I like to receive cunnilingus but sometimes I feel like my boyfriend performs it too hard. How do I communicate that to him so that he doesn't think that something is wrong with me or that something is wrong with him?
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wildfire
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mabye you can try pushing his head away a bit, but that's just a thought.
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While you're making out, whisper it sexily in his ear how you want it soft and gentle and slow
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softer softer aahhhhhhhhhh thats it ooooo like that thats the way oooooooo. Believe me as a fella if I was hearing that I would do anything to hear more
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just let him know, open your mouth and tell him it nis hurting. If my husband is hurting me i let him know and he does something about it. It's called communication.
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someone has already said "communicate" with him. If you don't tell him he won't know. If you want to wait until he is ready to go down on you that is ok too. Just say something like "darling, can you do that a little softer please"? I promise you he will ease up and you both will over flow.
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Guys, or at least I, have never minded a girl telling me what I could do better. Don't be a "B" about it, but if you just gently tell him what to do different, he'll probably be receptive to it.
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Guys are direct. See a problem, fix a problem. Tell him its a problem and that you want to try it another way.
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as a guy, have him do the alphabet with his tongue on your clit.....you will probably faint if he does this correctly...haha....take care.....B
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The NICE way to do it would be moan something along the lines of "softer ... slower ... just like that" and then to give him positive feedback when he gets it right. There is nothing wrong with acting up a little bit. In addition, there's nothing wrong with telling it to him straight, for example after sex. Just try not to make it sound as if you're nagging.
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The best sexual relationships are the ones with communication.
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Just be honest, tell him you want it, but if really wants you to enjoy it then do it softer because it is making you a little sore you noticed, trust me that he will not like to hear this but he will like that you enjoy it, and still want it, and he will appreciate that you could tell him!
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when hes down there licking too hard, say ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh baby not so hard, ill orgasm faster if you do it slow. if that doesn't work then grab him by the hair and forcefully pull his head away, some guys like that.
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have him do the alphabet gently with his tongue down there.............i am sure you will be screaming before he gets to Z....haha....take care.....Brian....
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Push him away when it is too hard and if he or she asks you why then say "I don't know". Eventually he or she will stop and proceed to try another form. When he or she finds the proper spot then give him or her some possitive cunnillingus communication. Shape your boyfriend into an adept cunnilingus pleaser.
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Communicate your needs directly to him. Tell him if he does it right, you'll be able to give him a mind blowing experience.
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what the heck is cunnilingus if you dont mind my asking
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just like you would train a dog. reward him with praise when he does right, and dont react when it isnt working for you. Before long hell be able to know what you want before you do.. good luck wildfire!!
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The single most important thing in a relationship is communication, If you can't talk to each other, your not going to make it work. You might try something like, "Honey, that was fantastic, but next time could you go just a little softer." Or during sex, just whisper in his ear,"A little softer please". Most guys respond quite well to our requests, if you do it right.
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Bite the bullet and just ask him to do it a little softer. If he wants to do it in the first place then he'll listen to anything you have to say to make it better x
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Tell him something like this: "Hey babie, easy, slow down some, feel the goodness, make Love to it. Don't hurt it."
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Just tell him. If he's willing to eat it I sure he wants to be the best at it to you.
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