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ANSWERS: 46
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Yes its very wroug, but he's married not you but sometimes we love these guys can't help it.
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I love a married man. It's my husband.
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It would be for me
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Not if your his wife.
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No, as long as you don't try to break up his marriage. You can love him, but he's not yours. Remember that. You'll forget him eventually but you'll never forgive yourself if you ruin his marriage/family.
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No. Its wrong to date him and sleep with him.
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Not as long as he is your husband. LOL. Seriously, you can love anyone, there is nothing wrong with that.
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not if he's your husband..
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Let's get one thing straight: You can't control whom you love. Do gay people choose to be gay? Do pedophiles choose to be pedophiles? You can love another man who happens to be married, and it's perfectly fine. But it would be wrong under nuptial vows to act upon your feelings.
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Uhhh....yeah. I would think so. What if you were the wife?
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Not if that married man is your husband.
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Imagine you are his wife and he has a girl friend.
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everyone is gonna tell you its wrong and inciest and all that kind of crap, but if you love him and he loves you back its not wrong...the only thing thats' wrong is that he's married...i am too in love with a married man an he is in love w/ me and we both dont see the 'wrong' but we know its wrong...so just go for it if you love him and he loves you back...
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It's not wrong if you ONLY love him with him from AFAR. If you are in a relationship with him or talking to him in a romantic way. than it's wrong. If you love him from afar, It's not wrong. But stay away from married men. Even if they say they love you bakc and all that it's BS, it's probably not true. If he REALLY loved YOU than he'd leave his wife. Alot of married men would probably say they don't want to leave her cuz of kids or the wife will take his money etc. But it's all BS. Stay far far far away!!!!!!!!! Plus, that's so not fair to do to somebody's wife.
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You love who your heart tells you to love thats not wrong. But when you act on that love when that person is committed to another that is when it is wrong!!!
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No, but it is wrong to try to get him to love you back.
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no, but it is wrong to act on it.
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No, not if he's married to you, or if he's your family member.
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It's wrong, but it happens...
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inconvenient as hell too-been there
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No, if he is your married man.
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If you truely "Love" him than don't injure his marriage.
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Not if you are the one married to him.
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The most understood answer you have received many times over; it is not good. I will however give you a different answer. IF the wife of the man knows and is in agreement then there is NO problem. In a polyamorus relationship this is common and Biblically is not a sin nor is it adultery nor is it cheating. Many women and men also for that reason simply answer this in saying, "I don't share." This then comes under two headings, they do not understand they polyamous lifestyle, or they have other reasons they do not wish too as it is just against what they believe. Statistics however show those in a polyamous lifestyle have a divorce rate of around 5% while even the very religious have a divorce rate of 35%. There must be a very good reason for this large difference, and it is trust. So it is not wrong to love a married man, what is necessary is unederstanding the proper way to do it.
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As long as your married to him...then there isn't an issue...if he belongs to another...then it isn't good....
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In a "sexual" way. . . . . . . . yes!
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Yes. The man is taken already, come to terms with that. The only thing worse would be to act on this misplaced love and ruin things.
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No. I mean you can not help who you fall for.
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not if you are the lucky one married to him!
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No, but you should get over it soon before you lust anymore.
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Some married men and women love another person in their hearts their whole married lives but don't actually act on it. You can't help who you love, but you can help what you do about it.
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not wrong to like him, but wrong to act on it. flirting, dating, sex = not okay.
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not if he is ur husband
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if you are single its not a good idea. In the end, the married dude who you choose will always choose to stay with the wife.....why you ask? Becuase when the married guy realizes how much its going to cost him to divorce her...he always sticks with the wife. He ends up going to a psychitrist to "work on his problems" and to come to the conclusion that he cheated with you because its all his parents fault. In the end your going to lose. Your going to be hurt and you have to ask yourself, was it worth it? No one but you will be able to answer that question when you get found out. And trust me on this....you and he will get found out. Guys arent that smooth/smart. Good luck.
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Your'e cheating yourself out of all the possible, wonderful people that you could meet that are AVAILABLE...but, love who you want to love...
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No, but you might consider your course of action. Take the kids into consideration if there are any. Personally, if a girl is happily married, I will just simply ignore any feelings for her.
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Yes. Of course. If you thought it was right you wouldn't have asked.
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YES; it is ... IF you cannot find your own single man ... Why the need to STEAL someone else's man and break up a home and possibly a family ... ? That is just WRONG and IMMORAL !
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I honestly believe you can't help who you fall in love with....it's for you to decide where to take it from here.
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There's nothing wrong with loving someone, but choosing to lure a married man is wrong in my opinion. This is especially true if he has kids. Kids that grow up in a broken family are never the same.
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Yes it's wrong for you because it's only going to bring you pain. Been there and done that, just like many women have so don't let anyone fool you. Your best bet is to walk away no matter what he says. They are at their best with the other woman because they want to continue to use her as an outlet even if he genuily loves her. You are his escape from his other life. A stress reliever. Walk away for your own sake. Trust me on this. It's never worth it and if he does leave her for you he will do you the same way. Good luck.
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unless he is your brother, yes, its wrong in every sense of the word.
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No. It's your feelings, you can't help them.
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Ah, but is it wrong to marry a man who is already loved?
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its not wrong...but, to try to get involved and possibly endanger the marriage is big time wrong.
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No, it's not wrong to love your husband!
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