

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  • by Dennis Schwarz on November 18th, 2007

    Dennis Schwarz

    I think you're just as gay or as straight as you feel...what counts is the here and now, not past experiences.

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  • by Norman_Outside the lines on October 5th, 2006

    Norman_Outside the lines

    OH YES
    TOTALLY
    NO QUESTION ABOUT IT
    THERE'S NO DOUBT IF YOU NEED TO ASK!!....WELL

    I AM JUST KIDDING, NO EVERYONE HAS A TENDENCY TO TRY-OUT NEW THINGS EVEN SEX-WISE THAT DOSN T MEAN YOU ARE GAY OR BI OR INTO S&M OR REALLY MEAN ANYTHING ,,,NOT EVERY ONE HAS THE WILLINGNESS OR COURAGE TO TRY DIFFERENT THINGS
    JUST KEEP COOL .

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  • by Im Alec has abandoned this account on August 30th, 2006

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    I would agree with Auntie Em - one eposide os not a lifestyle. I would also say that beign ga or straight is not a black and white division. Lots of people are a bit gay, or very but not totally gay. There is not absolute division, just there is not absolute division between tall and short.

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  • by Millionz on October 6th, 2006

    Millionz

    If the guy thinks about it and has no guilt than yes, or he could be a bisexual.

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  • by Delwin on November 10th, 2007

    Delwin

    Definitely not. I experimented with gay sex in my 20's. I adored sucking a man's stiff penis or being screwed by a man. That was a long time ago.

    I often miss the oral sex the most, and swallowing... and sometimes miss the anal sex. I left that lifestyle behind because I did not feel an emotional attachment to the men I was having sex with... and that emotional attachment IS felt while having sex with women.

    Gayness, in my opinion, revolves around whether or not a man can be emotionally attached to another man... and NOT around how much fun the sex is or how good it felt.

    I would gladly let my girlfriend watch me suck another man, or let her watch him screw me, if she would ask me to... but it would definitely be her that I go home with. She knows all about my experimenting with gay sex... and she SOooo wants to buy a certain toy that she would wear, and have sex with it. What a lucky man I am.

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  • by highlandlass on November 10th, 2007

    highlandlass

    Sexuality is a continuum, you need to figure out where you fit along it, a lot of people are bisexual and enjoy sex in one form or other with both sexes.

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  • by mlee6050 on April 23rd, 2010

    mlee6050

    if you have it once a week or less and you think about a girl or you having sex with a girl instead of think about what's happening at the moment then you are not but if you fuck a girl in the anus and think about the guy you was with and not of the moment when you are with the girl you are gay

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